There is a time to talk, and a time to listen.

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Real Estate Agent with HomeSmart SA541769000

Listening

 

How do we learn? Is it by talking, or listening? It is often said that when you speak you are only repeating ideas that you already know. But when you listen you learn new things that you may have never learned.

You do not have to agree with what you are hearing, only acknowledge that there are ideas and facts that are different from ours. It is the first step in growing.

The mindset that because we learned something once and that is the way it should always be relegates us to the stone age. We should never forget that there was a time when the smartest people on the planet believed that the world is flat. If you get too close to the edge you will fall off. Their minds were closed. Anyone that thought differently was a heretic or a fool.

Our ability to listen and learn helps us be better people. Like a plant that is growing in our yard new viewpoints establish roots and branches that strengthen us. They increase our presence and make us more powerful.

So next time you find yourself dominating the conversation, imparting your wealth of knowledge to all that will listen. Stop for a minute and let the other person speak. You may learn something new.

As humorist Will Rogers once said: “Never miss a good chance to shut up.”

 

Joe Domino is a Realtor® serving the Phoenix/Scottsdale area. Need more information? Or to Search for your next home, visit www.Scottsdale-AZHomes.com

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Anna Banana Kruchten CRS CRB, Phoenix Broker
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Love the photo Joseph!  Perfect for the subject!!  Listening is critical to being a top notch professional.  I have many stories on this one......

Jan 06, 2021 04:19 PM #10
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Hi Joseph= what a wonderful quote and post. Whether it's in business or our personal lives, listening is an art we could all develop. I've found that some of the most charismatic people I've met were ones who actually listened to what was being said. 

Jan 06, 2021 05:07 PM #11
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Joseph Domino 480-390-6011 - the biggest problem is the people talk more than they listen.  Turn that around and watch the results.

Jan 09, 2021 05:38 AM #12
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Good morning Joseph Domino 480-390-6011 ,

I'm so glad that Carol Williams featured your post in her Second Chance Saturday Series as I missed it. Love the photo and the Will Rogers quote!. Listening is an art that needs to be worked on and when you listen its amazing what you will learn!!

Jan 09, 2021 06:52 AM #13
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Like the old saying says. "Stop, Look and Listen".

Jan 09, 2021 07:16 AM #14
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We were born with two ears and only one mouth.  We were designed to listen twice as much as we speak, but few realize that. I frequently tell my clients, "I am sorry, I have been doing all the speaking and not enough listening, tell me more about your real estate needs".

Jan 09, 2021 10:05 AM #15
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People fail to appreciate that it is impossible to get the other person's feelings or opinions when the only noise to be heard is coming from their own mouths

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Funny but, I just had this conversation with someone yesterday - they listen to respond, not to really HEAR. That drives me absolutely batty, Joseph! 

Great post and oh, so TRUE!

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Hi Joseph:

There is lots of wise advice in your post. I think listening may be one of the most important skills we need to have, and use effectively, in our business.

Jeff

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Wise words. We have two ears and one mouth! Listen intently, speak when appropriate.

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Confuscious say, wise man close mouth and open ears.  I got this in a fortune cookie once

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Hi Joseph Domino 480-390-6011 - We can't learn anything if we are talking.  Listen and people will respect you for it. 

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Hi Joseph Domino 480-390-6011 Thank you for sharing. 

I talk...a lot!  Oh, how quiet it would be if everyone was only listening!

Unlike many others...I learn more by Doing than by listening or reading or even talking.  

 

Jan 11, 2021 06:38 AM #23
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Being a good listener is key to learning something new!

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That includes phone calls.  When someone calls you, do you give that person a chance to tell you why they called you?

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I struggle with talking too much.  I work on shutting up and listening all the time.   I have heard the saying we have two ears and one mouth for a reason!

Thank you for sharing Joseph Domino 480-390-6011.  Congratulations on having your blog featured.

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It depends on who you're talking to, doesn't it? I have a conversation every night and pray He is listening intently.

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Listening to others--can learn a lot!  I am amazed at how many times pp get interuppted when they talk. Very annoying. Almost as annoying as those that go on and on and on without stopping or engaging other person

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Dear Joseph,

Good advice. Where is the scupture? Very appropriate.

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