Are Some Relationships, Really Worth Having?

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Life can be about relationships but not all relationships,  are healthy and not all relationships are worth having!

Have you ever been in any kind of relationship that was not healthy or is not healthy?  Did you stay in it?  Did you leave it?  I see a lot of people in relationships that are just not healthy.  Have you ever wondered why people stay in relationships, that are not healthy or even safe?  Do people stay in relationships out of security?  Do they stay in relationships out of fear or financial reasons?  People stay in relationships for many reasons.  Some of the reasons, people stay in them, are quite shocking to me.  How many reasons can you list, why do some folks stay in relationships, even if they happen to be unhealthy?  Are you in any kind of relationship, that is unhealthy?  If you are, work on doing something about it.  No, I am not trying to be a therapist to anyone but think about what you are doing and what you are in and determine if any relationship that you are in, are healthy or unhealthy.  

I see so many people who are together and I wonder, how they really do behind closed doors if they are creating a scene and fighting in public.  Why are so many in relationships, that are not happy?

In the past 4 years, I have walked away from quite a few unhealthy relationships.  I wish them well but I choose to not be around him or her anymore,  for various reasons.    When we know that someone is unhealthy for us and unhealthy to us, you want to either limit your exposure to him or her or just stay away from this person or persons, altogether!

Are some relationships, really worth having?  Stay away from unhealthy people at all costs or at least, limit your exposure to him or her.  Not everyone is healthy to be around.  Kind of like Mold and Fungus.  Mold and Fungus can be good and bad.  They both have there good, bad and ugly side to them.  

Life is important and so is your time.  Stay away from Toxic People!  Stay away from people who do not build you up and who will be  supportive of you. Sure, life can be messy as well as some relationships but learn to stay away from relationships that are not healthy and that are toxic to you.  It might be hard to stay away from those relationships at first but in time,  you will see how important it is and it will be for you, to do this. Your sanity and your emotional health, should be very important to you.  Is it?

Relationships are important  but toxic or unhealthy relationships can destroy people.  Learn to spot the toxic people in your life and stay away from unhealthy people. 

My name is David Snell. I am the owner of a company called Executive Restoration.  Mold Removal, happens to be one of my passions of life.

I got the above photo from Power of Positivity, and from Face Book.


Comments (6)

Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH

Thanks for sharing David, great insights!!!

Relationships are important  but toxic or unhealthy relationships can destroy people.  Learn to spot the toxic people in your life and stay away from unhealthy people. 

Feb 03, 2022 04:35 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Los Angeles Pasadena 818.516.4393

Hello David - it is nice to "see" you on these pages.  I hope you are enjoying a positive start to 2022.  

Feb 03, 2022 04:45 AM
Bill Salvatore - East Valley
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em:

I guess the point is to identify the toxic ones and drop them fast. great job and make it a productive Thursday (Friday-eve). Sell a house 

Feb 03, 2022 05:12 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Good morning, David... personal or professional... some relationships are not worth having... and it's important to have the strength to walk away from those.

Feb 03, 2022 05:21 AM
Lilian Reddle
NaturalEstate - Kenwood, NY
Senior Realtor

I stopped being so categorical after going through my divorce recently. I realized that people can just change sometimes and you can't prevent it. But now I am more picky in choosing a partner. I have my permanent account on this page. This dating site is very popular in our suburb. I'm in no rush now. I will choose slowly but surely.

Mar 21, 2022 05:08 AM
John Dilly

I believe that there are relationships worth fighting for! You will understand is this such a relationship or not! I actually have a funny story! I somehow followed the link - women seeking men and registered on thetogether2night. There I found a very nice girl! We have been together for 3 years and I can say with confidence that my baby deserves to fight for her!

May 16, 2022 01:28 AM