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Enjoy What You Have Now

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Joyce Marsh Lifestyles

“Enjoy what you have rather than desiring what you don’t have.”

Embracing Gratitude and

The Power of Enjoying What You Have

 

We are living in a world driven by consumerism and endless desire to accumulate more and more stuff.

There's a reason why self storage companies are growing at an unprecedented rate. People not only pack their homes but can’t even fit their cars in their garages and resort to having to rent storage space for their stuff.

We have TV shows about hoarders and then the TV shows about how to pare down and get rid of your stuff.

I remember my grandparents who always reused and recycled long before recycling was fashionable or law.

The age-old wisdom of "enjoy what you have rather than desiring what you don't have" rings truer than ever.  

Why not shift our focus from a longing for what we lack to appreciating the abundance already present, today, in our lives.

We have been led to believe that:

  • having more will make us happier
  • having more will make us more important
  • having more will give us more security
  • having more will impress our neighbors & friends
  • having more is better

When we take the time to acknowledge and cherish the people, possessions, and experiences that enrich our lives, we cultivate a greater sense of contentment.

Embracing gratitude doesn't mean denying ourselves ambition or aspirations. It's not about settling for mediocrity or stagnation.

Years ago I read "Simple Abundance" by Sarah Ban Breathnach.  This is a book that I refer to quite often.  Sarah emphasizes in her book to enjoy each and every day with the blessings that are already present in our lives.

Being happy with what you have today is not about trying to improve our lives, but it's more about approaching life with a sense of abundance and possibility, recognizing that our worth and happiness are not determined by the size of our homes, the amount in our bank account, the make and model of our cars,  or the number of likes on our social media posts.

In essence, "enjoy what you have rather than desiring what you don't have" invites us to embrace a mindset of abundance and appreciation.

“It's a reminder that true wealth lies not in possessions, but in the richness of our relationships, the depth of our experiences, and the gratitude we carry in our hearts.”

 

So just take a pause, take stock of all that we have right now, all that we have to be thankful for, and savor the beauty of this moment, right here, right now.  

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Joyce Marsh, Interior Designer & Broker Associate

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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Joyce - the subject of "stuff" can easily overwhelm but you sort through it quite well in this post.   Enjoying moments in-the-now can simplify the many complications of life.  

Mar 02, 2024 09:23 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

This is a very good reminder for all of us.

Have an outstanding weekend.

Mar 02, 2024 11:03 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Joyce- I love this. Isn't it interesting that we spend the early part of out adulthood trying to accumulate things and in the end we have to figure out what to do with it all. Be grateful for all you have. 

Mar 02, 2024 11:54 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Joyce Marsh it took a while but I finally came to the realization, that gaining more is worthless if you don't stop to enjoy and be content with what you presently have.

Mar 02, 2024 12:06 PM
Michael J. Perry
Fathom Realty - Lancaster, PA
Lancaster, PA Relo Specialist

The Rubber hits the road in seeing how much Charitable Giving people do ??? ………..  

Mar 02, 2024 05:07 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Joyce,

Wow....how did I miss this post of yours? I'm so glad that Kathy Streib featured your post in her Sunday series as I missed it! When we feel gratitude for what and who we have in life, we rarely feel the need to accumulate more earthly possessions. Nicely written post!

Mar 03, 2024 06:18 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Stuff does not make people happy. Healthy relationships do. Excellent post!

Mar 03, 2024 07:15 AM
Eileen Burns 954.483.3912
Douglas Elliman Las Olas - Fort Lauderdale, FL
FLorida Real Estate Connector

Buy new purge equal item from your home😎

Mar 03, 2024 12:46 PM
Joyce Marsh
Joyce Marsh Lifestyles - Daytona Beach, FL
Luxury Lifestyle Influencer

Eileen Burns 954.483.3912 Thats a great idea, and good advice.  If only everyone would do that we all would have a lot less stuff.  The more you have you realize that's not what makes you happy. 

Mar 16, 2024 08:05 AM
Joyce Marsh
Joyce Marsh Lifestyles - Daytona Beach, FL
Luxury Lifestyle Influencer

Kathy Streib Thank you for featuring this blog post in your weekly feature, and I apologize for being so late in responding.... You are so right.  We spend the early part of our lives collecting and accumulating and then in our later years we have to figure out what to do with it!  

Mar 16, 2024 08:07 AM
Joyce Marsh
Joyce Marsh Lifestyles - Daytona Beach, FL
Luxury Lifestyle Influencer

Endre Barath, Jr. Donating to the animal causes and shelters is very important and with so much need in the world, it is often an overlooked cause but very necessary.  I also think it's wonderful that you always adopt rescue animals and give them a second chance in a loving secure home.

Mar 16, 2024 08:09 AM
Joyce Marsh
Joyce Marsh Lifestyles - Daytona Beach, FL
Luxury Lifestyle Influencer

Thank you Michael Jacobs As so many have commented here, its not the stuff that brings us joy in life.  It's the experiences and relationships that ultimately bring us joy.  

Mar 16, 2024 08:12 AM