What Would YOU Do?

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Real Estate Agent with www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 228209

What Would YOU Do?

I don’t know if you remember the series that shared a similar title (maybe the same title). The premise was that actors would present a non-PC or unethical situation and while being watched on hidden camera, some people displayed incredibly ethical, caring and compassionate behavior in response to the actors’ scenarios.

Ethics

Now, where I’m going with this is real estate related. We have our ethics that we are sworn to abide by. Many of us have even stricter personal ethics that make our Realtor® ethics seem minimal to us. Have you thought about how a COVID situation could impact your own standards, simply because of your own personal beliefs?

 

This situation is purely fictional but, it is based on something that did happen in a totally unrelated profession. Regardless, I would love to see how others would respond to this situation. 

 

It’s really very simple - You are the listing agent, showing homes to dear friends who are your buyers. Two days after showing 4 luxury listings, your buyers let you know that they just tested positive for COVID. While they were asymptomatic, they wanted to let you know. You just happened to have just been tested and were negative. 

However, you did have a listing agent who accompanied you through one of the listings that you showed two days prior. Do you share that your clients both tested positive for COVID or do you keep this your little secret? Or, do you believe that because they are positive but, asymptomatic, they are not contagious? 

 

Further, you dined out for lunch and your friends don’t want you to notify the diner where you had lunch, of their positive results. Do you notify them anyway? You know the owners of the diner who, coincidentally, spent time talking to you and your friends at your table. Of course, during the time in the restaurant, no masks were worn by the COVID-positive buyers but, were worn by the wait staff and the owner.

 

What would you do?

 

© Debe Maxwell | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | CharlotteBroker@icloud.com | What Would YOU Do?

Comments (31)

Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

I don't even think this requires leadership, Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 - I think it requires integrity and compassion. We've all heard 10 months of news reports on the subject. There is no doubt in my mind that I wouldn't be able to pick up the phone fast enough to contact everyone I had been in contact with!

Dec 16, 2020 08:07 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Debe,  I have a clipboard in my car with date and name of people I am in contact with.  If I find out someone has it if it with the time period I inform them.

 

Dec 16, 2020 09:06 AM
Anna Banana Kruchten CRS, CRB, Phoenix Broker
HomeSmart Real Estate BR030809000 - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

That's easy Debe Maxwell, CRS . I would disclose to make sure if covid was  possibly spread to anyone around me to let them know immediately. To me it's simply the right thing to do.

 

I do rememer that show!

Dec 16, 2020 10:52 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Debe it would be very unethical not to notify in both situations.  It does not make any sense not to notify.

Also I would go get tested in case I needed to further notify others I might have come in contact during that time period.

Dec 16, 2020 02:35 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Hi Debe - I was taught by my mentors, do the right thing.  In your context the right thing is to disclose and protect.

Dec 16, 2020 05:56 PM
Kathy Streib
Room Service Home Staging - Delray Beach, FL
Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224

Hi Debe- no doubt and no hesitation...disclose. It is the right and ethical thing to do. It goes back to the Golden Rule...Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. 

Dec 16, 2020 08:13 PM
Kathy Streib
Room Service Home Staging - Delray Beach, FL
Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224

I had to come back to say I love what Will Hamm does. Who can remember everyone they come in contact with!!!

Dec 17, 2020 09:13 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

Will Hamm, what a novel idea - I love it! For us, it's an easy thing to do (in our profession). I worry about those working in dining establishments though - not being told when one of their patrons whom they served, has tested positive.

Dec 17, 2020 07:19 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

Same here, Anna Banana Kruchten CRS CRB, Phoenix Broker! I just found out the friend who was not told did test negative. Thankfully, she is okay (she's actually immunocompromised).

What is also sad about it - they didn't find out until too late in the exposure period. So, basically, they passed the time that IF they WERE positive and without any symptoms, they wouldn't know it. They are now negative - so they don't know if they didn't pick up the virus and are simply negative OR now they are immune after having been positive. (If that makes any sense). 

The point - they deprived her of knowing if she is now immune or if she just luckily didn't get it. It's so sad that people are so self-absorbed that they would pull something like this to someone else's possible demise.

And, I loved that show! It may just be off of the air right now because a lot of what they did was in close proximity - in bars & restaurants. I hope that's what is going on - I really did enjoy it!

Dec 17, 2020 07:26 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

I totally agree, George Souto! She did get tested and she just found out today she is negative. It's definitely not something she should have worried about for as long as she did!

Dec 17, 2020 07:27 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

I'm with you 100%, Grant Schneider - always do the right thing and you'll never worry about not being able to sleep at night!!

Dec 17, 2020 07:28 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

YES! The Golden Rule! I wonder if the deceiptful folks would have liked to be left to figure it out on their own...or simply KNOWN! It really does make my blood boil to know what they did to the people they deceived.

And, I also love Will Hamm's idea, Kathy Streib - what a thoughtful thing to do!

Dec 17, 2020 07:30 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Property Manager

Hi Debe,
This darn COVID thing is so difficult to track it's only right to notify people if you KNOW you've been around someone who tested positive or was exposed to someone who was. Many states have started making tracking apps available. I resisted downloading it for a while because it just seems creepy. In the end, though, I did download it because I want to know if I've been exposed, and I want anyone I exposed to know.   It goes back to that Golden Rule thing, doesn't it?

Dec 19, 2020 06:55 AM
Elyse Berman, PA
Best Connections Realty, Inc. - Boca Raton, FL
Boca Raton FL (561) 716-7824 CRS, ABR, GRI,ePR

Hi Debe Maxwell, CRS I would tell everyone without disclosing names.  I really think they need to know.  I wouldn't be able to live with myself if I didn't.

Dec 19, 2020 03:41 PM
Kathy Streib
Room Service Home Staging - Delray Beach, FL
Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224

                   

Dec 19, 2020 07:56 PM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Debe-That is awful and scary. Glad you and your friend are O.K. As to the others who didn't disclose that information.  Shame on them,  

Dec 20, 2020 05:55 AM
Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD
ViewHomes of Clark County - Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
REALTORS® in Clark County, WA

Oh my goodness. First of all, glad you're okay. I would tell everyone! There is only one right answer to your scenario.

We have a sister-in-law in Florida who is very ill with Covid - she's in the ICU. We are praying she makes it. She is in her early 50's and is a teacher with no health issues. She and her husband did frequently go out to dine with friends and family. He sent his siblings ( Bernie is one of them) a long text telling them how serious this is illness can be, and to be very careful and wear masks and social distance. They weren't very serious about it prior to her getting so sick. Apparently, he has a mild case with coughing and fatigue, you just never know how it is going to impact one person to the next. 

Dec 20, 2020 07:46 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

Hi Debe Maxwell, CRS - We have to track all showings.  It has been a part of our process from the beginning.

 I would absolutely inform all parties that could possibly have been infected.  I would also self-quarentine for at least 10 days.  This includes the restaurant.  I would hope that any of my friends would never put me in a situation that might compromise my ethics.  I might have to rethink that friendship as well. 

Dec 20, 2020 01:01 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

disclose disclose disclose.  I have told EVERYONE who comes into my office that I babysit my grandson who has two exposed parents regularly.  I have always been up front with that and referred out buyers accordingly if they didn't want to work with me. I will also share the cleaning regimen I have for my office with anyone who comes in.  And no one has been in my car except my grandson and husband since February.  Of course people need to disclose.  I mean a person may be going to visit their elderly parent, it's all about protecting the most vulnerable , we have to disclose.

Dec 20, 2020 01:13 PM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Debe Maxwell, CRS  I would immediately notify everyone - no question in my mind - Glad Kathy Streib  featured this as I missed it - great post 

Dec 21, 2020 10:55 AM

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