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It's Recess Not Homework

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 311291

 

Real estate professionals, especially realtors, have been facing a lot of stress lately. We're no strangers to pressure, but we've become masters of problem-solving. Our stress comes from navigating challenging transactions and the highs and lows of buying and selling.

 

Moving ranks up there with major life events like death, divorce, retirement, and illness. Despite the immense stress, we real estate professionals have proven incredibly resilient.

We've weathered the storm of COVID-19, tackled a wild seller's market with multiple offers, and empathized with our stressed-out buyers. We've submitted countless offers, scoured every available property, and experienced the pressure of multiple bidding situations. We've seen interest rates double and triple. 

 

Lately, we have been bombarded with details from NAR/DOJ and misinformation from industry sources. This has added to the strain, and some agents have been pushed out of the profession. In the last few months, I've attended countless webinars, Zoom meetings, and news flashes and read many magazine and online articles. These changes are going into effect this week.

The pressure affects not only our clients but also ourselves.

And then there's the regular stress that accompanies every real estate deal. When working with sellers, I always ask two crucial questions: Are you absolutely certain about moving? And are you absolutely certain about listing with me? And while I explain why I've sworn off moving myself, I remind them that I won't subject myself to the stress they're about to endure. Someone once told me that going through two divorces was less stressful than moving!

 

But despite all this, I love being a REALTOR and Broker. I truly enjoy shepherding my buyers and sellers through the rollercoaster of a real estate transaction.

 

When we started our Tuesday Zoom calls four years ago, we banded together to provide support, motivation, and wisdom. It was a great way to stay connected when meet-ups weren't possible.  During a recent post about our AI sessions, Brian England quipped,

"I'm relieved I don't have to do homework in the rain, but I'm really enjoying the work produced by all of you!" He ended with his trademark "haha."

Finger-Painting using AI

 

For me, it's not homework; it's recess playtime. It's the satisfaction of sharing our knowledge and creating something wonderful together—akin to adult finger painting. 

Learning is not homework; it's recess, fun, and playtime.

 

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Note: the only AI  image above  is the last one with children finger painting.

Aug 11, 2024 07:54 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Margaret,

I love you using the term "learning is not homework it's recess time and time for fun." Carol Williams recently called it "fun work!" All are good. Your post tells the story of what many of us are feeling and a diversion is exactly what we need to maintain that positive attitude on life and business!

Aug 11, 2024 08:05 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Dorie Dillard Austin TX

I am enjoying the recess time. This post was inspired by Brian England.

Aug 11, 2024 08:23 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Margaret - stressful times happen.  Real estate professionals as well as countless others in everyday life can experience on a daily basis.  How people adapt or adjust is quite individual.  

Aug 11, 2024 08:48 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

 

Michael Jacobs 

I appreciate your thoughtful comments and they always brighten up my day!

Aug 21, 2024 06:14 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

 

I have not reached the point of seeing it as playtime Miss Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 
It does feel more like homework given the "learning" component. 

Brian ends all comments with haha ... that is his signature calling. 

 

Aug 11, 2024 10:38 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist

No matter what you call it, I am glad you are exploring the

assignment/playtime!

Aug 11, 2024 03:56 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you, Margaret, for your insightful and thoughtful post; I truly appreciate the valuable perspective you shared on the resilience of real estate professionals and the importance of finding joy in our work amidst the challenges we face. Your analogy of learning as "recess" really resonates with me!

Aug 11, 2024 11:01 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Lew Corcoran,

I appreciate your comments and your posts always brighten up my day!

Aug 21, 2024 06:12 PM
Bill Salvatore - East Valley
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

Dealing with a deal right now, talking about stress.  Have a buyer purchasing a home with Solar.  The solar company Titan just filed bankruptcy. Thanks for sharing, make it a great Sunday and enjoy your

weekend!

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Aug 11, 2024 11:07 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Good evening, Bill Salvatore - East Valley   Would love to read a blog on how you handle this situation!

 

Aug 21, 2024 06:10 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Margaret, I had not looked at is as a recess, but that term works for me.

Aug 11, 2024 11:35 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Michael Jacobs knows that if I am mentioned in a blog post, it is mandatory for me to comment on said blog post, haha.  I still believe it is homework, but I never said that homework had to be seen as a bad thing, haha.  Homework certainly can be fun and something we look forward to doing!

Aug 12, 2024 04:39 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Brian England:

Yep, we all recognize and appreciate your "ha-ha's."

Aug 21, 2024 06:08 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

You're right about the amount of stress associated with changes to the real estate industry, Margaret!  Stress has always been there, but it seems to be on steroids lately!  I retired at the end of 2021.  I'm now in recess!

Aug 12, 2024 06:27 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

CONGRATULATIONS Margaret, on having this blog FEATURED in the Old Farts Clubgroup!  

Aug 12, 2024 06:28 PM
Jeffrey Richman
Immediate Home Solutions - Myrtle Beach, SC
Creative Real Estate Specialist

Hi Margaret,

My father told me a long time ago that if you enjoy what you do, then it's not work.  I am happily "unemployed

Aug 13, 2024 07:20 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Jeffrey Richman   Your father gave you some excellent advice.

Aug 21, 2024 06:05 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Margaret- I love calling it recess or playtime!!!  Whatever it is it's done for fun and at the same time we learn something. When I was in grad school, I had to find something to let my mind wind down after reading thick stat books. That's when I began reading mysteries and legal thrillers. It was homework but a way to take my mind from full throttle to coast. 

Aug 17, 2024 05:22 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Kathy Streib

I enjoy this "recess time" because I am using what I am learning to create my blog images. You know, two birds...

See you on the Tuesday's ZOOM.

Aug 17, 2024 06:00 PM
Brenda J. Andrew
ULTIMA REAL ESTATE - Willis, TX
Professional Realtor in N Houston & Corpus Christi

Good afternoon Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 .  You have always had so much insight and wisdom. Thanks for bringing everything back around.  We are always going so fast through life, and through everyone's real estate purchases and sales, we sometimes forget how much we have been though in this industry.  We have been through a lot and prevailed, we will prevail through this as well.  I had honestly forgotten about some of these things.  I can remember the 2008 market, but you brought it back through Covid, the crazy sellers market and rising interest rates.  I still love what I do, and love meeting new people and helping them.  I will continue onward!  Have a beautiful and blessed evening!

Aug 21, 2024 03:12 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Brenda J. Andrew RENE, PSA, MRP, SRS

Thanks for taking my call this evening. I appreciate your comment, which would make a good post for you.

Aug 21, 2024 06:04 PM
Brenda J. Andrew

Thank you so much for your call Margaret.  It was so nice talking to you. I know you were making a bunch of calls.  I was picking pears at my parents house when you called.  It is always a pleasure speaking to you!  Let me see what I can do and thank you so much for the encouragement! Have a great day!

Aug 22, 2024 05:32 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Brenda J. Andrew RENE, PSA, MRP, SRS

My day yesterday was wonderfully busy, but you were the only AR call I made.

Aug 22, 2024 06:48 AM
Brenda J. Andrew

I took your advice and just posted my blog.  I hope you enjoy it!  And you are so sweet!  Thank you again.  Here it is If you enjoy what you do, you will never work a day in your life.

Aug 22, 2024 07:03 AM
Jim Smith
The Property Management Company - Round Rock, TX
Broker,CRS,GRI,RMP,CNE,TRLP

I am blessed to have had the parents and grandparents that I had - they were a huge influence on my life lessons.  A favorite saying that I often share as a public speaker is about my Dad: I only saw him work two days throughout his entire life; and, he quit both of those jobs.  He always got paid well playing with his passion.  The family joke was always that he would never retire.  We would someday likely find him slumped over his desk doing what he loved (geology).  Unfortunately, that is how we found him, well into his 80's.

Aug 24, 2024 04:37 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Jim Smith,  I love your dad's words of wisdom. 

Aug 24, 2024 07:58 AM