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Our Sweet Barney - We love and miss you little buddy

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Real Estate Agent with HomeSmart Real Estate AZ Broker BR030809000

Our sweet Barney passed over the doggie rainbow bridge last month.  Naturally we're both very sad about our little guy. We miss him so much.  He doesn't follow me around constantly or beg to go for a walk or ride. And let's not forget about TREATS.....oh he loved his treats.

We got Barney when he was 6 and he lived a very good life and made it to 18. Clients of our ours that were selling their home thought the new buyers were going to take him. They had jokingly said during the long listing period (short sale) would you like to take Barney? Of course we always said!

 

 

Well that joke came to become real the day before Christmas.  The seller called and said, the buyers don't want Barney.  Did you really mean you'd take him?  Yes, we'd love to take Barney! Gary went to their house to pick him up and the poor little guy was so confused. Once he got to his new home, he had a lot of people to meet as we had family in town .  Way too much for a little guy.  Most of the holiday he sat on my lap or Gary's and we tried our best to keep him happy and calm.  Naturally,  it took a little time until he felt this was his home.  But once he did, he settled right in.  We quickly figured out he wasn't socialized as he didn't know how to act around people. So we began to take him to places like Home Depot so he could get used to new people.  He did take very well to getting 'lovies' and sometimes even treats!

 

My assistant Barney!

One of his favorite things to do was get a pupachino!  So I'd make sure to take him as often as possible. Typically I'd go to a Starbucks further away because he loved 'rides' too and sticking his head out the window! Oh how he loved that! And he loved playing 'ball.  We'd throw a tennis ball out into the yard and he'd dash out to find it and bring it back.  If you're a dog lover you know how much dogs loved playing ball! Over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over!!!

 

 

About 2 years ago he lost his hearing due to an ear infection that was difficult to clear up.  And then he lost his site, pretty much.  Thankfully he knew how to get around the house and had his little routines - so he felt safe.  We began to give him him a lot more 'lovies' so he knew all was ok.  That was so sweet. He loved getting petted!

 2+ years ago we took in another little 2 year old pup -  as his parents were moving and couldn't take him with them.  We thought it would be really good for Barney plus the little guy needed a new home. I fell in love with him the first time I saw his picture and just new he belonged with us.   Norman seemed to know Barney needed to be looked after so he's let me know if Barney got himself into a tough spot. They became good buddies and it was fun to watch them play. It has taken Norman time to adjust to being the only dog for now,  but he's doing well and seems very happy.  He's such a sweet little guy!

 

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Comments(14)

Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Anna - this is sad news.  It can be difficult to say goodbye.  May happier memories provide you and Gary comfort during this sad time.  

Jul 18, 2024 05:52 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Thank you Michael Jacobs. It is sad but we were kind of expecting this to happen sometime over the summer. Poor little guy started having night terrors and other things going on. We're thankful we could keep him as happy and comfortable up to the end.  And we have many sweet memories! He was such a sweet pup!

Jul 19, 2024 04:10 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Oh Anna (and Gary) I am very sorry to hear about Barney. Like so many of our other ActiveRain pooches and cats...they become a part of our family.  I remember seeing Barney at your desk.   I know I'll smile and have a warm feeling in my heart when I think of that. 

Jul 18, 2024 06:39 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Thank you Kathy Streib we appreciate it. Yes he was my little assistant dog! Always by my side in the office Or out 'prospecting' in the backyard! He's start making this funny sound and insist I let him out. Sometimes it was a bit too often but that was ok. 

Jul 19, 2024 04:13 PM
Mike McCann Nebraska Land Broker
Mike McCann - Broker, Mach1 Realty Farm & Commercial Land Broker-Auctioneer Serving Nebraska - Kearney, NE
Farm & Commercial Property For Sale 308-627-3700

HI Anna...thank you for such a great story about Barney.  I know it is hard to lose a loved pet that really is more a family member than a pet.  I am glad you have Norman to help ease the sadness and loss.  

Jul 18, 2024 07:49 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Thanks Mike McCann Nebraska Land Broker I have so many fun stories about the little guy! And pets are definitely more like family members. I wish I could find a photo I took of him by his treat jar.....OMG he loved those treats! Norman is s little sweetie too...always wants to be with us and he actually knows our patterns and does things first now.  Sweet!

Jul 19, 2024 04:16 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Oh this post breaks my heart... as I write this comment it seems to be raining and my eyes are getting wet... poor Barney he is met on Rainbow Bridge by many of our pets, Mr. Bond, Heidi, Schmomie, Dougie and Jack to name a few...Endre

Jul 18, 2024 11:21 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist

I am right there with you Endre Barath, Jr. - truly amazing how what the heart feels causes the eyes to get wet. 

Jul 19, 2024 07:38 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

We've had many tears Endre Barath, Jr.. And we still expect him to come around he corner and want lovies..  Yes I'm sure he was met by our other pets especially Kitty.  They were good buds most of the time.

Jul 19, 2024 04:18 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Awww, I am so sorry to hear that Barney has passed over the rainbow bridge. That's so sad. You sure do have some wonderful memories!

Jul 19, 2024 04:27 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Kat Palmiotti thank you.  It is sad but we know it was his time.  Things were so tough for him the last day and we knew in our hearts what we needed to do.  Not easy but we've had to do this before.  We can't keep them around just for us.  It's doing the right thing for them if it's their time.

Jul 19, 2024 04:20 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Good morning, Anna... my heart is broken for you. I've been in your shoes. And I've lived with a dog that needed to adjust to being the only dog in the house. You'll be missing Barney for a long time. But I'm so happy you have such wonderful memories of him. 

Jul 19, 2024 05:35 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Thank you so much Nina Hollander, Broker. When you've been through it you know what it likes, not easy. We had to concentrate on Norman as he was quite confused and very afraid of being left somewhere  as he was when he came to us. It was tough on him.   We've got so many great memories of our little fur baby......OI am smiling now thinking of him.  So sweet.

Jul 19, 2024 04:23 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

I am with Endre Miss Anna "Banana" Kruchten - reading this brought tears to my eyes. It is so hard to say goodbye to our pets.  You and Gary gave Barney the best life ever. Now, will Norman get a new buddy?  

Jul 19, 2024 07:39 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

It's hard to write about, took me a couple of weeks or so to do so Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist.  But it was time.  We think we did give the little guy a really good life.  He sure was happy!  And showed it all the time with his enthusiasm to do things.  As for a new buddy, we are not sure about that as so much is happening right now.  We took him to a 'pet day care' hoping that would be good -  we;ll see.

Jul 19, 2024 04:29 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Anna,
I remember going to Home Depot with Gary and Barney & Norman. They got so much sweet attention from women and men. Barney was a sweetie and I know you all miss him very much. It won't be the same without him next time I come to visit. ❤️

Jul 19, 2024 08:38 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Carol Williams oh yes they got lots of lovies from people and they loved the excitement if going somewhere. You could simple take him for a short ride and he'd be a happy puppy! Nope it won't be the same next time you visit.  But Norman will be happy to see Aunt Carol!

Jul 19, 2024 04:36 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Barney was an adorable pooch, Anna.  I remember when I lost my dog, Kodi Bear, I was out of sorts for quite awhile.

Kodi Bear

Jul 19, 2024 02:29 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Myrl Jeffcoat - I'm sorry to learn that your beautiful Kodi Bear is gone. That photograph is absolutely beautiful! Kodi Bear's hair must have been so soft and I noticed your dog wasn't even drooling in that picture with your granddaughter. This is a very special photograph and. you are too, Myrl! 

Jul 28, 2024 04:41 AM
Debbie Laity

Myrl Jeffcoat it's terrible to come home after a lose like that and expect to be greeted by your buddy and your buddy isn't there. We take their presence for granted until they aren't there anymore. 

Aug 14, 2024 11:11 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

CONGRATULATIONS Anna, on having this blog FEATURED in the Old Farts Clubgroup!  

Jul 19, 2024 02:31 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

OH what a beautiful dog Myrl Jeffcoat . You know what it's like to miss your little buddy who's like family. It takes awhile for things to get back to 'normal' whatever that means. We're just happy Norman has adjusted and doing well. Took awhile. Thanks for the feature!  Barney would have loved being featured!  He was the center of attention!

Jul 19, 2024 04:39 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Anna "Banana" Kruchten 

RIP fluffy Barney! I'm sure there are lots of hairs in the air, so you'll never be far away. I enjoyed seeing your photographs. You were such a special dog to ActiveRainers. Barney! You'll be happy to know that when last dog, a Cocker Spaniel crossed over the rainbow bridge, I grieved for a long time. Then one spring day, I found a nest and recognized my dog's hair that lined the nest! It made me so happy to know, his hair were there, always there, in the air to be recycled with a purpose and I'm sure you would agree. Dog hair is a blessing to their owners. Sometimes, they just don't know it, and need to be reminded. 

Jul 28, 2024 04:37 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

What a sweet story about your dog Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP . Pretty special story! Baarny didn't shed much but now I wish he did!

Jul 28, 2024 12:23 PM
Debbie Laity
CinaJones Real Estate - Cedaredge, CO
Your Real Estate Resource for Delta County

Pet loses are so difficult. It's so awesome you gave Barney a good home for a very long time. Lucky took almost a year to bond with me. We figured it was a woman that abused him because he never had a problem with men. Now Lucky has cancer. At this time he is doing very well, but those days will come when he won't feel so good. It's a waiting game. 

Aug 14, 2024 11:10 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

It is so hard Debbie Laity .Sweet Barney was such a joy to have around for many years and we gave him a good home till the very end.  We looked at some old photos of him when he was younger and oh....what a playful pup he was!  And he loved his treats!

Sorry to hear that Lucky is dealing with cancer.....tough on dogs and we just never know how it will manifest.  I hope he lives as long a happy life as possible.

Aug 16, 2024 11:44 AM
Debbie Laity

Anna "Banana" Kruchten yes it is difficult to see your pet suffer and then to have to do the deed and end it all for them. My time will come soon, but I will cherish each day we have. 

Aug 16, 2024 02:55 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Agreed. It was tough the first time we had to put our 18 year old kitty down.  I saw a van for a vet that came to your house and they had a website that really helped me see it was the right thing to do.  Basically it said......humans need to put the poor suffering animal first, not their own needs. In nature they would naturally die, probably much sooner.  So it's our responsibility to do the right thing for them.  It was still very hard to do, but it did help us both to understand it all better.   Hang in there......I know it's tough.

Aug 16, 2024 03:02 PM