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How Does Resenting and Hating My Home Affect The Energy?

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Have you ever resented or hated your home? This is a topic in the Feng Shui community not often spoken about, but is extremely important to be aware of. Occupants who resent or hate their home enable huge levels of unsettling energy that have the potential to engulf the entire home if gone unchecked. The intention of this article is to bridge science, practicality and a simple Space Clearing healing ritual to realign your home and self with harmonizing frequencies of love, compassion and peace.

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I'm working on a second article to offer an example of this situation to provide more context. 

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Laura Cerrano is a second-generation Certified New York City Feng Shui Consultant Expert. As a full-time Feng Shui consultant, Laura provides bicoastal consultations and workshops for residential, commercial, real estate developments, Fortune 500 companies and healing faculties. In addition, Laura is a resident teacher at the Metropolitan Institute of Design in Syosset, NY. She has been featured in highly respected publications and TV networks such as Bravo's "Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen," PBS, CBC Television, BBC Radio and The New York Times. 



Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Laura,

I've never thought about this because I've always loved the homes I've purchased but I do remember a short 3 month house rental in Meridian, Mississippi when we were stationed there for my husbands jet training. I hated it and found termites and moved us while he was gone on a training exercise to a cute little 1 bedroom duplex that had great vibes! The neighbors ended up being in our squadron and we became best friends! negative energy is real!

Apr 18, 2024 07:26 AM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

Hating my home...?   Interesting concept and one I have certainly never even thought about.  m

Apr 18, 2024 08:25 AM
Michael Elliott
Fathom Realty - Burlington Township, NJ
Burlington, New Jersey Residential Sales

I love my home, but I would hate that one in the picture for sure!    Looks like 15 years of hard drinking!

Apr 18, 2024 08:28 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Laura Cerrano resenting the property you live in would most likely at least lead to automatically ignoring need maintenance on the the property, and quickly go into a state of disrepair.

Apr 18, 2024 01:02 PM
Laura Cerrano

Hey George, this topic is fascinating because I have clients of times past who maintained their location but still resented and hated it. The potential dialogue for this topic can branch into interesting reasons for why people feel the way they do. 

Apr 18, 2024 01:06 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Laura= it seems logical but a concept I'd not thought about. While Larry was building in Orlando, we rented a home there and commuted to our home in Delray on Weekends. This happened twice. Each rental home was ok for our needs but I couldn't wait to be in our home back in Delray. 

Apr 18, 2024 06:46 PM
Laura Cerrano

Hey Kathy, your home is like a fingerprint, once you've established that healthy relationship :) Thank you for sharing!

Apr 19, 2024 03:35 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

I never had that problem, since I always chose where I wanted to live and decided to live, Endre

Apr 18, 2024 09:25 PM
Laura Cerrano

Hey Endre, that is great to hear. I've had client's where they did not have the choice and that made for really interesting situation. In fact, I'll elaborate on this topic to future illustrate with another post. 

Apr 19, 2024 03:34 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Laura,
I am grateful not to have ever hated or resented any home I've lived in. That would be a real energy drainer.

Apr 19, 2024 10:52 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Sounds like some people need a real estate agent to find them a new home that they can love! 

Apr 22, 2024 09:10 AM