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How to make somebody's day and not even know it!

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Real Estate Agent with CENTURY 21 Redwood Realty License # 0225028579

Have you ever been to a party or a networking event and felt awkward and totally out of your element?  On several occasions, I have gone to networking events and tried to meet people only to be iced out.  It's super stressful and made me question why exactly I went.

 

Not long after those disasters, I read that when networking, find the person who is standing by themselves and introduce yourself.  Chances are they are feeling the same way. I knew I could do that!  And I could pull people into a conversation who look lost or have them sit at lunch with the group.

Fast forward to last week.  I was having coffee with a lender who started our conversation with how much it meant to him that I visited him at a vendor fair when nobody else did....months and months ago.  

What would our world look like if we all included one more person?

 

 

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John Pusa
Glendale, CA

Hello Nancy Pav very good helpful report about how to make somebody's day and not even know it.

Mar 30, 2023 04:27 PM
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info

Nice post and great picture to illustrate your point!  A little kindness goes a long way.

Mar 30, 2023 06:06 PM
Nancy Pav

It sure does!

Apr 03, 2023 01:41 PM
Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

Great tip Nancy and for any situation. Shows a big heart also. Jeff

Mar 30, 2023 10:03 PM
Nancy Pav

Thanks Jeff

Apr 03, 2023 01:41 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Yes indeed. Networking events and parties can be awkward when we don't know anyone. Going up to the person who is alone can definitely work!

Mar 31, 2023 05:37 AM
Nancy Pav

For both people

Apr 03, 2023 01:41 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Even though I am incredibly social, I often find myself hanging back and just seeing who might come up to me, haha.

Mar 31, 2023 06:14 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Nancy, not in the habit of going to networking events anymore, but this is a good idea to remember.

Mar 31, 2023 10:41 AM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

This is an excellent tip Nancy.  Doubt there are many of us that have not felt this awkwardness at one time or another.  It is a constant with me to this day.  m

Feb 17, 2025 05:27 PM