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When Life Gives You Lemons

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Beam & Branch Realty TREC #547752

I'm sure you have heard this say, "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade." This simple, yet classic statement holds more truth than most give it credit. We all know how challenging life can be so why not seek to make the most of any challenge?

Having survived my fair share of "lemon" moments in life, I have made the conscious decision to make lemonade. But, there really is a method to be able to make lemonade when your life appears to be falling apart.

Here is my recipe for making Life Lemonade:

L - Let the little things go! It is so easy to become bogged down by the minutia in life. If it isn't life-threatening, learn to let it go.

E - Enjoy the ride. This one is way harder to execute. When I was recovering from losing a lung, I was determined to find the lemonade during the long, hospital recovery. I had the night nurse deliver the flowers in my room secretly to those on the floor who didn't have any. It was so rewarding and I looked forward to those long nights.

M - Manage to smile. While you may not feel like you have the energy to smile or maybe you just don't want to smile, you will be amazed at how smiling affects your inner soul as well as those who receive the smile.

O - Offer positive words whenever possible. Speaking words of encouragement hold a vibrational frequency that is healing to those receiving the good words and to your own soul.

N - No negativity! Do whatever it takes to remove the negative self-talk from your life. Don't allow it. Find an accountability partner to help you refrain from this damaging practice.

S - Support others. When you take the focus off of your own life and support others, it is amazing how your own troubles become less important. A refocus from self and a sincere focus on another person is very empowering.

So, who is ready to make some LIFE LEMONADE? Life is too short to stay a sour puss! Pucker up, buttercups, and make it a great day!

 

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Comments(25)

Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Awe, thank you, faye schubert! We all need to remember this recipe from time to time.

Mar 19, 2023 05:44 PM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

I love this part of your post!

Manage to smile. While you may not feel like you have the energy to smile or maybe you just don't want to smile, you will be amazed at how smiling affects your inner soul as well as those who receive the smile.

Mar 19, 2023 05:45 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Yes, your script for making lemonade can be far more satisfying than sulking

Mar 19, 2023 06:26 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Paula- I love your recipe!!  Making lemonade out of lemons is one of my favorite sayings. I especially love your E component...sharing your flowers with those who did not have any. It's been shown that giving to others is a great way to give back to ourselves. 

Mar 19, 2023 07:38 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Paula - an essential recipe for everyday life.  

Mar 20, 2023 04:38 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Good morning, Paula... I've tried to live my life in exactly this way... I just never knew it was Life Lemonade.

Mar 20, 2023 05:27 AM
Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
Northwest Tennessee Realtor

Paula, removing the negativity is really important. Thanks for the post.

Mar 20, 2023 07:47 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Dr. Paula McDonald - this is an OUTSTANDING recipe for lemonade 🍋🍋🍋

When we squeeze life's challenges and adversity we can transform the experience and learn and grow from it. 

It all starts with a decision:  Will we react as a victim or respond by stepping up to the challenge and in the end be a victor?

You have victoriously transformed your lemon experiences. 

AMEN!   

Mar 20, 2023 08:41 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

FEATURED IN CRAP-TACULAR

 

Mr. Crappy Says

When Life Serves Up Lemons

Decide to Perceive them as

Gifts to help us learn and GROW.

Flush any negativity

💩💩

💩

And Choose to Live in Joy!

 

 

Mar 20, 2023 08:45 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Hey there, John Pusa, and, we have all had our fair share of life lemonade.

Mar 20, 2023 11:27 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Thank you, Endre Barath, Jr. - hope you are enjoying a tall glass of lemonade today.

Mar 20, 2023 11:27 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

faye schubert, thank you. It is one of the most important recipes we need in life.

Mar 20, 2023 11:28 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Those are great thoughts about living life, Paula.  I hope you are having an enjoyable first day of spring.

Mar 20, 2023 04:37 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Mar 25, 2023 06:57 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Awe, thank you, Kathy Streib - I so appreciate you featuring this post. 

Mar 25, 2023 07:03 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much, Paula, for sharing this outstanding advice.

Mar 26, 2023 09:22 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

Hi Dr. Paula McDonald,

What a lovely recipe to share with us.  Thank you! 

Mar 26, 2023 10:20 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Love love love this post Paula!  We are so on the same page in making lemonade out of lemons!  Love the story of you getting the night nurse to deliver flowers to another patient!  Love you!

Mar 27, 2023 01:56 PM
M.C. Dwyer
Melody Russell Team at eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Felton, CA
MC Dwyer-Santa Cruz Mountains Property Specialist

Love your recipe Paula…perfect read while I’m sitting in the ER waiting for test results 

Apr 07, 2023 06:56 PM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

What a wonderful, altruistic thing to do!  Totally anonymous and I bet you were beaming thinking someone else had surprise flowers.  Love this post!

Apr 10, 2023 12:30 PM