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The Bad Reference

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Real Estate Agent with Foster Realty, Inc. RB-15721

Owning a property management company has its perks, but it also comes with its fair share of challenges. One of the more memorable moments occurred when my college-aged son decided it was time to move out and find a place of his own. Naturally, I vouched for him when he applied for an apartment with another company, confident that he'd be a responsible tenant.

"He’s a good kid," I told the property manager. "He's grown up around the business, knows the ropes. You won't have any trouble with him."

They took my word for it, and he got the apartment. Things seemed to be going smoothly at first. He’d call me with the occasional question about paying utilities or fixing a leaky faucet, but overall, he seemed to be handling things well.

The property manager called late one night. “It seems a rather large party is happening in your son’s apartment.” A mix of embarrassment and frustration washed over me. "I'll handle it. Thanks for letting me know."

When I arrived at my son's apartment early the next morning, I found the entire contents of the place—furniture, TV, even the microwave—piled up on the side of the building. They'd turned the apartment into a full-blown nightclub. The floor was covered in mud with empty beer bottles and red cups scattered everywhere. After the initial shock and apologizing profusely to the other property manager, I eventually forgave my son and told him, "You get ONE of these in your lifetime.”

 

Think twice before you vouch for your college-age kid. Their brains aren’t fully developed, and their idea of “adulting” may include a DJ and strobe lights.

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Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Wow, what a story. One of my adult sons is not great at maintaining their home, so I get it. You handled it perfectly. Did your son stay in that apartment after that event?

Carol Williams - a suggestion for second chance Saturday!

Jun 25, 2024 04:42 AM
Sylvia "Elsie" Foster

Hi Kat! No, I stupidly brought him back home so I could keep an eye on him. I hate to tell you what he did to my house when I went on vacation less than a year later. My neighbors had a lot to tell me when I got home. Thanks for reading!

Jun 25, 2024 09:31 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Hmm, I wonder if your son felt really guilty about letting you down after you vouched for him, haha.

Jun 25, 2024 05:45 AM
Sylvia "Elsie" Foster

Guilty? I believe he saw this as the most epic night of his life. Thanks for reading Brian!

Jun 25, 2024 09:26 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Oh My Gosh. As a former Property Manager, I am happy to say nothing like that ever happened with any of my rentals. I am assuming you also made your son responsible for the clean-up, including cost.

Jun 25, 2024 08:07 AM
Sylvia "Elsie" Foster

Can't get blood from a turnip. 🤷 He made it up to me when he became a functioning adult, around age 35. 😁 Thanks for reading! 

Jun 25, 2024 09:34 AM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

Welcome to the Rain. Enjoyed your blog page, and I added you as a follower. I would love the follow back. Also, then we both get 50 points. Bill

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Jun 26, 2024 02:35 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Elsie:

That's quite a story, and a bit of embarrassment. Sometimes even family screws up!

Jeff

 

Jun 28, 2024 07:49 PM
Sylvia "Elsie" Foster

Thanks for reading Jeff!

Jun 28, 2024 08:05 PM
Peter Mohylsky Gulf Front Homes
Property Management International-Destin - Inlet Beach, FL
Call me at 850-517-7098

We were all young once, I am glad I survived the experience.

Jul 09, 2024 02:26 PM