Grievances Galore?

Barbara Michaluk - there are times, though not usually, when I am reading multiple books at the same time.  

Wayne Martin - I don't like to make suggestions.  For many reasons.  

Roy Kelley - and starting with the most basic ways of organizing.   Family dynamics, neighbors, work life and so many more.  One of the memorable chapters for me is Chaos, Clicks and Catastrophe.  

Kathy Streib - finding commonality is useful.  After all, we want to resolve issues, right?  Okay, more to ponder. . .  

Jeffrey Richman - a library or a bookstore can be helpful when opening minds is the objective.  But it can also occur when we listen and exchange ideas with others who may not seem the same.  

Dorie Dillard Austin TX - thank you for the comment.  While I have participated in media-bashing at times, I admit to having something of a grievance with the practice.  Its place in history is long.  So is distortion.  Anyway, I continue to ponder. . .  

Brian England - I am glad to hear you are reading more.  And I might be frightened that you were doing less of it.  HaHa  👓📚👓

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty - "warriors" of all kinds seem to live among us.  Whether it's social media or texting versus calling (let alone face-to-face conversation) is part of something that perhaps is much bigger.  And more frightening.  Hmm. . .  

Sharon Tara - it seems many have been empowered to speak their minds.  Too bad, they have been self-appointed.   

Although the days when discussions of politics - religion - sex - money were not a part of everyday life, I do remember times when things seemed a bit more civil.  Of course, looking back often doesn't tell the entire truth however it may be perceived.  

Michael Jacobs  Self appointed empowerment...exactly. Keyboard warriors lacking in self discipline when it comes to responding to others.

Sharon Tara - 🎯💯🎯

Anna "Banana" Kruchten - thank you for sharing your thoughts.  Whether it's over the fence with neighbors or more global discussions, I believe much can be learned from finding commonality.  And you're absolutely right, it's not easy - never has been.  As for vacations, respites and breaks --- that sounds like an appealing suggestion.  

Along similar thinking, I appreciate the highlight within the BananaTude group.  🍌🙈🙉🙉🍌

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! - disagreeing is not uncommon, finding resolution may not always follow.  Of course, that does not mean that civility needs to be abandoned.  Good for you for practicing it.  If we can accomplish this within our families, I believe there is much hope beyond those ties.  Good for you!

Myrl Jeffcoat - many of the things we have "seen" and continue to experience have been unbelievable.    Politics and beyond.  

Myrl Jeffcoat - I appreciate the OFC group feature.  

Aura Alex - I am glad my previous introduction to you about Frank Bruni met with such a good reception.  Your post about the grit-master made me a fan of Angela Duckworth.  I continue to think of her as a shining example of that g-word.  

Michael Jacobs 

I find solace in humility in a world filled with noise and negativity. I gravitate toward authenticity and shy away from the chaos of the Q&A sections when it comes to hidden-snarky-political comments.

Aura Alex - I hear you.  😏

Debbie Laity - I have been fortunate to be able to find many books.  My choice to not pursue buying or collecting books is a choice that seems right for me in the last few years.  Less is more satisfying for me.   Thank you for the comment.  

Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP - searching for subjectivity can be challenging.  As can interpreting words, definitions or positions.  It's not easy.  Rarely is anything as simple as some make think it is. 

Face-to-face interaction may help - I hope so.  Sorry to hear you were feeling unwell - here's to good health!

Reading can be good.  I'm in the middle of a book by an author who many might think I have little-to-nothing in common.   He is a best-selling author and on the national stage right now.  And I believe that's a shame.  I can't fix the world - I can only be a bit better than yesterday.   

Michael Jacobs - the longer I live, the more it is confirmed that everything we read or write is subject to interpretation. Staying out of trouble with our words is truly a challenge we face, now more than ever. 

Reading is important. Do you remember when Bill Spear wrote a post and illustrated the Venn diagram? Well, a few days later, I was in B&N and found two books about "Ikigai," by authors, Hecktor Garcia and Francesc Miralles. The first book they wrote was short and a quick, but meaningful. It was called "The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life." For me, it was like a blueprint for success written about how the Japanese live their lives, very different from Americans, I thought.

FYI... my daughter lived in Japan (traditional part) not Tokyo for 4 1/2 years, after graduating with a Masters, at University. The book mirrored what I learned during my visits to that country and how my daughter's life changed for the better as a result of Japanese living.

Now I am on the second book, "The Ikigai Journey." When I opend up the cover, inside was a Venn Diagram. In that diagram, I could see how helpful it would have been during my first year in real estate. I recognized quickly, I am in a different place in my life (circle) according to the Venn Diagram. 

I also finished another book last night. A title I dare not mention because it is controversial based on current events between 2017 through today. Without even disclosing the name of the book, you summed up what was written perfectly "And I believe that's a shame. I can't fix the world - I can only be a bit better than yesterday." Right now, the way I see it, THAT is the challenge everyone not in politics is faced with today because it impacts our future. 

Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP - beyond politics, there are places where discussion and discourse are hopefully still alive.  Although I think anything social media-related is likely not included.  I fail, perhaps far too often, in finding them within myself.  However, I continue along that road.  It's a path with quite a few detours.  We shall see.  

Michael Jacobs - Amen! Life was not meant to be stagnant! 

Roy Kelley - may your weekend be filled with photo-capture-worthy-moments.

Joan Cox - I prefer to look beyond but I notice all sorts of %^!+ (aka stuff) being strewn about.  Thankfully, it is not that difficult to avoid it - reading takes up a lot of time as does directing attention in a different direction.  

Carol Williams - although many have distinct feelings of "knotty" as in paneling preferences, I wonder about "not" perspectives as a whole.   

Hmm - yes, such thoughts can prompt pondering.   Even as I agree with you about the very real notion that we truly have more in common with each other rather than the opposite.  

Roy Kelley - many sorts of challenges are apparent in everyday life.  Such glitches can be annoying.  However, when looking at the bigger picture, it's a minor inconvenience.  

Thanks for sharing your positive perspective.

Roy Kelley - that's very kind of you.  I believe you continue to practice positivity (and beyond that, kindness) throughout ActiveRainLand in many ways.  I appreciate you demonstrate that trait in a place where we see characters of all kinds.  I continue to be a work-in-progress.  Failing far too often.