If You Can't Be Jesus, Then Be Joseph

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Real Estate Agent with Realty One Group # S.0190863

I recently stumbled across something I wrote back 10 years ago. I’m reposting it today (also a note at the end that I wrote today)

 

If you can't be Jesus, then be Joseph

Recently, I was talking to a woman in great distress. She thought she was a bad Christian and was not worthy of being baptized. When I asked her why, she stated that she hadn’t become a perfect Christian yet. This statement made me ponder. Have we done such a poor job in explaining Christianity that some people think they can’t find salvation?

  

What people need to realize is that:

 

1)      Christianity isn’t a religion that requires specific actions such as penance, saying specific prayers or whatever in order to correct wrong-doings that had been done, Christianity is a relationship with Christ and with God

 

2)      Christians aren’t perfect – just forgiven. You see, Christ taught us that we are capable of miraculous actions but that we also miss the mark and stray from perfection. What God has already said is that whenever we stray that we are forgiven.

 

3)      Sometimes we don’t need to be Jesus – sometimes Joseph is just fine.

 

You see, some years back there was a huge movement. It was “WWJD” or “What Would Jesus Do?”. The thought being that when you faced a decision, you asked yourself “What would Jesus do?” and follow that answer. Here’s the problem. Some people can never imagine themselves being as perfect as Jesus. So what if you were only Joseph?

 

Think about this. 2,000 years ago loose sexuality was STRICTLY taboo and forbidden. Even if you were divorced you were HIGHLY looked down upon. So think about Joseph. Here he is on love with Mary and engaged to be married and she tells him that she is 3 months pregnant. But her story is that she is pregnant with God’s baby.

 

Do you realize how EASY it would be for Joseph to walk away from Mary and even tarnish her reputation? He could make her a scorned woman and everyone would have been on Joseph’s side. Joseph didn’t make that choice. He chose to trust her against all odds. He chose to waive his rights to walk away from her and make her a scorned woman. He chose to stretch his definition of love so that he could love the child that was not his.

 

Joseph wasn’t perfect and he wasn’t the son of God. However he WAS a man that went out of his way to love and forgive. Maybe you could do that too. Perhaps you can’t be Jesus, but you can be Joseph.

 

 

************   Note from December, 2020:   The ironic part to this post is this: A few years after I wrote this, a local church called me.  They had heard that I sing, dance and act. So they asked me to star in their Christmas musical as the lead character – Joseph.

 

 

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Rocky Dickerson
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Good morning James Dray yes it was a wonderful memory indeed.

Dec 24, 2020 05:44 AM #19
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Good morning and Merry Christmas Roy Kelley may you and the chef have the best of holidays.

Dec 24, 2020 05:45 AM #20
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I'm happy Kathy Streib featured this today. I might have missed it completely, and that would have been a shame. Thank you for a lovely post. 

Dec 27, 2020 08:28 AM #22
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Thank you - lovely post with much to think about.

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Good afternoon Rocky Dickerson ,

I was glad to see Kathy Streib featured it in her "Ah-ha" moments for the week! What a great post to share especially at this time of the year. Hope you had a joyful Christmas as we head down the week to celebrating a new year!

Dec 27, 2020 11:12 AM #24
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Hello Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD glad that you enjoyed it.

Dec 27, 2020 12:12 PM #25
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Hello Margaret Goss and so very glad that you enjoyed it.

Dec 27, 2020 12:13 PM #26
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Thank you Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR so glad that you enjoyed it. Next year will be so much better!

Dec 27, 2020 12:14 PM #27
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Oh my gosh, my first thought when the woman said she wasn't a perfect Christian was, "WAIT! There is no perfect Christian!"

You nailed your advice, Rocky and look what came to you as a result. You don't think anyone but, Jesus had anything to do with guiding you to write that and the local church phoning you to be Joseph, do you?! WOW! I have Godbumps! 

And, the WWJD - too funny but, my mind went where you said a lot of people fall - to the, "I am not sure what he would do - I need to pray about this!!

Dec 27, 2020 01:13 PM #28
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Well, 'Joe' there are no perfect people only those that think they are and they are thinking wrong,  The best we can hope to be is more good than bad.

Dec 27, 2020 02:33 PM #29
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Funny thing was when the church called me Debe Maxwell, CRS and asked me to play Joseph, I  told them there is no way I can play a 15 year old. They were doing a play called "Word On The Street" where the Joseph and Mary story takes place today and I just had to pass for my 30s.

Dec 27, 2020 03:38 PM #30
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Yes Ed Silva that is true. Kind of reminds me of the Matt Chandler quote, "Who I thought was an enemy of the Gospel turned out to just be a victim of religion"

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Good Morning Rocky Dickerson 

Amen and Amen. We are the Innkeepers of our hearts. Do we have room for Jesus in our Inns?

Dec 28, 2020 09:40 AM #32
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Hey there Doug Dawes there must always be room at the inn

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I always strive to be kind with my time which is the most priceless asset we have because when used, you can never get it back. 

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Love love love this post!  I openly admit I am not perfect.  There was only one perfect person that ever walked the face of the earth and he was crucified.  I don't look good in that pose!  I can relate to Joseph though.  However, this year, my role was a bit different . . . aka Santa. :)

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Hello Kimo Jarrett so very true, my friend you can never get it back.

Jan 01, 2021 12:54 PM #36
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Well thank you for visiting Santa Jim Paulson I'll be a good boy all year.

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When we can openly admit our shortcomings and the fact that we are less than perfect, we get just a little bit better

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