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The True Meaning Of Patience: A Fine Art!

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Services for Real Estate Pros Retired

“Patience is power; with time and patience, the mulberry leaf becomes silk.” – Chinese Proverb

For many entrepreneurs, you have reached success despite countless obstacles. How many times do you get knocked down, and you get back up? And keep going. There will be many reasons along the way to quit, good or bad. But you refuse to give up because you started your entrepreneurial journey with that “fire in the belly” called Passion.  And the Perseverance instilled deep in your DNA.  You have kept things going. 

What if Passion and Perseverance are not enough?  It may be that what you need is the third leg, Patience.

If you’ve heard it once, you’ve heard it a thousand times.  “Patience is a Virtue.”  Yes, it is. But, most of the time, it doesn’t feel that way.

We live in a society of instant gratification.  In such a world, there’s no “place” for Patience.  This, then, creates twin realities: two worlds, living parallel to one another.  The vast majority of people live firmly in the realm of instant gratification, but a few have come to understand the power and rewards that come from learning the fine art of Patience.  These goals are attainable, but they, of course, aren’t realized instantaneously.

Think carefully about something you’ve been passionately interested in.  Playing an instrument.  Woodworking.  Programing computers.  It was that spark, the catalyst, that began your process.  Your Passion. 

Passion fuels your fire.  It builds your inner strength and gives you the “umph” and energy to persevere and continue your action with an unwavering focus despite difficulties.

But, Passion can take you only so far.  Once Passion fades, many people give up, content with what they have achieved.  For others, though, the more they learn about what Passion has led them to, the more they come to love it.  That love and respect are pretty different from Passion.  It is love, quiet and sublime, stemming from an understanding that the more you learn, the more you have yet to learn.  The more you understand, the more you realize there will always be new mysteries to discover about your interest.

Learning is cumulative.  Lessons build, one upon another.  As understanding increases the complexity of the projects, you can also undertake expansions.  A first-time woodworker might struggle to make a pen from a kit.  A master turns a few scraps into a beautiful, functional piece of furniture.

The fine art of Patience brings countless benefits.  Stated, regardless of their fields, successful people have learned the value and importance of Patience.

By its very nature, the world is resistant to change, and when it happens at all, it tends to happen slowly—small moves made over time, leading to a moment of fundamental transformation.

Begin to understand the importance and true meaning of Patience.  Patience is how you can change your world.  The more Patience you have and apply, the more significant the change you can affect. 

Can you see the ripples affected by a tiny drop of water that slowly falls from a leaf into the water?  Could you please share your thought?  Thank you.

 

 

 

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I have wandered from a vibrant corner of the world, Thailand, to the bustling city of Boston. And again, to the tranquil beauty of the Olympic Peninsula in Washington. 

I have found my place!

After a fulfilling career spanning 16 years in the corporate world and 22 years in real estate, I have entered a new chapter of life---retirement. As a proud grandmother, I cherish every moment with my precious family. In the remaining hours, I am ready to pursue my lifelong passion for writing!

I invite you to follow my new journey via my heart and soul into a book brimming with uplifting tales, ready to inspire anyone who seeks a glimpse of true inspiration.
 

Aura Alex

 

Dorte Engel
RE/MAX Leading Edge - Bowie, MD
ABC - Annapolis, Bowie, Crofton & rest of Maryland

Dear Aura,

This almost sounds like relationship advice. But you are right, patience helps in just about any pursuit.

Oct 20, 2021 12:28 AM
Aura Alex

Hello, Dorte Engel, Thank you for commenting on my post. Patience applies to our daily lives, routines, processes, people, but it's not easy! :)

Oct 20, 2021 10:10 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Aura - patience is definitely an art and it's also one where practice(and lots of it) must also play a part.  For me - it's a work-in-progress.  

Oct 20, 2021 04:57 AM
Aura Alex

Good morning, Michael. Last night, I was writing the post about "patience," and I almost lost patience trying to rewrite, rewrite, and rewrite! Yes, patience requires practice daily. 

Oct 20, 2021 10:15 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good mornng Aura. The art of patience is a quest I am still pursuing. Let's just say I am making progress. Enjoy your day.

Oct 20, 2021 05:28 AM
Aura Alex

I agree with you, Wayne.  It is a quest, and it is one of those attributes that doesn't get praised much.

Oct 20, 2021 10:22 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Aura, I usually have lots of patience, especially for clients.  When they don't listen to ANYTHING you suggest, it runs thin! 

Oct 20, 2021 06:35 AM
Aura Alex

I told my teenage daughter, Joan, yes, "my patience is like a thin line of pencil, and you are erasing it!" I find humor works with impatient clients (some of the time).  If not, you don't need anyone's advice for that.  By the way, most people who enjoy cooking are some of the most patient people. Agree?

Oct 20, 2021 10:31 AM
Peter Mohylsky, Beach Broker
PMI. Destin - Miramar Beach, FL
Call me at 850-517-7098

I love this post.  so much that I am going to try to reblogg it.  

Oct 20, 2021 11:27 AM
Aura Alex

Hello, Peter.


I am honored and grateful for your comments, follow,  and reblogging. Many thanks and wish you all the best!

Oct 20, 2021 11:46 AM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

Our business requires us to practice the art of patience on a daily basis. We have so many pieces to a successful real estate transaction. Thank you for sharing Aura 🙂

Oct 22, 2021 10:28 AM
Aura Alex

💯Dittos, Paul. Have a great weekend. Thank you.

Oct 22, 2021 11:26 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Another enjoyable post, Aura Alex. I do love  your three P's 

Passion, PerseverancePatience.

Oct 25, 2021 09:56 PM
Aura Alex

Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 Thank you for reading and commenting on my post.  It was challenging to write about the subject as there are many ways to explain "Patience."  Interestingly, you mentioned "three Ps."  It was part of the original title I used when I posted on LinkedIn several years ago.  

Oct 25, 2021 10:47 PM
Eileen Burns 954.483.3912
Trans State Commercial Realty Inc. - Fort Lauderdale, FL
FLorida Real Estate Connector

You are very articulate and inspiring Aura Alex 😎

Oct 26, 2021 06:41 AM
Aura Alex

In the presence of so many inspiring bloggers in the AR community, I felt very humble.  Thank you so much for your kind words, Eileen Burns.

Oct 26, 2021 10:39 AM