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Thankful Thursdays…For Waiting Rooms and Good Ole Boys

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Thankful Thursdays…For Waiting Rooms
and Good Ole Boys

 

Most people I know would rather have a root canal than wait in the airport, a long line, or the doctor’s office.  While it’s not my favorite activity, I think it’s fun to observe people. You never know what you’ll learn or who you’ll meet. 

The other day, while waiting for Larry to have one of his eyes tweaked. (from his cataract surgery a few years ago) I had the opportunity to chat with my favorite character…a good ole Texas boy. 

 

An older gentleman walked in, sat on a loveseat, and promptly tried to get up. I asked if he needed help but he thanked me and said “no.”  He explained that he and his wife had one like this and they always had trouble getting out of it. 

 

This began a delightful conversation about his home on the hill. I learned he’d spent over 20 years working for Caterpillar, attended Lamar University, and moved out of the city after he retired.

 

He told me about buying two light poles for the house he built up on the hill. The company charged him the same price for a used pole as they did for a new one.

 

After expressing his concern, the good ole boy got them to give him the used pole for free.

 

He and his wife went out every weekend to “observe” the property and decide where to put the stakes for the house they planned on building.

 

I asked him if he still lived on the hill. 

“Heck no! I’m 84! I gave it to my kids! I got all of the paperwork out of the way!”


...and with that, he headed back for his exam.  There was so much more of his story I wanted to hear!

 

When I returned to Houston in 2019, I realized how much I’d missed Texas Twang and good ole boys. 



The secret to communicating with strangers is to be comfortable with uncertainty. 

Malcolm Gladwell

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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Loved the story, Kathy. The last time I was in a doctor's office in April, another patient spent 20 minutes talking politics at the top of his voice on the phone. Several other patients asked him to dial it down. He did not take the suggestion well. I really thought there was going to be a fist fight in the middle of the waiting room. Fortunately, his name was called before it got to fisticuffs.

May 02, 2024 05:03 AM
Kathy Streib

Nina Hollander, Broker oh it would have been hard not to say anything! Thankfully his name was called. I was in the waiting room once and someone was listening to a video on his phone. He wasn't using head phones so we all got to listen to it. UGH

May 02, 2024 09:22 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. People watching is always interesting. Engaging in conversation makes it even more so. Enjoy your day.

May 02, 2024 05:05 AM
Kathy Streib

Wayne Martin I'm a big people watcher!!! You can learn a lot. 

May 02, 2024 09:23 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Aw, I love this story. Strangers are just friends we don't know yet - I'm glad you both got to know each other a bit.

May 02, 2024 05:15 AM
Kathy Streib

Thanks Kat Palmiotti Before that a woman remarked how she'd never seen so many walkers (as in for seniors) in her life! I laughed and told her it was nothing compared to South FL.

May 02, 2024 09:24 AM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

I for one just hate the waiting rooms.  But a necessary evil. Thanks for sharing and enjoy your week!

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

May 02, 2024 05:24 AM
Kathy Streib

Bill Salvatore - East Valley I remember in 2020 many of the doctor's offices had you wait in your car and they would send you a text to come in. I liked that. 

May 02, 2024 09:29 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I love that you had that nice exchange with the good ole boy!  I like getting to know new people or just watching people interact with each other.

May 02, 2024 05:36 AM
Kathy Streib

Brian England me too!!!  It's something we enjoy when we walk every day. We have "met" walkers that we see daily and exchange small conversations with. 

May 02, 2024 09:30 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Good ole boy's often pass the Fun Test!  And yes, people watching is fun.

May 02, 2024 05:55 AM
Kathy Streib

Patricia Kennedy Years ago I worked in downtown Houston. Next door to the office was an independent oil company. These good ole boys could buy and sell all of us. They had a pool table in the office and we had so much fun listening to them laugh and talk. 

May 02, 2024 09:32 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Kathy,

People watching is fun but nothing better than to make a new friend and hear some fun stories! Loved hearing about your chat with a good ole boy from Texas. They are a hoot!

May 02, 2024 06:22 AM
Kathy Streib

Dorie Dillard Austin TX I missed many things about Texas but especially missed the good ole boys.  I love chatting with people to learn more about them 

May 02, 2024 09:50 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

When I first spent time in Texas I noticed a few things...One, they spoke very differently (as a former NYer...lol). Two, they are so friendly. Three, they LOVE this COUNTRY.

May 02, 2024 06:25 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty years ago when Exxon moved to Texas, I was in an elevator in their building. If I closed my eyes, I couldn't tell if I was still in Houston or NYC!   And yes, Texans are friendly and we LOVE OUR COUNTRY. 

May 02, 2024 09:52 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Kathy - everyday life offers countless opportunities to observe as well as overhear and infer much around us.  Add in the moments from nature and it can be a WOW experience.  

May 02, 2024 06:44 AM
Kathy Streib

Michael Jacobs life offers us many opportunities to learn and grow if we open ourselvews up for it. 

May 02, 2024 09:52 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Kathy,
People watching is one of my favorite things. With the obsession with cell phones these days, it's hard to get people to look up long enough to strike up a conversation. When the opportunity presents itself, I make an effort. Everyone has a story.

May 02, 2024 07:11 AM
Kathy Streib

it's something I love about Texas. Carol Williams if you're in line somewhere here, people will chat with you as if you've known each other for years. 

May 02, 2024 12:27 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Everyone has a story to tell. You were lucky to interact with an interesting character.

May 02, 2024 07:34 AM
Kathy Streib

I agree with you Roy Kelley And I was very lucky to have had a chat with him. 

May 02, 2024 12:42 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Sweet story Kathy. Ugh, waiting in a doctor's office is not one my favorite things to do!

May 02, 2024 08:47 AM
Kathy Streib

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 I must admit that I don't like being in a crowded room that is full of people with colds. 

May 02, 2024 12:43 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Kathy and good for you, some people just sit there and do not chat with others, my wife calls me a social butterfly, not sure why?

May 02, 2024 09:16 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy unlike the entitled generation of today, the Good Ole Boys did for themselves and did not look for handouts.

May 02, 2024 03:12 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

Pluck the right string and you will get them talking about their favorite subject themselves.

May 02, 2024 05:24 PM