A Fish Story Not Quite

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 311291

Ray Henson and I are hosting the August Challenge. Since this is supposed to be a fish tale, I am not a fisherman or woman. I thought this would have to do. Can you relate?

Many years ago, I cared for my mom with Alzheimer's while running a real estate business as a solo agent. One day my delightful husband inquired about my checking account. Lee was a Wharton School Graduate, and his checkbook was always balanced.

 

"Your checkbook is a mess," he said. "You have no idea how much money you have." My answer, of course, was, "Sure I do. It's within a couple of thousand dollars." You can imagine the exasperated look on his face. He said, "If you reconcile your account, I will take it over." 

The next day, I took my checkbook to the bank and instructed, "Please close this account and open a new one."          

 

Upon returning home, I placed the new reconciled checkbook on my husband's desk without a word.

There was that exasperated look, but I also think a wee bit proud...as if I put one over on him. I did what he asked. The checkbook was balanced and reconciled. I just did it differently than he would. It made sense to me. I could have spent hours, days, or weeks adding, subtracting, entering, and deleting. But in the end, I felt the bank would be right, so why should I do it? My time was much more valuable.

This story is one of my favorite ways of explaining time management and how I can work without an assistant. It's always interesting to see the reactions. Some people laugh and applaud, while others say, "Oh, my, you could have cost yourself hundreds of dollars!" 

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Comments (27)

Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Anna Banana Kruchten CRS, Phoenix Broker,

Uh oh, it looks like we think a bit alike. Hey,  these tasks need to be done, but there is always someone else who can handle any job we choose to delegate!

Aug 25, 2022 01:23 PM
Anna Banana Kruchten Phoenix Broker

Exactly Margaret - delegate!

Aug 25, 2022 03:20 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Margaret good thinking, you are a smart cookie.  I bet he did thought twice before making another offer like that again.  ☺️

Aug 25, 2022 02:46 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

George Souto I do know that he kind of beamed when I shared this story with others.

Aug 28, 2022 07:21 PM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

That was funny!  As a former banker, I can understand how simple and absolute your reaction was to his exasperation!  Most people manage their accounts in this manner - whatever the bank says is right!  LOL - good one Margaret!

Aug 25, 2022 02:46 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Jan, As a former banker, I bet you have many checkbook stories.


 

Aug 28, 2022 07:22 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I’m down for a good story and this one seems to keep my interest quite a bit! :

Aug 25, 2022 03:15 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Always good to see you Laura!

Aug 28, 2022 07:22 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Margaret,

Loved this story and you did get one over on Lee. I have a friend who puts her checkbook in a drawer and tries to reconcile it every 2 months. She ends up spending all day on it! LOL!

Aug 25, 2022 04:38 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Dorie, Way too much time!

Aug 28, 2022 07:23 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Margaret- I'm in your camp. When I stepped into adulthood or at least dipped my toe in it, I tried balancing it. Drove me nuts even though I always wrote down any checks I'd written. I love how you balanced your checkbook. 

Aug 25, 2022 06:55 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Kathy, I loved how I balanced it also! 🙃

Aug 28, 2022 07:24 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

My answer, of course, was, "Sure I do. It's within a couple of thousand dollars."   I absolutely love that response!

Aug 25, 2022 07:19 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Not sure he was pleased with that answer, but it was a good one. 🙃

Aug 28, 2022 07:25 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

CONGRATULATIONS Margaret, on having this blog FEATURED in the Old Farts Club group!  

Aug 25, 2022 07:20 PM
Aura Alex
CloseMyDeal, LLC - Seattle, WA
Specializing in Multifamily Projects Nationwide

It's nice to have someone to help with the finance records. It's so tedious but so important!!

I haven't written checks in a decade. I use Quickbook Desktop Pro, which is connected to my business and personal banks. It's not uncommon for me to run two-three different companies at one time. My banks pay bills when I input requests. 

I use PayPal debit and credit cards for personal expenses, and Paypal keeps and updates my balances. 

Aug 25, 2022 07:59 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

For sure, Aura, you have you banking both business and personal under control.

Aug 28, 2022 07:27 PM
Dorte Engel
RE/MAX Leading Edge - Bowie, MD
ABC - Annapolis, Bowie, Crofton & rest of Maryland

Dear Margaret,

Trusting the bank is good, but verifying is better. I still manually enter my expenses because I find hundreds to over a thousand dollars of mistakes every year. For some reason, these mistakes are as good as never in my favor and if they are only a couple of pennies worth. I find it valuable to know that a discrepancy resulted from a car repair being charged twice in consecutive months or some mystery PayPal charge I do not recognize. I can still decide, if the amount is worth fighting for or not.

Aug 25, 2022 09:18 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Dorte, Most mistakes are not in your favor. 🙃

Aug 28, 2022 07:28 PM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

It’s your business and you run it the way you see fit. I’ve always applauded your different drummer approach Margaret 🙂

Aug 25, 2022 10:20 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Paul, Thanks for the applause. 🙃

Aug 28, 2022 07:29 PM
Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

Talk about Time Management! Excellent way to resolve the problem in the fastest most efficient way. Well Done!

Aug 26, 2022 01:07 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Thanks, Debra. I was the fastest and easiest way to do this task.

Aug 28, 2022 07:29 PM
Kat Palmiotti
406-270-3667, kat@thehousekat.com, Broker/REALTOR® - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

What a great story! That was an excellent way to address Lee's request!

Aug 26, 2022 04:47 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Kat, Careful what you ask for, because you might get it.

Aug 28, 2022 07:30 PM
Eileen Burns
Trans State Commercial RE Ft. Lauderdale/Miami/Palm Beach - Fort Lauderdale, FL
FLorida Real Estate Connector

Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 another avenue to travel down to obtain the same results!  I love that you outsource whatever you wish not to do allowing you to focus on more important tasks in your life😎

Aug 26, 2022 06:05 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Eileen, There is probably  quite a bit more that I could outsource.

Aug 28, 2022 07:31 PM
Matt Brady
Watermark Capital - Del Mar, CA
One of San Diego's Best Lenders

I only write 2 checks a year so this is not really an issue for me. My wife and your husband are 2 peas in a pod, she can tell you to the penny what is in the bank and always balances every time.

Aug 28, 2022 06:35 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Matt, My husband did have a total handle on the balance.

Aug 28, 2022 07:32 PM
Ray Henson
eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) - Elk Grove, CA
Realtor

I love how you think outside the box!  My checkbook is always just a little bit off, but Mary Margaret would never take over my checkbook even if I handed it to her with a blank slate.  Thank you for your creative entry into this month's challenge and thank you for your help and guidance!

Aug 28, 2022 08:12 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Ray Henson, You have your Mary Margaret, and I had my Lee.

Aug 28, 2022 07:33 PM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

I finally found a kindred soul who balances her checkbook like I do. :) I quit balancing mine a few years ago. I will glance at a statement and look online occasionally. As long as the income exceeds the outgo, I'm good with that. ;)

Aug 29, 2022 06:33 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Long & Foster Real Estate Inc 610-225-7400 - Devon, PA
Tredyffrin Easttown Realtor, Philly Main Line

I like that, it always infuriates me when I am out just a small amount and cannot find the error. But as you say, time is more important.

Aug 30, 2022 10:42 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

That's a great story, Margaret, and it doesn't surprise me in the least - it sounds just like you!! And it was the perfect solution that Lee had to appreciate!

Jeff

Aug 30, 2022 05:18 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Jeff, For sure, Lee appreciated it afterwards!

Sep 18, 2022 06:07 AM