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Monday Musings & Inspiration: Reflections on Perspective!

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Pictured above is an image that in our opinion illustrates perspective

"The Blue Marble is an image of Earth taken on December 7, 1972, by the Apollo 17 crew Harrison Schmitt and Ron Evans from a distance of about 29,000 kilometers from the planet's surface, on its way to the Moon". Wikipedia

 

This week we focused on the huge subject of perspective.  The broader one's perspective is, the easier it is to solve a problem.  By broader, we are referring to inclusive of all perspectives. 

 

People see and interpret things differently. Your ability to shift your point of view and see things their way may just be one of the most important skills to develop when dealing with clients in real estate or any service business.  

 

 

"The difference between a mountain and a molehill is your perspective."

~ Al Neuharth

 

 

 

The take-away from our discussion that left an indelible impression for us was the idea that we actually craft our own realities in our minds as we view the objects “out there”.

 

The same set of “facts” can take on completely different meanings given the context or worldview that each of us holds.  We each have our way...

 

"You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist."

~ Friedrich Nietzsche

 

 

Broadening one's point of view and appreciating other’s perspectives more often is one way to open one's mind, solve problems easily, and come up with creative solutions. 

 

 

"We see the world, not as it is, but as we are -- or, as we are conditioned to see it. When we open our mouths to describe what we see, we in effect describe ourselves, our perceptions, our paradigms."

~ Stephen Covey

 

Allowing others to express themselves and their points of views without judgment or fear of not being accepted, we end up with the gift of understanding each other, and the other's point of view enriches our lives.  

 

"Attachment constrains our vision so that we are not able to see things from a wider perspective."

~ Dalai Lama

 

 

Wishing Everyone a Wonderful First Week of August!

 

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Comments (48)

Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Grant Schneider I agree with you, the puzzle becomes clearer and the problem sometimes becomes so insignificant.  Happy Monday.  A

Aug 02, 2021 01:20 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS I am delighted that these quotes are pleasing you.  Happy Monday.  A

Aug 02, 2021 01:21 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

"Attachment constrains our vision so that we are not able to see things from a wider perspective."

Those are wise words, Alexandra!

Aug 02, 2021 07:15 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Myrl Jeffcoat Ah yes, the Dalai Lama has a wonderful way wiht words.  A

Aug 02, 2021 08:58 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I guess everything's perspective matters to every narrative. Very important

Aug 02, 2021 11:34 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Alexandra.

I will listen to other peoples opinion, as long as  in the end they agree with mine....  Just kidding of course...

Aug 03, 2021 12:14 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

I love this, Ron and Alexandra- especially your last paragraph. It reminds me of that saying about walking a mile in someone else's shoes. When we can step back and look at the big picture from all sides, we gain a better understanding of what is going on. 

Aug 03, 2021 05:06 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Laura,

Yes, you like at the whole and that begins the perspective.  A

Aug 03, 2021 08:41 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

James Dray yes, I know you are kidding, no one has to agree or disagree, you just understand where they are coming from.  A

Aug 03, 2021 08:42 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Kathy Streib When you see it that way, then peace reigns in your head, and that is the most important part. A

Aug 03, 2021 08:43 PM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

I think it's huge in real estate  - and relationships.  Gaining perspective, not just changing perspective comes to mind. I do think,  in more emotional situations,  it can be extremely important to process for a time before communication can be effective. I'm learning the more passionate I am about a topic, the more time I need to process another point of view before truly effective dialog takes place.  

Aug 04, 2021 08:16 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD It is huge in relationships which is the heart of a real estate transaction and many other businesses.  Passion is wonderful as it a driving force, but it can also turn someone off either way.  If one vehemently disagree with someone, it becomes a turn off to the conversationas at that point.  Many cannot listen with an open mind as to what is really being said nor can they really hear the other person's point of view.  

It is skewed on both sides through their personal filters.  And often it results in ending a friendship or a relationship.    Neither one can get off their cemented point of view, both think they are right, and the other is wrong.

 In the good old days, when a discussion was welcomed, things got resolved faster and everyone grew from their experiences.  Now very few talk freely and echo chambers abound for fear of losing one's job.  Amen!  A

Aug 04, 2021 09:17 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Ron and Alexandra, excellent info. In our overly touchy world, for those who can absorb another point of view without closing their mind, they might just grow and learn something. 

Aug 07, 2021 02:34 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

@Mike Cooper, Broker,

It is always enlightening to hear someone else's point of view.  Even, if we don't agree with it, there is value to it.  A

Aug 07, 2021 02:52 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Aug 07, 2021 06:59 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Kathy Streib Thank you for your feature of our post.  We appreciateit.  

a

Aug 07, 2021 07:11 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Ron and Alexandra:

The points made in your post are invaluable, and further well illustrated by some wonderful quotes. We all see things through our own lens and it's essential we remember that when dealing with others, in our business, and in life.

Jeff

Aug 08, 2021 04:23 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Jeff Dowler, CRS very well said, and thank you for your thoughtful comment.  Wishing you a great week ahead. A

Aug 08, 2021 09:11 PM
Ricardo Mello
Manhattan Miami Real Estate - Manhattan, NY
Manhattan & Miami Real Estate Agent

Wow

Aug 25, 2021 05:58 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Ricardo Mello Thank you.  A

Aug 25, 2021 06:07 AM