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I APOLOGIZE (inner spiritual personal growth)

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with people first...then business Ran Right Realty 636943 licensed to thrill

I apologize, or in the vernacular I'm sorry, is not respected or talked about for its value, potentials or necessity. You see unless you are problem free, perfect, without flaw or error, YOU need this in your life more than you know or realize. Why? The benefits are countless, serve a broad spectrum & enhance the spiritual journey & inner self.

WARNING...DO NOT USE (I'm sorry) IF

You don't mean it. Do not make it a cliche i.e. a meaningless noise that comes out of you as a habit, or an uncalled for spoken word in fun, jest or being cool. I told you I'm sorry so drop it or why don't you listen or creating an argument where you pretend to be self-righteous won't do. The power of the spoken word can help, hinder or injure people. Mind yours responsibly.

IT IS THE START OF YOUR NEW BEGINNING

This new beginning, also known as a reset or first time out, is a benefit first for YOU & then where you are sending it. It is a remedy, a prescription of a sort to smooth & sooth all parties & end whatever is or has taken place, not to our liking instantly!

FURTHER NOTE 

It doesn't matter in the moment whether the other person or (?) accepts or rejects the offer of apology. What really matters is if you said it, for the right reasons, if it is driven by a remorse or regret with a genuine desire to start fresh, YOU are forgiven

YOU ARE NO LONGER BOUND

A lightness of being, a relief, a sort of a burden is lifted IN YOU so that you may travel lighter for it. No baggage! We perfect the self, course correcting as we go, not knowing to do better in foresight but recognizing it in hindsight. The Universe is pleased that you respond this way. Keep this up & you will qualify for more FORESIGHT, i.e. doing the right thing to begin with. We earn & learn this as we go

THE OTHER PERSON

If the other person accepts in the moment, THEY too are freed from the episode! If they do not, it now becomes a matter between them & themselves. Their timing, along with the meaning of their life or lack of meaning, travels with only them

REPENTANCE...a thousands of years ago concept

Repentance, in the GREEK, means to change, uttered with heart-driven cries by a man in the wilderness to those who could hear & understand. He was saying: if you want answers, resolutions, blessings etc., change your ways. They are NOT working

THE ENEMY HAS BEEN SIGHTED!

It is ourselves! Consult with your hindsight for proof of this. When you had your way, look at yourself, as you review your past, how things didn't go your way or could have gone better. With applied spiritual principals, they will go well as follows:

HUMILITY

If I had to ask for one thing for myself or others, it would be humility. This dynamic unlocks doors, let's a path be prepared for you & makes you open & inviting plus REACHABLE without repetition or effort. It has 1 of the 2 following characteristics.

BLYTHE SPIRIT or SEEKER

With humility, you automatically take on the demeanor of a child (care-free) who then has a Father in heaven (& earth) watching over you. When a person chooses to better themselves for the right reasons & motives, they become a seeker. Nothing is denied the one who asks, knocks, yearns, wants & adventures to discover truth. Having a child-like or seeking demeanor feeds the soul & you too

FORGIVENESS...earned or not

Because we have never been here before, that we are in a learning curve, that we travel using trial & error, forgiveness automatically exists for the summoning of it. Without forgiveness, one mistake & you are roast duck. Done! No hope! As to whether the other person forgives, we wish them well, for they need it too (badly)

WHY WE NEED TO BE TOLD CERTAIN THINGS

When you buy a product or order a service, we want to know what we are getting, how to maximize or use plus any other useful information to make the exchange prosperous for all. Without this briefing or offering of info/data, how would we know anything about what we are inquiring about or using?

THE LIFE-GIVER

With the gift of life, without the asking, we are given what we need to live it & if we choose, live it more abundantly too! That responsibility rests with HE who gave it. Our part? Use what was given wisely, as a good steward with a thankful heart full of gratitude & appreciation & more will be given even without the asking

USE THESE TOOLS

1. Become a man or woman of conscience. Obey that prompt when it comes!

2. Ask, seek inquire, yearn & discover your answers. Want them. They want you!

3. Watch your motives. What is driving you, motivating you matters greatly

4. Check your willfulness! What's yours is yours without effort. Accept it & prosper.

5. Injure no one. Their burden will punish not you! Helping where you can optional

DEGREES of FORGIVENESS 

Some things (or people) are very hard to forgive. Let's all agree on this. When this happens, we are reminded not to judge, condemn or add to circumstances. Who among us hasn't done things, secret or otherwise we were ashamed/embarrassed or humiliated & shocked by. Until we can reach objectivity or grace, sadness or tragedy visits with us. Compassion appears to some degree. Observe this gifting

OTHERS ARE WORSE or BETTER?

Take note of this but don't keep score. Instead, observe this dynamic, perhaps a snare or a temptation succeeded & got that person. There go you but for the grace of God.  Every human being started out as a child. The rest of what takes place as they grow & develop boggles the mind as to why? Many fall from the graces.

MIND & MINE your own soul & have compassion for others as presented. The time is coming for all who love TRUTH to never have to say I'm sorry ever again. Why? With good stewarding & appropriate remorse, they will transform for the better

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

There is ls a lot to ponder here and the tone speaks loudly. Acknowledging a mistake and owning it is the right thing to do, and it accepted a positive and if not at least the conscience would be clear.

Mar 11, 2024 05:46 PM
Richie Alan Naggar

Relevant addition to the posting thank you Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 

Mar 12, 2024 07:05 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Richie,

Wow, You have really given is a lot to think about. You are right it doesn't matter in the moment whether the other person accepts or rejects your offer of an apology ..you have tried to set things right and that is what counts..starting out on a clean slate. We need to use what we have been given, to the best of our ability. A very though provoking post!

Mar 11, 2024 07:58 PM
Richie Alan Naggar

Most excellent commenting & sharing thank you Dorie Dillard Austin TX 

Mar 12, 2024 07:04 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Yes, apologizing is a hard thing to do but can be so freeing. Another thought provoking post!

Mar 12, 2024 05:11 AM
Richie Alan Naggar

Kat Palmiotti ladies & gentleman

Mar 12, 2024 07:03 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Hmm, I think you should be apologizing for never making time for a meetup when I have been in your area, haha.

Mar 12, 2024 05:14 AM
Richie Alan Naggar

LOL Noted Brian England ...next time, if you are anywhere near Cedar City Utah, I want to know about it. 

Mar 12, 2024 07:03 AM
Carol Williams

Are you in Cedar City, Richie Alan Naggar  ? I thought you were in California. I stayed overnight there last year. I will definitely remember if that happens again.

Mar 12, 2024 08:04 AM
Ginny Gorman
RI Real Estate Services ~ 401-529-7849~ RI Waterfront Real Estate - North Kingstown, RI
Homes for Sale in Southern RI and beyond

Words from our own wise man, Richie!  I especially like the tools to use which we should all put in our pockets to use & remember.  TY!

Mar 12, 2024 05:45 AM
Richie Alan Naggar

One of my favorites Ginny Gorman ladies & gentleman

Mar 12, 2024 07:01 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

A very thoughtful and thought provoking post. I learnt to ask forgiveness and to accept it. Some ask for forgiveness but do not accept it and continue to suffer, when there is no need. Letting go of the guilt, the shame can take some time for many, but when the light shines it is a wonderful light feeling to know you are loved, held and protected.

Mar 12, 2024 06:33 AM
Richie Alan Naggar

Most excellent commenting & sharing thank you Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 

Mar 12, 2024 07:00 AM