Ask An Ambassador: Not All Comments Are Created Equal

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com SAL.2002007747

Define "Comment" as it pertains to ActiveRain:

Is it a minimum of 50 characters that provide 25 points? 

Or is it an opportunity to engage, build relationships and plant seeds for future referrals? 

How you approach comments goes a long ways towards how much (or little) you can gain from ActiveRain participation.

Comments are an easy way of becoming visible to other members of the community, but comments are potentially double edged.

Experienced members can readily determine the purpose behind a comment.  Was it for points, or engagement?

To be blunt, if I see that someone's approach is to leave 25 generic comments in 5 minutes, I have no respect for that.  The intent of this community has been totally missed IMO.  That type of behavior devalues the point system.

On the other hand, a thoughtful comment?  That's opening the door to a lot more.  Many of the relationships I enjoy in the Rain started a decade ago with a comment.  One led to another and another, and over time we get to know each other.

Some believe firmly in reciprocation (you leave a comment on mine, I leave a comment on yours).

Me personally, I don't feel obligated to practice reciprocation and I don't want others to feel obligated to leave a comment for me just because I left one on their post. 

When you're first starting off, leaving a lot of comments is one of the best ways to get your face out there and start to be recognized.  Reciprocation is probably a good policy for someone establishing their Rain identity. 

Again, me personally, my time to participate here has shrunk significantly since I first joined (busier with real estate, more dogs, more cats, more honeybees!), and some activity that used to be Rain based has shifted to Facebook.  The net result, a comment from me outside of responding to comments on my own posts is a bit rare.  It's a catch-22, I'd like to leave more comments, but I also need to sleep each night :)

Bottom line, commenting is a major contributor to how much of a network you build in the Rain.  Just leaving a comment by itself won't get it done.  Quantity without quality won't get the job done.

Until next Tuesday, just Ask An Ambassador if you need help,

Bill & Liz aka BLiz

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Comments (23)

Ed Silva
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

I agree with this post in so many ways.  Newbies would gain a lot by getting out there to comment and in turn get reciprocation. It is easy to see if a commenter actually read the post just by the nature of their comment, or I learn so much here on ActiveRain

May 03, 2022 10:57 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Ed, When new commenting might be the best way to get known by the established members.  The quality of that comment might be just what gets someone to come over and check out their own posts.

May 03, 2022 02:41 PM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Liz and Bill Spear  I only forgive you because I know if I call you for help, you😎 will always be there for me. I do think engaging with each other is good to create relationships  as well as others  that I have become close with by commented on their posts throughout the years  

May 03, 2022 12:34 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

I'd love to engage as much as I used to, but I just can't spend the same amount of time.  But I'm always on call for my ActiveRain friends and will do the best I can to help them.

May 03, 2022 02:41 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I have gone as far as to delete the drive by.  How I wish there was a block feature. I used to be all about the reciprocating comment for comment, but real estate was REAL slow then.  Today I do good to read a couple of posts and scan through the questions once in a while.  But still, I don't EVER leave drive bys. 

May 03, 2022 01:14 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

And that was the thing for me back then.  I DID have the time.  My engineering job was less demanding, the real estate business was slower, and we had fewer pets and no honeybees.  And I've taken on some additional responsibilities over the years that mean reading and commenting have had to be reduced.  It's just my reality.  Maybe after we move and get settled in next year I'll have more time for participation.

May 03, 2022 02:43 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Property Manager

Bingo. I cringe when I see a comment that has no connection to the post. It's a drive by for points. It really does more harm than good to the commenters reputation or likelihood of building a relationship.  

May 03, 2022 01:37 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

I've had some over the years that more or less put that person on the instant NO REFERRAL list.  I might never have had one for their area, but if I did, it wouldn't be to them.

May 03, 2022 02:44 PM
Rocky Dickerson
Realty One Group - Las Vegas, NV
Superior Service!

I remember when Will Hamm taught me to comment to get points and build relationships. I used to comment 40 times a day

May 03, 2022 01:56 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

Many, many moons ago I easily blew past the daily limit for comments.  Now, there are days I leave no comments.  A high day (not counting responses on my own post) might now be 10, and that's a rarity.  I wish it were different, but I've had to trade other things for some of the time I spend here on social engagement.

May 03, 2022 02:45 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good afternoon Bill,

I so appreciate your thoughtful posts each Tuesday. It is disappointing when I see the serial drive by comments from the same people completed on many posts in less than 10 minutes. Why bother??? I too have needed to revise my time commitment on AR. There are so many hours in a day and I've had to re-prioritize my time.

May 03, 2022 03:11 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

Dorie, There's only so much we can do in a day, and sometimes that's got to mean less time in the Rain.

May 03, 2022 05:51 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate Brokered by Real - St. George, UT
So Utah Residential, Referral & Relocation REALTOR

Fantastic post that most of us can relate to Bliz. I saw today, where a member had some fun with a serial copy/paster, thanking him for the points to help get him to 2MIL points soon!

Reciprocation goes a long way toward relationships. I never promised to comment on someone's page if they commented on mine. I do my best most days though. 

May 03, 2022 06:44 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

Early on, I reciprocated regularly.  Now, it's a trade off in my time and there are other things I do that help people that take priority over leaving comments. 

May 03, 2022 07:17 PM
Jan Green
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

 

Great post Bill!  I love reading and commenting on others' posts, but I don't always have the reciprocity down pat.  I try!  I so understand!  Between writing my own course, public speaking, selling real estate, and advocacy work with the City of Scottsdale - my time is limited as well.  I just don't have your engineering brain though which is a downfall!

May 03, 2022 08:13 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

Exactly!  You've got a lot on your plate and when you look at what needs to be a priority, reciprocating may not make the top of the list.  It's understandable and IMO an expectation that should be relaxed.

May 04, 2022 05:09 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Keep on writing, and I will keep on reading. I appreciate that you make the time to contribute so much good writing to AR, especially with your busy schedule!

May 03, 2022 10:57 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

Thanks!  Writing the AAA posts on Tuesdays is the one obligation I have that I will not allow to slip.  Comments are just lower in my priority list.

May 04, 2022 05:10 AM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

Good morning.  I too am a bit turned off when a comment has nothing to do what so ever with my post.  Copy and paste...I believe Endre Barath, Jr. recently had a post mentioning the same frustrations.  I suspect 'more honeybees' could lead to a couple posts all on its own.  Enjoy the hump day ahead.  Mark

May 04, 2022 01:55 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Mark, We've got five full hives and a 6th that we're trying to start.  Sometimes the bees don't take much of our time, but for instance the previous weekend we spent the bulk of both afternoons working in the hives getting them ready to expand during the Spring season.

May 04, 2022 05:11 AM
Wendy Rich-Soto, Realtor/Broker Associate
Keller Williams Realty, South Bay - San Pedro, CA
Getting you to your next with a zero failure rate!

Getting to know those in the AR community is really great. Simply because you become a part of that community.  We get to learn from each other and we get to share ideas.  Receiving referrals is an added benefit as well.  How nice to be able to confidently refer business to someone you know from this community!

May 04, 2022 04:50 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Wendy, to me having insight into how a potential referral partner thinks, acts, conducts their business is one of the best things about this community.  Some people pass with flying colors, others "tell" me through their posts and comments that they shouldn't be trusted with that business.

May 04, 2022 05:13 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Los Angeles Pasadena 818.516.4393

Hello Bill (and Liz too) - another thoughtful and thought-provoking post.  And by the way, congratulations on the new listing, recent sale. . . 

May 04, 2022 05:33 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Once upon a time years and years ago I posted about a brain tumor my BIL was fighting.  For whatever reason there was a picture of the home at the top.  Yep, I got a congrats on your new listing comment!

May 04, 2022 11:34 AM
Anne Corbin
Long and Foster - Lake Anna - Spotsylvania, VA
Serving Lake Anna & Central Virginia

If an AR member doesn't comment on this post, OMG! Hope you're doing well, Bill and Liz. 

May 04, 2022 06:02 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

All is well here, hope the same for you!

May 04, 2022 11:34 AM
Brian England
Arizona Focus Realty - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

My comments depend on the content being shared and by whom it is being shared, there are some within the Rain that I enjoy a good daily banter.

May 04, 2022 06:52 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

I used to have daily interactions with some of the people that are now long gone from the Rain.

May 04, 2022 11:34 AM
Anna Banana Kruchten CRS, Phoenix Broker
HomeSmart Real Estate BR030809000 - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hi Bill  as you know, I'm all about building relationships in the rain and wherever I am.  I do banter back and forth quite a bit because it's fun to get to know others better and carry on a conversation.  Much like it is with you whether that's on a post or on the phone or by text!  And.....you are one very busy guy!  I feel the same way lately - time flies by so fast.

May 04, 2022 01:42 PM
Anna Banana Kruchten CRS, Phoenix Broker

Exactly Bill.....and our first Granddaughter is 14!  Where does time fly!!

May 04, 2022 04:20 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

I have a post-it note on my work desk with a few dates.  One of them showed that it has been almost 16 years since we first entered our profile here.  In that time we've seen babies get all the way to high school!

May 04, 2022 04:19 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Bill:

This is a great read for those who are new, but also perhaps a reminder to others about the value of commenting in a manner that adds value to the conversation, and the post, and engages others.

Comments have been a valuable part of AR from the very beginning...what better way to get to know each other online? Or to decide otherwise.

Jeff

May 04, 2022 10:33 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

Jeff, Sometimes I still see comments that leave me scratching my head, a scorched earth approach just doesn't fit what this community is about.

May 05, 2022 04:54 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I suppose that what makes it great! Each comment is it’s own  little snowflake. Respect to all comments really— as long as we don’t harm anybody t

May 04, 2022 10:56 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

Laura, I'd agree if all those snowflakes were unique.  However, when someone posts the exact same comment 25 times in 5 minutes just to get their points, I can't respect that.  It's fake engagement and goes entirely against the purpose of this community.

May 05, 2022 04:56 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

I don't get here anywhere as often as I like. I post far too infrequently, but try to make it over at least a few times a week to read and comment - and keep up with what's going on with everyone.

I also try to respond to comments on my posts. It was easier when we got notifications and didn't have to remember to go check!

May 06, 2022 02:50 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

Having the comment notification emails certainly made it easier to respond quickly.

May 07, 2022 05:27 AM
Greg Large
ERA Real Solutions - Grove City, OH
A Tradition of Trust

Congratulations on the listing, I am sure it will sell quick. I hope you get a smile, not a grimace from THIS comment. Appreciate your contributions here. Drive by comments? Ain't got time for that, giving or receiving.

May 07, 2022 06:32 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Greg, Definitely a smile!  Agreed, don't have a use for them in any shape or form.  Sincere contribution or don't bother at all.

May 07, 2022 07:25 PM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

well said in a well deserved feature - I want to hear more about the honeybees! 

May 07, 2022 05:18 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

Lise,  We've got 5 full hives in our backyard and are trying to set up a 6th hive by splitting off some bees from a well established hive.


This morning I had to catch a bee that got in our house before one of the cats or dogs found it.  I tracked her until she landed, then she crawled on the paper towel I put next to her.  A steady walk to the back door and she took off again once we were outside :)

May 07, 2022 07:27 PM