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Staying Positive On AR
Or At Least Neutral
One of the most wonderful aspects of ActiveRain has always been the respect shown between members. The Founders gave ActiveRain a strong basis for community growth. Knowledge of its foundations is what gives a community strength and cohesion.
The Founders even provided a post called Getting started on ActiveRain.
One Founder document was the WELTANSCHAUUNG, A WORLD VIEW of "what ActiveRain stands for" in the Founders' minds. Very worthwhile to read.
Another Founder document details the COMMUNITY GUIDELINES. The guidelines are fascinating to read as a guide to online behavior anywhere on the Internet.
SO ---- what to do if someone is impolite in comments? IMHO - ignore the comment and move on. If the rudeness includes a positive suggestion, well, pay attention to that aspect. Then ignore the rest.
In any situation, I always try to take the road HIGHER than the person whose behavior is less than appropriate.
Proudly, I remember posts I put up on my Blog that received strong criticisms. And lots of them as well. What we write, I think, should have a point of view and that, from time to time, may stimulate strong opinions on different sides.
Don't like a comment on your work? Remember the words of St. Francis of Assisi in his famous Peace Prayer - ..."it is in pardoning that we are pardoned..." and then JUST LET IT GO. What people say is often more about them than about the person to whom the comment was directed.
Please see the clear statements posted by Debe Maxwell recently. Lots to learn from what she shares in that post. In fact, I've taken the liberty to quote her quite extensively below.
All the best - Lynn
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LIBERALLY QUOTED FROM Debe Maxwell, CRS in her post about civility.
"It's important to remember that constructive debate and respectful disagreement are healthy. They challenge our assumptions, broaden our horizons and lead to growth. But, when disagreements turn into rude comments and personal attacks, it sours the entire community.
So, what can we do to maintain a positive and
supportive environment on ActiveRain?
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Identify Bullying: Recognize when comments are not just disagreements but are attempts to bully or belittle others. These often come in the form of passive-aggressive remarks or thinly veiled insults.
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Stand Up for Others: If you see someone being unfairly targeted, offer your support. A kind word or a constructive counter-comment can go a long way in diffusing negativity.
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Stay Positive: Focus on contributing positively to the conversation. Highlight the benefits, share success stories, and provide constructive feedback. Remember what your grandmother taught you - "If you don't have anything nice to day, don't say anything at all."
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Ignore Negativity: Don’t let negative comments derail your participation. Stay focused on your goals and continue engaging with like-minded members who value respectful discussions.
- Report Inappropriate Behavior: If you encounter bullying or personal attacks, press the report button. This helps maintain the integrity of the community and ensures a welcoming space for everyone. Someone pressing the report button is what brought about this post!
By fostering a culture of respect and positivity, we can ensure that ActiveRain remains a valuable resource for ALL of our members. Let’s not let a few detractors ruin the fun and productive exchange of ideas for all. Aren’t we all here to learn, grow and support one another in our real estate journeys."
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PS - Image above was formulated using Nightcafe AI. It is fun for me to try.
Prompt was "Walking ahead towards a field of blooming sunflowers bordered by Aspen trees on a sunny day." L
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