Life can be about relationships but not all relationships, are healthy and not all relationships are worth having!
Have you ever been in any kind of relationship that was not healthy or is not healthy? Did you stay in it? Did you leave it? I see a lot of people in relationships that are just not healthy. Have you ever wondered why people stay in relationships, that are not healthy or even safe? Do people stay in relationships out of security? Do they stay in relationships out of fear or financial reasons? People stay in relationships for many reasons. Some of the reasons, people stay in them, are quite shocking to me. How many reasons can you list, why do some folks stay in relationships, even if they happen to be unhealthy? Are you in any kind of relationship, that is unhealthy? If you are, work on doing something about it. No, I am not trying to be a therapist to anyone but think about what you are doing and what you are in and determine if any relationship that you are in, are healthy or unhealthy.
I see so many people who are together and I wonder, how they really do behind closed doors if they are creating a scene and fighting in public. Why are so many in relationships, that are not happy?
In the past 4 years, I have walked away from quite a few unhealthy relationships. I wish them well but I choose to not be around him or her anymore, for various reasons. When we know that someone is unhealthy for us and unhealthy to us, you want to either limit your exposure to him or her or just stay away from this person or persons, altogether!
Are some relationships, really worth having? Stay away from unhealthy people at all costs or at least, limit your exposure to him or her. Not everyone is healthy to be around. Kind of like Mold and Fungus. Mold and Fungus can be good and bad. They both have there good, bad and ugly side to them.
Life is important and so is your time. Stay away from Toxic People! Stay away from people who do not build you up and who will be supportive of you. Sure, life can be messy as well as some relationships but learn to stay away from relationships that are not healthy and that are toxic to you. It might be hard to stay away from those relationships at first but in time, you will see how important it is and it will be for you, to do this. Your sanity and your emotional health, should be very important to you. Is it?
Relationships are important but toxic or unhealthy relationships can destroy people. Learn to spot the toxic people in your life and stay away from unhealthy people.
My name is David Snell. I am the owner of a company called Executive Restoration. Mold Removal, happens to be one of my passions of life.
I got the above photo from Power of Positivity, and from Face Book.