Real Estate Broker/Owner with people first...then business Ran Right Realty 636943 licensed to thrill

It all takes place here.

Let's get the "caveat" in the title out of the way. Humans have a tendency to sink in their think resulting in a fantasy world made up of lies. Why lies? Because none of those thoughts are true based on results. They take the familiar form of I could, would or should have but the facts of the matter say differently.

THE PAST? r.i.p.

Let it rest in peace. Be done with it as it is done with you! Can we reflect? Perhaps spend a ponder? How about a reminisce? Sure. However, if you stray or stay too long in your thoughts, a strange and interesting dynamic visits with you.


Yes, there are times when we could have handled something better no doubt about that. Spend too long in that realm & you are taken captive & made subject to drowning in your dreams by your own hand too. A better way to proceed with regret?


Realizing that we were not there, for whatever reason, allows us to visit with our mortality, fragility & ignorance for if we knew better in that moment, we certainly would do what hindsight is saying. But reality says otherwise, right here right now


Thinking does not give us the answers for life, intimacy, love & purpose. If it did, our personal history as well as our shared history (mankind) would have produced evidence of that belief. Instead, trial & error, learning curves & risking to grow, in the very moment presented is more productive. Explore, adventure & experiment


Wrong choices trigger the conscience, this we know. Then, wouldn't right choices, (subjective) reward & satisfy not only in the moment but as an investment for what is to come? Results don't lie & lack of results don't lie either. Trust in this.


Insanity! I am speaking of doing the same thing over & over again expecting a different result. I have done this as you have too. However, as soon as I realize it, I stop this, take time out, allow for time & circumstance to speak, and it does!


We are not only creating it in the moment we are in but living it too! Also, it does not need to be grandiose in its practice meaning we do not have to apply effort or trigger quantity dynamics. Keeping it real, spontaneous & simple will reward nicely for not only history, but history in the making called OUR NOW or present.


Just being ourselves, whatever that is, without effort but with "life", gives us a living peace and even a type of rest as we go. It is good enough! Too often, and over time, we are taught (incorrectly), or a belief (intruder) enters in (of which we accept) that tells us otherwise. I speak of innocent acceptance of who we are and who we are not. I speak this with humility. That's why it works! 


1. Manners & courtesy. Not only does it feel right & pay off, but what a nice way to be remembered. "they were always so nice & respectful" says it all does it not?

2. Generosity! I am speaking of the tangible and intangible that we can share which is like a personal "leave behind", so pleasant too. "they were so giving"?

3. Listening to others, which is a type of giving, that borders on being priceless. The feeling that you were heard, frees people, promotes love & friendship too.

4. Forgiveness, not just to ourselves, but to others for whatever reason. Imagine being remembered or known as someone who forgave, did not judge or condemn

5. Being approachable, inviting & reachable is something others will never forget.

6. Sacrifice, as in making allowances, going without & doing it silently will create a carefree, genuine & loving demeanor. Many will just have a pleasant thought of you, beyond words. Suffering someone when they are insufferable? It happens


Make it extraordinary, remarkable & testify to it by the very living of it. Have & seek a blithe spirit, because anyone can! Next time you are in the different arenas of life, people & circumstances, be reminded, they are just like you. Be glad in that.

Comments (5)

Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Hero or villain?  Which hat do people see us wearing today?

Aug 22, 2023 10:19 AM
Richie Alan Naggar

Ponder worthy this comment of yours. Let each one assess Liz and Bill Spear 

Aug 22, 2023 10:24 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Richie, you should be a philosopher not a real estate agent, just my two cents... on a side note how is the real estate business treating you??? ENdre

Aug 22, 2023 10:20 PM
Richie Alan Naggar

Always a pleasure with fond thoughts to hear from you Endre Barath, Jr. As far as Real Estate goes, I get a bite here & there. All is well

Aug 23, 2023 05:32 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I agree with Endre Barath, Jr. since you have always struck me as a philosopher, haha.

Aug 23, 2023 05:43 AM
Richie Alan Naggar

Richfuscious is not a myth Brian England 

Aug 23, 2023 06:32 AM
Brian England

Just one that has avoided me when I am in town Richie Alan Naggar, haha.

Aug 23, 2023 06:34 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Ah Richie nice to be affluent and to be a philosopher and not worry about money or a real estate deal here or there.... us peasants we have to work hard to make a nickel:)Endre

Aug 27, 2023 10:20 PM
Richie Alan Naggar

My peasant upbringing is something that I not only cherish but it also allows me to fully appreciate the moment I am in. Life remains best Endre Barath, Jr. 

Aug 28, 2023 05:42 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

Our past is a teacher, it shows us who we were - not who we are now if we bothered to learn the lessons our history taught us.
Forgiveness has been the hardest for me - but a game changer when I discovered it's power.

Great post Richie Alan Naggar 

Oct 12, 2023 10:47 AM
Richie Alan Naggar

Your honesty will redeem you Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets 

Oct 12, 2023 11:33 AM