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Motivational Monday…Unplugged

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Motivational Monday…Unplugged

 

This weekend was a reminder that the pressures of our obligations and commitments are often self-imposed. 

 

Larry and I took a long weekend trip to KC for a reunion with his family and our good friends.

 

I’ve tried on previous trips to prewrite my posts but was not always successful. Years ago I set a personal goal of writing a post a day. It wasn’t for the points but my way of keeping the dendrites fired up. 

 

I’ve not missed a day of posting and I try to respond to most comments on my posts. It’s not a requirement of ActiveRain. But, it’s something I’ve been committed to. 

 

 So that I could focus on family time, I wrote my posts and had them in draft mode - ready to go. 


Many of you already know how to unplug and not let devices and unnecessary tasks prevent you from quality time with what’s truly important…real life! I did just that this weekend. With the exception of some commenting time in the car and while having coffee on the deck, I focused on family and friends. 

 

It was my ah-ha moment ( ok, I’m late to the party) that no one is putting the “obligation” on me to write and comment every day but me.

 

My apologies for comments and responses not made but I’m back in the saddle and will be catching up to your posts!

 


 

Lesson learned: 

When you are feeling stressed because of a deadline or obligation, step back and ask yourself if it is a real “ must- do” task or one of your own making.

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Comments(21)

Charles Ross - eXp Realty LLC
eXp Realty LLC Salina Group - Salina, KS
Love To Help People

Such a powerful reminder, Kathy Streib! It's essential to unplug and focus on what truly matters—real-life connections with family and friends. Thank you for sharing your journey and reminding us that sometimes, the only pressure we face is the one we put on ourselves. Keep inspiring us! 🌟 #StayMotivated #WorkLifeBalance #FamilyFirst

Aug 12, 2024 04:54 AM
Kathy Streib

Thank you Charles Ross - eXp Realty LLC  I don't think we were too far from you!!! Are you familiar with Lenexa KS or Peculiar MO. h

Aug 12, 2024 11:44 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. I to like to write a post a day and sometimes write several in advance, place them in draft and then call upon them as needed. And, I try to comment on the posts of others daily. With that said may not get to all today since family commitments will have my time spent elsewhere. Enjoy your day.

Aug 12, 2024 04:54 AM
Kathy Streib

You've done a good job of that Wayne Martin Saturday was a day that I was on for maybe 5 minutes. 

Aug 12, 2024 11:45 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Kathy - or should I say giddy up.  Making gadgetry disappear isn't magical but it seems to remain a mystery to many.  Getaways, regardless of how brief they may be, can provide gazillions and gazillions of great moments.  

Aug 12, 2024 05:41 AM
Kathy Streib

Hi Michael Jacobs We went on a hayride!!!  Had to hold on tight because the ride was over bumps and curves. 

Aug 12, 2024 11:47 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Kathy,

Good for you for unplugging! When I'm gone I do the same thing. When it's time to focus on being "in the moment" with family and friends everything else is put on the back burner!

Aug 12, 2024 05:52 AM
Kathy Streib

Dorie Dillard Austin TX You're better at it than I am. I have to admit, I enjoyed it. 

Aug 12, 2024 11:48 AM
Michael Elliott
Fathom Realty - Burlington Township, NJ
Burlington, New Jersey Residential Sales

Dendrite?  Thank you for expanding my ever growing vocabulary  :-)   Never heard that word before.  I like to future post / scheduler feature!

Aug 12, 2024 06:05 AM
Kathy Streib

Michael Elliott keep your dendrites firing. 

Aug 12, 2024 11:48 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Kathy, Scheduling posts in advance and having them go out daily is a great way to stay consistent with your content. Good for you staying unplugged and most didn't know you were missing!

Aug 12, 2024 06:18 AM
Kathy Streib

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 I used to use the scheduler but decided not to rely on it. 

Aug 12, 2024 11:49 AM
Bill Salvatore - East Valley
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

I so agree, great information. Thanks for sharing it.

Have a super fantastic week!

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Aug 12, 2024 06:56 AM
Kathy Streib

Bill Salvatore - East Valley thank you and enjoy your week!

Aug 12, 2024 11:49 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

I do not write posts nearly as often as I once did. I think I should write more, but I find the importance of me time has me passing on some of the things I would like to do. 

Aug 12, 2024 07:20 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty I know what you mean. I say, except for what you have to do, do what you enjoy doing. 

Aug 12, 2024 11:50 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Good morning, Kathy... when I decide to unplug, I unplug and I do it without guilt. Technically, I unplug every day... at 6:00 pm (unless I'm negotiating a contract). No more work, no more calls, etc. after 6:00 pm. And I don't feel guilty! 

Aug 12, 2024 07:38 AM
Kathy Streib

Nina Hollander, Broker i'm learning to do that. Guilt, afterall, is self-imposed. 

Aug 12, 2024 11:50 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Kathy Streib hi Kathy... so much in life is self-imposed!

Aug 12, 2024 02:05 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I am familiar with this self inflicted pressure of which you speak.

Sounds like you had a nice break with your family!

Aug 12, 2024 08:41 AM
Kathy Streib

Sharon Tara tell you about it later!!!!!  

Aug 12, 2024 11:51 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Kathy and I know you were headed to Kansas from us texting each other so understand you missing to comment on my blogs.

 

Aug 12, 2024 09:01 AM
Kathy Streib

Will Hamm thank you!!!  I had fun chlling!

Aug 12, 2024 11:52 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Kathy I'm so glad you and Larry had a great weekend visiting with family! One thing I know for sure is nothing is more important and I mean NOTHING than the person sitting right in front of me. Spending time with friends and family is on of the greatest gifts of life.  AR is the second greatest LOL!

 

Featured in BananaTude!

 

Aug 12, 2024 10:48 AM
Kathy Streib

Thanks Anna "Banana" Kruchten and yes, NOTHING is more important than that. Life goes on no matter what. 

Aug 12, 2024 11:52 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy I guess we can forgive you for being a slacker this time.   🤣😇😂

Aug 12, 2024 01:54 PM
Kathy Streib

Thank you, sir! George Souto  It was kind of relaxing not being consumed by ActiveRain. 

Aug 12, 2024 06:06 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

I definitely need to change some of my daily habits.

Have an outstanding week.

Aug 12, 2024 02:52 PM
Kathy Streib

hi Roy Kelley  the one daily habit I don't want to change is my daily walk!

Aug 12, 2024 06:09 PM
Debbie Laity
CinaJones Real Estate - Cedaredge, CO
Your Real Estate Resource for Delta County

I used to have the same commitment as you. I've given up on that particular commitment in trade for more time with friends, my garden, my fixer upper house and my dogs. Not necessarily in that order. 

Aug 12, 2024 03:04 PM
Kathy Streib

Debbie Laity something I do is rework older posts. It saves time. 

Aug 12, 2024 06:12 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

It is important to unplug once in a while, just to prove we can.  I often rationalize that I can, but getting my brain to follow through can be difficult.  I did manage it yesterday, however!

Aug 12, 2024 06:13 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Have been motivated to write every day (or close to it) unless life gets in the way, Kathy. People do notice when there is an absence but sometimes a breather is necessary to remain present! Good for you to do so.

Aug 12, 2024 06:33 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Kathy,
I've often been amazed at your ability to post and comment every single day, even when you were moving or without power. When I was posting every day, I had binge-writing days and scheduled them to post daily.  I'm glad you and Larry had a good weekend get-a-way.

Aug 12, 2024 07:08 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Kathy Streib  no wonder we are friend, no one tells me to reply to all comments, but I do that is what this platform is all about "Interaction" when they were giving points for replying many more participated, now that no points are given fewer do.... nevertheless, like you I continue to participate, that is what is called interaction.... I totally get your message, and we are on the same page, Endre

Aug 12, 2024 10:32 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Kathy:

I hope you had a wonderful trip - love that photo.

When I was writing more regularly (daily+) I used to prewrite some posts when I was going to be traveling and would be unplugged due to business or personal life. Unplugging is a good thing no matter what the reason!

Jeff

Aug 15, 2024 05:40 PM