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Nina Hollander
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Indeed, it really is up to us... and how fortunate are we to be able to make choices, Alexandra. I learned a very long time ago to listen to my "inner voice." It became clearly quickly that when I didn't I was going down the wrong path. We really need to get our of our own way sometimes.

Dec 21, 2020 04:20 AM #1
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Brian England
Vacasa - Gilbert, AZ
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I will choose to go to the left in that picture since it looks like there are some hills over there!

Dec 21, 2020 05:10 AM #2
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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
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Good morning Alexandra. Some fabulous quotes today, but I like the Denis Waitley quote best. Enjoy your day!

Dec 21, 2020 05:11 AM #3
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Ed Silva
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We presumably have a mind that is our guide to life.  Hopefully we make good choices and live each day in the manner of Groucho Marks

Dec 21, 2020 05:33 AM #4
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Kat Palmiotti
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Yes, yes, yes. We always have a choice. And doing something or doing nothing is us choosing.

Enjoy your day! 

Dec 21, 2020 05:39 AM #5
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Grant Schneider
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Hi Ron and Alexandra Seigel - we do have the free choice and with the choice also comes responsibility.

Dec 21, 2020 05:59 AM #6
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Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
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 Alexandra, It's learning how to be a better thinker that pays off and gives us the countless ability of free choice...

Dec 21, 2020 06:17 AM #7
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
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Nina Hollander listening to that inner voice,  like you stated is of paramount importance.  It is our best ally and our best friend.  Happy Monday, A

Dec 21, 2020 07:03 AM #8
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Roy Kelley
Realty Group Referrals - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much for sharing this story and your excellent selection of quotes. 

Dec 21, 2020 07:12 AM #9
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Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
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Love the sunset and all the quotes but especially the Denis Waitley quote. I think it is awesome all your neighbors will be toasting on Christmas day. Have a great Monday.  

Dec 21, 2020 07:19 AM #10
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
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Brian England There are hills every which way in this area of California, and lots of vineyards, equestrian estates, and ranches...A

Dec 21, 2020 07:54 AM #11
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
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Wayne Martin I also liked the Waitley quote.  It takes whining about how things are out of the picture.  A

Dec 21, 2020 07:55 AM #12
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
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Ed Silva Another Groucho Marx day in our home. And it is a beautiful clear sunny day here in Carpinteria.  A

Dec 21, 2020 07:57 AM #13
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
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Kat Palmiotti that is so true, and I have seen people who just sit and do nothing. A

Dec 21, 2020 08:03 AM #14
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
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Grant Schneider You are absolutely correct.  Happy Monday.  A

Dec 21, 2020 08:04 AM #15
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
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Roy Kelley Thank you for your comment, we appreciate it.  Happy Monday.  A

Dec 21, 2020 08:05 AM #16
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
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Sharon Lee We have a wonderful group of neighbors--kind and thoughtful. Happy Monday.  A

Dec 21, 2020 08:06 AM #17
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Rocky Dickerson
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Good morning Ron and Alexandra Seigel now I have the Rush song, "Free Will" playing through my mind. But I guess I chose that as well.

Dec 21, 2020 08:33 AM #18
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Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
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I have used each of these quotes in my morning thoughts and meditations, they truly inspire me 😃

Merry Christmas week to you both Ron and Alexandra Seigel  

Dec 21, 2020 09:25 AM #19
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Hannah Williams
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel good old Groucho Marx he had the right idea didn't he  -  I also am blessed with wonderful neighbors 

Dec 21, 2020 09:25 AM #20
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
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Rocky Dickerson How fun is that my post prompted a song...and yes, you can always sing another tune.

Dec 21, 2020 09:27 AM #21
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
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Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS I love my morning meditations...I tune in to something outside or a quote as a mantra, and inspiration follows.  A

Dec 21, 2020 09:28 AM #22
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
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Hannah Williams it is wondeerful to have great neighbors.  In the time of shortages, everyone here was willing to share supplies...we all had plenty, but that spirit remains.

Dec 21, 2020 09:30 AM #23
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Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

With a semi sad comment I must say I believe we are losing our free choice (and many other freedoms) as each day goes by in this country. Soon I fear we will be told which direction we MUST choose.

Dec 21, 2020 10:02 AM #24
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Myrl Jeffcoat
GreatWest Realty - Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Real Estate Agent

Today is Winter Solstice.  My grandson and I are putting a couple logs on the fire, I'm cooking up a marinated pork tenderloin, whipped potatoes, and winter squash.  We have a bottle of wine to share.  I hope staying home and staying safe is the message everyone's gut conveys.

Dec 21, 2020 10:10 AM #25
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Myrl Jeffcoat
GreatWest Realty - Sacramento, CA
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CONGRATULATIONS Ron and Alexandra, on having this blog FEATURED in the Old Farts Club group!  

Dec 21, 2020 10:11 AM #26
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
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Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty I understand your concern, but what I am certain of, it that there will always be mavericks amongst all of us.  And those voices will be heard...A

Dec 21, 2020 12:19 PM #27
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
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Myrl Jeffcoat can we drop in for dinner, your menu sounds so good.  We are having sustainably caught local swordfish and a Ceasar Salad, with an excellent Chardonnay (Rombauer) from Napa.

Our neighbor is lonesome like many are these days.  I make a point of talking to her everytime I see her.  I could understand her dilemna !  A

Thank you for the feature.

Dec 21, 2020 12:22 PM #28
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Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
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Hello Ron and Alexandra Seigel, I could talk about this for hours. Having the ability to make a choice is a blessing. Thankfully, we can still do that in this country. I made the decision not to travel over Christmas to see my son. This will be our first Christmas apart and it makes me really sad but I will stand by my decision regardless. 

Dec 21, 2020 02:56 PM #29
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
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Beth Atalay I totally understand, and the only travel we did was to your beautiful state for a meeting and conclusion of a deal that required our presence.  We adhered to all the rules, and returned with continuing good health for both of us.  My nephew wanted us to come to MN, even offered to foot the bill, but we decided against it,and besides that a couple of things came up that has us staying home.  Champagne outside our homes will be a lovely party and a chance to have humans around...A

Dec 21, 2020 04:22 PM #30
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Kathy Streib
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I love this post Ron and Alexandra- I believe we always have a choice...we may not like what we have to choose from but we have a choice nevertheless. And as you said, you can always choose to turn around and start over. 

Dec 21, 2020 06:41 PM #31
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
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Kathy Streib Thank you for your kind words.  We always have a choice, and there are times we forget that...We just give in...A

Dec 21, 2020 07:33 PM #32
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James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR
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Morning Alexandra.

When I woke up this morning I knew it was going to be a great day.  Don't have time for negativity, or a bad day.

Dec 22, 2020 12:43 AM #33
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Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD
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What a lovely moment you shared, and excellent advice. We all have to make our own choices and listen to our own inner voices.  I like the champagne idea. :) 

Dec 22, 2020 10:03 AM #34
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
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James Dray Well said James, not time for negativity or a bad day.  Occasionally one hits a glitch, but then can regain their equilibrium. A

Dec 22, 2020 11:26 AM #35
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
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Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD That sure is a nice idea, and I may add a bottle of ours to the toast.  A

Dec 22, 2020 11:27 AM #36
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Maria Gilda Racelis
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Excellent quotes to live by Ron and Alexandra Seigel ! I  choose to be happy each day I wake up. :)

 

Dec 23, 2020 09:03 AM #37
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Dec 26, 2020 07:12 PM #38
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Dorie Dillard Austin TX
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Good morning Ron and Alexandra Seigel ,

I'm so glad that Kathy Streib featured your post in her "Ah-ha" moments for the week. We always have a choice its up to us. Love the quotes..perfect selection!

Dec 27, 2020 07:10 AM #39
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Am glad this was featured Ron and Alexandra! Happy thoughts about the ability to choose, even not making a choice is a decision made!

Dec 27, 2020 11:48 AM #40
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Jeff Dowler, CRS
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Ron and Alexandra:

I hope you enjoyed your Champagne Celebration with your neighbors! Great idea!

I really liked what you had to say about choices, and the reminder that not making a choice can result in a choice being made for us.

I particularly liked Deepak Chopra's thought!

Jeff

Dec 27, 2020 11:56 AM #41
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Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Realty - Topsfield, MA - Georgetown, MA
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel 

I agree with you 100%. Everything we do is by our own free will decision even if that decision is to follow the herd. All decisions have consequences

Dec 28, 2020 09:22 AM #42
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That was a great post, Ron and Alexander Seige about choices. .  My neighbors and I got together, six feet distance and everybody brought their own wine. I didn't want to travel to Santa Monica to see my son and granddaughter. As you said, we have choices.

Dec 29, 2020 12:11 AM #43
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Brenda J. Andrew
ULTIMA REAL ESTATE - Corpus Christi, TX
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This is such a great post and things people need to hear.  I love your illustration with the road sign.  We are so blessed to live where we do and we have more choices than most people in the world. Have a Happy New Year!  

Dec 29, 2020 05:04 AM #44
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Adrian Willanger
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Cheers to the both of you! its nice opening my morning mail and finding a great positive message.

Dec 29, 2020 06:09 AM #45
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Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
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We celebrated with our close friends outside on the patio--was a warmer day for Kansas City!  At this time--everyone has to make personal choices, and personally assume the risks.

Dec 29, 2020 08:22 AM #46
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Greg Mona
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Hi Ron and Alexandra Seigel. Thank you for this inspirational message and a great reminder that happiness is indeed a choice. If more people understood that, the world would be a much nicer and "happier" place to be. There is always a multitude of things to be grateful for in our respective lives. If you focus on those positive things, happiness will follow. Have a happy New Year!

Dec 29, 2020 08:49 AM #47
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Paddy Deighan JD PhD
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The Waitley quote is one that we should never forget...it seems that today everyone wants your opinion because they are afraid to make a decision themselves - or as you suggest, they want to change the parameters of the process when they really cannot do that.

Dec 29, 2020 12:37 PM #48