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AR Etiquette: Don't 💩 On Another Member's Post

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Real Estate Agent with Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 UT DRE# 6541633-SA00

AR Etiquette: Don't 💩 On Another Member's Post
 

Snarky comments by members are best left to other social media platforms, where it's a readily accepted practice. Authors here, who take the time to write about subjects they enjoy or to educate fellow members with industry information or create fun-filled posts, rarely expect the negativity.

 

Granted, some members only grind out posts designed to get the consumers attention, not wanting to build relationships here in the Rain. Their blog is completely customer facing, many turn off commenting altogether. The beauty of this forum is the diversity and wide range of professionals.

 

But if you're...

Looking to get a comment removed because you enjoy 'disagreeing' especially in lighthearted blogs? That wish can be granted, especially when taking the post in a downward direction. Try writing an opposing view to reach an audience on your page.
 

There's no need to leave a reminder about your selling area when commenting. Several members do this constantly, even after they've been asked nicely to stop. Most are on-the-go, serial copy/paster's anyway.
 

Be best to...

Avoid acting like you're heads above everyone else in the intelligence department by pompously schooling everyone else, it is a huge turn off. As a past client once once declared, "This industry isn't rocket science" and I refuse to do blustery! 

 

Of course, it's your blog, do what you wish unless it goes against ActiveRain's etiquette rules. Then, it's out of your control at that point and will be addressed. Break the rules too many times and say goodbye to one of the best real estate related forums online. Your choice completely.

 

So, avoid 💩ing on another member's post and please do not allow your dog to 💩 on the neighbor's lawn. If it happens, quickly clean your act it up!

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Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Wanda- it is always good to remind all of us about this!! But sadly it may fall on deaf ears. 

Sep 05, 2024 11:27 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Spammers are free game here, Michael Elliott and have engaged a few!

Sep 05, 2024 01:15 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Members are free to advertise heavily on their own page but not so much on everyone elses. It's a bad look, Bob "RealMan" Timm!

Sep 05, 2024 01:16 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

I remember Dale, an inspector from back east, who was a sweet man who always left his signature when commenting. He meant no harm but was deleted from this platform, Nina Hollander, Broker. He was warned multiple times!

Sep 05, 2024 01:19 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! I can think of at least one person who does this with every comment and has always done so and has not been deleted... but I also don't know if these people have been warned.

Sep 05, 2024 01:22 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

You're welcome Roy, wishing you and Dolores a wonderful day!

Sep 05, 2024 01:23 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Being engaged in a respectful conversation is one thing but negatively twisting a post is unacceptable, Kathy Streib. Hope whoever's style of commenting is described in the post take heed, one can only hope! 🤞

Sep 05, 2024 01:36 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! one of the more positive changes in AR is there seems to be less people looking for a comment fight, and less spam comments.  I don't know if it is because AR Staff is doing a better job of removing these people, or I am just lucky that I don't run into them as much any more.

Sep 05, 2024 01:47 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Wanda - we have a front-row seat to see all kinds of $+*! as residents of planet Earth and thus on this site.  And from what I have seen, some of that 💩 is indicative of the those pushing it out.  

Sep 05, 2024 02:46 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Wanda,

Another good warning but alas It may fall on some deaf ears! Members are free to advertise heavily on their own page but NOT on someone elses page! 

 

Sep 05, 2024 06:28 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

So many thanks go to member support, who takes care of that for us, George Souto. Back in the day, it wasn't unusual to encounter people who were looking for a fight and I moved on from them!

Sep 05, 2024 06:46 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

People will sling stuff and I am ducking and diving when necessary, Michael Jacobs. Ain't got time to engage in that!

Sep 05, 2024 06:47 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Unsure what they have to gain, Dorie Dillard Austin TX. We are not moving to or leaving from their city or state and most of us do not live in their selling area!

Sep 05, 2024 06:49 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Interesting post Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!  you failed to add in there that people who comment and support your posts should get an equally kind comment back on their posts. I have been accused of being a bully for saying this  by non other that ARM, but I am a firm believer life is a two-way street, Endre

Sep 05, 2024 10:23 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Reciprocation should come naturally but oftentimes does not happen, Endre Barath, Jr.. Making it a point to respond and acknowledge comments is very important, I do agree.

Sep 06, 2024 05:17 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I know that I like to joke a lot, so I hope that none of my comments come off as snarky.  I always try to be supportive!

Sep 06, 2024 06:23 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Hello Miss Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! Mr. Crappy and I approve of this message. 

My mind swirls when I read some comments.  I just do not get it. I will leave it at that! 

Sep 06, 2024 04:35 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

FEATURED IN CRAP-TACULAR

 

Mr. Crappy Approves This Message!

Flush the 💩ing on People’s Posts!

Flush the Snarky Attitude

💩💩

💩

 

Sep 06, 2024 04:37 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Something harmless can be perceived as more than that. Every day I try to do better, be better, Brian England!

Sep 06, 2024 08:11 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Yes, it's best to avoid some people who like to engage other members for all the wrong reasons, Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist.

Sep 07, 2024 02:15 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

So glad you agree, Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist, Mr. Crappy can smell a snarky attitude a mile away - good to flush and be rid of it quick before causing a real stink! Thank you for the feature in CRAP-TACULAR. much appreciated.

Sep 07, 2024 02:27 PM