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Kindness Doesn't Cost A Thing

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 311291

My mother was an extraordinary woman who faced so many challenges in her life. She came to the US from Germany at age 21 without knowing anyone or speaking English. At 39, she became a widow and was left to raise her two children while running a restaurant in Virginia. She worked tirelessly every day, from early morning until late at night. Despite the difficulties she faced, she was loved and admired by everyone in town for her hard work and determination. 

 

When I moved her to Baltimore, she quickly became involved in the community. She gave generously to charity and people in need, never considering her actions as gifts because they didn't cost anything. 

Her selflessness and kindness were infectious, inspiring others to do the same.  And despite her struggles, my mother's kindness and selflessness never wavered. 

I'll never forget when I discovered numerous gifts in my mother's home.  Questioning these items, I found that each one had a unique story - from bringing fresh laundry daily to a hospitalized neighbor, reading to a blind neighbor, or taking a neighbor (who no longer drove) to the grocery store. 

Despite her small stature, my mother had a larger-than-life personality. Her strength and resilience have left an indelible mark on me and everyone who knew her.

My mother's example has taught me that no matter what challenges we face, we can overcome them with hard work, determination, and a giving heart. She showed us how to be kind and generous, and her legacy reminds us to make the world a better place in any way we can.

My Mom's unbreakable spirit and selflessness continue to inspire me.

This is my third entry, thanks to 

 Paul McDonald and Kathleen Daniels for hosting the December challenge

 

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Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Being grateful is what you do best Margaret. Your mom influenced you in amazing ways to be kinder person and we are grateful for that

Dec 29, 2023 03:43 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Good morning Sham Reddy CRS

My mom influenced many people and showed others what it meant to be a giver.

Dec 29, 2023 07:36 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Your mom was obviously an amazing person. Thank you for sharing her life of kindness.

Dec 29, 2023 04:42 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Kat Palmiotti

My mom taught others through the way she lived her life. I am proud to be her daughter.

Dec 29, 2023 07:40 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Your Mother sounds like a wonderful person, so it makes sense that you would be wonderful as well.

Dec 29, 2023 05:00 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Thank you for the sweet comment, Brian England 

Dec 29, 2023 07:41 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Margaret. Your mother was a true inspiration measured by things done as opposed to things spoken. An inspiration to those fortunate enough to have met her. Enjoy your day.

Dec 29, 2023 05:23 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Wayne Martin That is so true.Mom was a true inspiration, her value was measured by her actions rather than her words.

Dec 29, 2023 07:44 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

What a wonderful tribute to you mother, Margaret. She sounds like an amazing woman and truly inspirational! As you know, my family were immigrants to the USA in the early 1950's and also came here with nothing. From my mother I, too, learned that all challenges can be overcome with hard work, determination, and a giving heart. Our mothers would have understood each other.

 

 

Dec 29, 2023 05:56 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Nina Hollander, Broker 

There is no doubt that our mothers would have understood each other perfectly.

Dec 29, 2023 07:48 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Margaret,
What an amazing role model your mother was! I so admire the early immigrants and their commitment to hard work. They are what has made America great over the centuries. I am sad to see what is happening with immigration these days. So many looking for a free ride.

Dec 29, 2023 08:32 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Miss Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 What is the expression - the apple does not fall too far from the tree.  This is a wonderful tribute to your mom who undertandably still inspires and influences you today. 

Thank you for your full participation in the December Kindness Challenge.   

Dec 29, 2023 08:43 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Carol Williams,  What you say is so true, and Mom was a fantastic role model and a shining example of determination and hard work.

Dec 29, 2023 08:49 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist, Thank you for hosting the December challenge.

Note: The apple doesn't fall far from the tree unless it is planted on a hill! 🙃

 

Dec 29, 2023 08:54 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

I love this about your mother! You must be so proud and have learn so much for her in the way you live your life.

Dec 29, 2023 11:54 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Dorie Dillard Austin TX 

I am very proud of Mom. She taught by doing the right thing and doing what needed to be done.

Dec 29, 2023 07:27 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Margaret many of the qualities you have stated about your mother, can also be seen in you.

Dec 29, 2023 12:49 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

George Souto,  Thanks for saying that. 

Dec 29, 2023 07:28 PM
Elyse Berman, PA
LoKation Real Estate - Boca Raton, FL
Boca Raton FL (561) 716-7824

Your mom set a wonderful example for you Margaret, one that you have followed.

Dec 29, 2023 01:23 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Elyse Berman, PA 

Mom set an excellent example, one that I have followed.

Dec 29, 2023 07:30 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Margaret- the apple did not fall far from the tree, did it!!!  Your mother sounds like the kind of strong force that many mothers from her era became. It also illustrates how important it is to have someone who sets this kind of example for young people. 

Dec 30, 2023 01:56 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Kathy Streib,

I am lucky to have spent many years with Mom after her retirement. She was a role model, and her strength and kindness left a lasting impression on me.

Jan 02, 2024 09:02 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

You're absolutely right.  Kindness is free for the giving.  A local elementary school, around the corner from my home has a sign that reads, "In a world where you can be anything, choose kindness."

Dec 31, 2023 12:57 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Myrl Jeffcoat, What a perfect sign, especially for an elementary school.

Jan 02, 2024 09:03 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

A truly inspirational post that defines the force that also shaped your personality and character.

Jan 02, 2024 07:20 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

I appreciate your comment, Ed Silva, 203-206-0754. I look forward to seeing you on Zoom this afternoon. 

Jan 02, 2024 09:05 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

It sounds like you acquired many of your mother's attributes. She would be proud of you.

Jan 02, 2024 07:20 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Dr. Paula McDonald,  Thank you.  I think Mom was and is proud of me. 

Jan 02, 2024 09:44 AM