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Every Day Is Memorial Day

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA 92593-B

Well, I'm a day late in this post. For a Veteran and Gold Star Family, every day is Memorial Day.

Yesterday was the day we observe as Memorial Day. A somber day. A day when we mourn over and honor those men and women that gave their lives while serving. Even today our active duty men & women are still serving & dying in foreign theaters of operation. 

Memorial Day is not really a day of gleeful celebration, For some reason, this year was very trying, personally. 

Yesterday, a small band of Veterans and community members met at Harmony Cemetery, Union Cemetery, South Byfield Cemetery & VFW Park to honor those men and women that gave their lives while serving.

Many veterans make it back home physically. Some with wounds that are seen, while others quietly bear wounds that are not seen. The wounds of mental anguish, toxic chemical exposure, dreams that do not stop, and many more suffer survival guilt. "Why did they die and not me?" "Why, did they die and not me?" It can be a never-ending loop. A couple of years ago a 94-year-old WWII veteran and friend sobbed while confiding with me "I still have dreams every night. They don't stop. How do I get them to stop?"

This poem is attributed to Eleanor Roosevelt. Ponder the question.

Dear Lord,

Lest I continue
My complacent way,
Help me to remember that somewhere,
Somehow out there
A man died for me today.
As long as there be war,
I then must
Ask and answer
Am I worth dying for?

 

 

 

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Grace be with you, and peace, from God our Father, and the Lord Jesus Christ.

2 Thessalonians 1:2 KJV

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Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Jun 05, 2021 07:00 PM
Cindy Edwards
RE/MAX Checkmate - Johnson City, TN
CRS, GRI, PMN - Northeast Tennessee 423-677-6677

Well said. The poem is perfect for all to read and ponder.

Jun 06, 2021 04:35 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I'm glad Kathy included this post in her weekly highlights, since I missed it when you wrote it. The poem is thought provoking, and I agree that every day is Memorial Day for those who have lost their lives while serving.  

Jun 06, 2021 05:08 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Doug. No matter how you answer the question in the poem. those who have given their all deserve our respect. Enjoy your day. 

Jun 06, 2021 05:18 AM
Jim Paulson
Progressive Realty (Boise Idaho) www.Progressive-Realty.info - Boise, ID
Owner,Broker

My 3 1/2 year tour in Saigon was from 1965-1969 (Kindergarten to 3rd grade). Then, I ended up graduating from High School in Iran during the overthrow of the Shah in December 1978. 

I appreciate all those who have served our great country!

Jun 06, 2021 08:24 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Doug, I found my eyes filling with tears as I read your post because I know firsthand what the effects of war does to the mind and body. Some family members held POW or died from enemy fire, while others that returned were never the same. My stepdad  and uncle are two of them and my uncle's brother's legs were blown off from a roadside IED. Our military people are heroes, every one!

Jun 06, 2021 09:01 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

A very touching reminder of the price for Freedom. Many have fallen to allow us to maintain our freedom

Jun 06, 2021 04:46 PM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Kathy Streib 

Thank you for choosing my Memorial Day post for inclusion in your Posts for You

Jun 07, 2021 02:21 AM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

That poem rattles me to my core Cindy Edwards 

BTW one of my very close military buddies hailed from Johnson City. I don't remember if I ever shared that with you

Jun 07, 2021 02:23 AM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Hi Kat Palmiotti 

Thank you for reading the post and responding. I hope your Memorial Day was a good one

Jun 07, 2021 02:25 AM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Right on! Wayne Martin Couldn't have said it better myself

Jun 07, 2021 02:26 AM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

3½ years! Welcome home Jim Paulson. OORAH!

1970-1971 Cam Rahn Bay C-130 crew chief. 

Jun 07, 2021 02:31 AM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! 

You come from a Gold Star Family. 🙏

The aftermath of war is not much that is spoken of. 

Jun 07, 2021 02:35 AM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Hi Ed Silva 

Service is the legacy of a free people. Thank you for responding

Jun 07, 2021 02:36 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

There are so many people that contribute to our lives in such deep ways that we can never repay them fully

Jun 08, 2021 09:50 PM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Laura Cerrano 

You know, you are very correct in that statement. And, most do not expect or seek acknowledgment. 

Jun 09, 2021 07:50 AM
CANDACE (Candy) STEVENS, EA
Number Cruncher LLC - Overton, NV
Helping Taxpayers Resolve IRS problems

This post tugs at my heartstrings.  I have no idea the trials that veterans deal with.  I am grateful for them and try hard to remember their sacrifices for my freedom.  Thank you for sharing Doug Dawes 

Jun 09, 2021 05:24 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Doug Dawes - So  many repercussions of war. There's the healthy soldier who went away to serve his country; then comes back in a body bag. Yes! I vividly remember watching the body bag count on T.V. Then there were the families who took an indirect hit and never fully recovered. I always found it troublesome to hear people say Happy Memorial day - it's just so wrong to say that... I was taught to honor and respect those that died and did that saying prayers for the souls that died. Rainy day Memorial Days are so appropriate. Those that served and died made the ultimate price and sadly, those who survived, as in the Viet Nam War era lived with those invisible wounds that never died until they died of something else, such as agent orange (before it had a name), PTS (before there was a label and a name). Exposure to toxic chemicals, the irrational behaviors and nightly flashbacks, I know this because as a spouse I lived it before it was known. The honor and hansom rewards for illegal immigrants is such a betrayal by this administration. It's just more spit on those that legally fought and paid the ultimate sacrifices. Thank you Doug for what  you represent to our fallen soldiers and for the poem and prayers too. 

Jun 11, 2021 05:16 AM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Good Morning CANDACE (Candy) STEVENS, EA 

The trials are many for Gold Star Families and surviving veterans. Thank you for reading and commenting

Jun 11, 2021 08:02 AM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Hello Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP 

Very nicely put. People confuse Memorial Day with Veteran's Day. Memorial Day is a somber day while Veteran's Day recognizes and celebrates those serving.

Jun 11, 2021 08:04 AM