SAVORING BUYING & SELLING MOMENTS

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Real Estate Agent with DFW FINE PROPERTIES 0506509

People often associate savoring with food, something so good it conjures up good, pleasant, sweet memories or perhaps so bad it automatically creates a sour taste in your mouth and you know you don’t want that again. Or yes! I want a positive experience. When buying or selling a home it helps to be aware of what you like and don’t like. Savoring is actually a positive form of mindfulness, a state of mind achieved by focusing on the present moment your thoughts, feelings, and sensations. Everything we do different is an experience. When selling a home, one door shuts. After you buy a home, another door opens.

 

THERE ARE FOUR WAYS WE CAN SAVOR THE BUYING AND SELLING MOMENTS

 

Enjoy the time you have in whatever chapter you are in your life. If you are selling, challenge those overwhelming moments by asking for help from people you know, like, and trust. But remember, nobody knows you, better than you. Breathe. Relax. Think about what you really need to have and what makes sense to let go. Window treatments you currently have may be beautiful, but will they look just as good in your new house? If you end up somewhere else with tall windows, will the drapes be too short? Thinking through every action you take takes critical thinking.

Relishing what is beneficial for your well-being helps to put things into perspective. Will a two-story be better than you’re a one-story home? Or will your life be simpler and less confusing about where you put things if you are going from two-story to one-story? Or will a two-story be better for the amount of people who will occupy or stay for longer visits in your home?

Appreciating the beauty of nature, light, colors, textures, scents, sounds, the feeling of the neighborhood and the community. If ambiance matters, what makes you happiest? What about the seasons of the year? Can you appreciate your location and changing of the seasons? Do trees and landscaping, flowerbeds, or views matter?  

Cherishing what you have and sharing what you no longer need is an act of courage. If what you keep remains packed up and stuffed in a closet, attic, or storage unit, is it really making you happy or are you wasting valuable space? You owe yourself contentment.


In sum, if savoring the moments creates happiness and better opportunities, then your decisions are worth it! Remember, you can’t appreciate the sun if all you see are clouds. The more you savor the things that creates joy and positive experiences, the more likely better days are yet to come ---Patricia Feager

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Comments (15)

Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Patricia. Nice thoughts to ponder as you enter the process. Unfortunately for many these thoughts quickly fade as the process drags on. Enjoy your day 

Jan 14, 2022 03:17 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Wayne Martin - it's hard to think clearly when you live in the shadows of doubt. I like to listen to what my clients have to say first and then choose my words carefully. Information overload can be a problem. My efforts were to make this a positive post. Thanks for  your feedback!

Jan 14, 2022 03:55 AM
Sham Reddy CRS
H E R Realty, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Thanks for sharing Patricia!!!

If savoring the moments creates happiness and better opportunities, then your decisions are worth it! Remember, you can’t appreciate the sun if all you see are clouds. The more you savor the things that creates joy and positive experiences, the more likely better days are yet to come

Jan 14, 2022 03:56 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Sham Reddy CRS 🙂 Have a nice day!

Jan 14, 2022 03:59 AM
Brian England
Vacasa - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I really like your idea of savoring moments during the buying and selling process and I am sure that will make it less stressful.  Buying or selling a home usually takes a large emotional toll on people.

Jan 14, 2022 04:13 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Los Angeles Pasadena 818.516.4393

Hello Patricia - moments matter and while some may matter more than others, there is a lot to savor about each of them.  

Jan 14, 2022 04:14 AM
Kat Palmiotti
406-270-3667, kat@thehousekat.com, Broker, eXp Realty - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Savoring the moments, regardless of where we are/what we are doing, makes everything better... 

Enjoy your day!

Jan 14, 2022 04:52 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Good morning, Patricia... I've long said that the buying and selling process is only as stressful as the buyer or seller and/or their agent makes it to be.

Jan 14, 2022 04:54 AM
Bill Salvatore - YVP Blog
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - Valley of the Sun / golfArizona@cox.net

Four excellent points made. Thanks again for the post. the weekend is upon us. If you have a horse in the NFL Wildcard Weekend, best wishes for them.  My team NE Patriots.  bill

Jan 14, 2022 05:39 AM
Norma J. Elkins
Elite Realty Group - Morristown, TN
Realtor - Elkins Home Selling Team

I always love to savor the moments for sure and that is sound advice for buyer and sellers alike.  Love your positive spin on things.  Thanks for sharing and have a fabulous Friday!

Jan 14, 2022 05:59 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Patricia,

"Savoring" is one of my favorite words, as is appreciating..  The more you do either, the better it gets.  Happy Friday.  A

Jan 14, 2022 08:55 AM
Raymond Henson, eXp Realty
eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) - Elk Grove, CA
Realtor

When I used to practice Mixed Martial Arts, we had this saying that started each session, Look for the Good.  It is so easy to find the bad in everything.  It takes a little work to look for the good, but is so much more rewarding. We close on a home today that was a real challenge to get on the market.  It is an exciting day today and I will remember that success!

Jan 14, 2022 10:12 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Patricia "sweet memories" or "sour taste" can both leave an ever lasting imprint on our minds.

Jan 14, 2022 04:19 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Patricia loved your post and your analogy can relate to food as well as Real Estate:)Endre

Jan 14, 2022 11:10 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Patricia:

I think savoring the moments of buying or selling is just the right way to think about, especially when things don't quite go the way one expects. Enjoying, relishing, appreciating and cherishing say it all.

I always tell clients to focus on the ultimate goal as well, since the path to that goal is not always a smooth one. Sometimes it's just about having the right attitude and perspective...savoring!

Jeff

Jeff

Jan 15, 2022 04:44 PM