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We Don't Know What Another Person is Experiencing in Their Life

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Real Estate Agent with HomeSmart

  Something I have thought about off and on this past week… We hear so many times constantly of people lashing out at one another. Would you please, before you lash out STOP and think before you respond before you speak, what can that other person be experiencing in their life?

 Think back over past years of the worse life changes you have faced, then realize this person, could be facing something far more distasteful than you have ever experienced. LIFE IS DIFFICULT…

Yes, overall far more events, far more days are good than bad, but there can be bad that is hurting people you know, even your best friend, and that hurt, that pain is inside and you don’t know it is there.

 Maybe that is why when we experience something exciting, surprising, and so special that is why we are overfilled with joy, for at least a time, whether hours or days. You know when you wake up and things are just normal or maybe even dull, then you recall the admirable event that is going on in your life right now. The pleasant feelings return to our minds. LIFE IS GOOD, right then. Causing you to jump out of bed, where had that not been coming to mind you would lay there.

 As a real estate agent, you find out a transaction is falling out. Your mind can take you into the tank for days. You must bring your thoughts to past happy events. To move through that time in your life.

 Please be kind to others. This week I thought of agent orange and my time in the navy and Vietnam, and I wonder if the United States could create something that horrible that it has effects on bodies twenty years later after exposure. Could China have put something in this China Virus that would cause us to be acting as we are?

 Think about it! Added into this virus something worse than the normal flu, but something that would affect the minds of humans which would set them off at each other so horrible that fighting and killing was increased higher than what we have been accustomed to.

 I hope your day is as great as mine

Dan Dee McGinnis

The Pumpkin Man

DanDeeSellsAz@gmail.com

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Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I try to keep that in mind when someone does something that I don't agree with and say a prayer for them.

Nov 06, 2021 06:02 AM
Dan Dee McGinnis The Pumpkin Man

thank you Brian

Nov 07, 2021 04:37 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

We should all be more understanding and at the very least exchange a smile and not get uptight if it is not returned

Nov 06, 2021 06:19 AM
Dan Dee McGinnis The Pumpkin Man

thank you Ed

Nov 07, 2021 04:38 AM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

Great point made.  Times we tend to speak up without fully listening.   We made it to Saturday, sit back relax, chill.  Monday is coming.  Thanks again for the post, and enjoy the weekend. Bill 

Nov 06, 2021 06:46 AM
Dan Dee McGinnis The Pumpkin Man

that was all cool you did there Bill I do not know how to bring up pictures or even find them and do things like that great words of friendliness 

Nov 07, 2021 04:39 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Dan - kindness matters and it can definitely make a difference.  

Nov 06, 2021 09:32 AM
Dan Dee McGinnis The Pumpkin Man

thank you Michael

Nov 07, 2021 04:39 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Let's make a greater effort to spread kindness this week.

Nov 08, 2021 04:08 PM
Dan Dee McGinnis The Pumpkin Man

yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Roy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nov 09, 2021 06:05 AM
Carla Freund
Keller Williams Legacy - Cary, NC
NC Realtor - Senior & Luxury 919-602-8489

I try to keep this in mind as well. You don't know if they are a new parent who hasn't had any sleep, they just lost someone, perhaps their relationships are going south, they may have lost a job, can't pay the bills, etc. It doesn't excuse poor behavior but your kindness can teach them to act otherwise.

Nov 09, 2021 06:12 AM