This is one way of keeping fun & satisfying scores in life about life as you travel. It started when you were old enough to receive knowingly the deep satisfaction of doing something, by & for yourself. Throwing & catching a ball, riding a bike, jump rope, hopscotch, & as you matured, the many subjects visited with you all labeled as
MILESTONES
Defined: an action/event marking/making a significant change for you. When young, they come in non-stop, without the asking & we gobble them up without a second thought even demanding more too! It's exhilarating & free too.
BREAKTHROUGHS
Defined: A sudden discovery/advance in knowledge or technique. It's like finding money only more so as money cannot buy it only living life can. You see for yourself a better way to dress, speak, act or play jarring us upward & onward. We love this!
YOU MUST PARTICIPATE
Interesting at how these rewards match up perfectly to our make-ups. Learning curves, trial & error & hit or miss teach when engaged. We then take the experience & refine it even customizing it to our liking. Also, another marvelous thing happens
DISCOVERING OURSELVES
At some point along your awakening, the getting older part, we notice how we are all different but not paying too much attention to it. Then, as we progress, We do start comparing, judging & asking ourselves or out loud why this or that, me or them questions. We don't dwell on this however it makes a home in us
DISCOVERING OUR SKILLS BANK
Someone or yourself notices that you are good or excel in something thus making us explore it further intentionally or not. We may just use the benefits discovered not knowing why or where they came from. It's your skills bank1 Your strengths, weaknesses, advantages & disadvantages. Now to command & control all these
DISCOVERING OTHERS
We automatically, at some point notice other people's abilities or lacks opening us up to contemplation, reflection & discovery & perhaps even jealousy. Seeing others also can cause us to look at ourselves too. We grow, learn while we prosper
OVERCOMING OBSTACLES
Some of us have hurdles, blockages & dysfunction to outgrow, lose & lament & we will & do just that hopefully the sooner the better. Perhaps even to heal or unlearn what was not profitable. Not wise to carry the past into the present so let's look & address this to better ourselves. Not wise to hide, suppress or put-off either NO
HERE YOU WILL MEET
1. Blame. It is so easy to accept & employ but hurts YOU more than others. Sure, a part was played by others, knowingly or not, deliberately or out of ignorance or their dysfunctions. Parents are the first ones we look at followed by other kids & authority figures. Examine your part, recognize others parts & begin the healing
2. Excuses. This takes the form of storytelling yourself & others of how "poor me" was done in. While you may sell others for sympathy, you lied to yourself as well
3. Ignorance. It's okay to realize that you do not know what to do as this prepares you to start-up the knowing what to do dynamics. We all started out lacking
4. Pride. This one works on you for the worse making you even worser. Admit your part & move-on. Watch this as it gets sticky trying to save itself. Seek humility cure
CELEBRATE EACH DAY
Treat it as another "good" bite at the apple, to correct, refine & to invest in your own personal stock. Another chance to do, or not to do. You don't have to throw yourself a party just don't disrespect second chances or opportunity to progress
IF YOU DO NOTHING "RIGHT" YOU WILL DO NOTHING WRONG
A mystery to dine on this is. When we do or say the wrong thing (subjective), our conscience is triggered to alert us. Change is then required even remorse or regret called repentance. When you do the right thing or travel correctly, conscience gets time-off. Become a person of conscience. Worth the time to explore here's how
LEARN TO RECOGNIZE THAT SMALL, STILL VOICE WITHIN
Not the thinking or emotional voice NO! The insight driven, natural know that is reaching & speaking in a wordless way to help you. Let it. Be quiet, still & not so busy so you can then become more sensitive to this inner communication system
This post, if you allow & believe, is a milestone if practiced & breakthrough if followed. It's all waiting on you. What are you waiting for?
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