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Fond Memories To Think About

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Real Estate Agent with DFW FINE PROPERTIES 0506509

Photo Journalism by Patricia Feager

 

When looking for a new location, do you consider the entire area and what it has to offer? My son wasn't even walking when I bought my first house. However, I do remember deciding on a property based upon what else the property had to offer, besides four bedrooms, the adequate space in the kitchen, and an acre of land butting up to the Forest Preserves in Northern, Illinois. I explored other opportunities beyond the front and back door.  


After learning I was in the Chain-O-Lake Area and that the house I proposed to buy had an HOA that maintained the fishing docks, I thought to myself. This would make a great location for my mom and dad to visit and for my dad to take my son and daughter down the street to the lake and teach them to fish, like he did for me when I was barely five years old.

 

As luck would have it, my father bought my son his first fishing pole and enjoyed taking his grandson to the lake. Yes! My father taught him how to fish and my daughter was happy doing other things with her friends who lived across the street from the lake.


When buying a home, I strongly recommend taking a look around to see if the area is a good fit for you before you buy. It's those little things to do, and skills you or others can learn besides what's being taught in school, or what the house has to offer that makes all the difference. Time goes by quickly. Don't delay or postpone your dreams. A dream is a wish and wishes can come true!

 

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PATRICIA FEAGER, REALTOR®
DFW FINE PROPERTIES
3575 LONE STAR CIRCLE SUITE 315
FORT WORTH, TEXAS 76177

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Paralegal (Southeastern Career Institute)
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CRS (Certified Residential Specialist)
SRES (Certified Senior Residential Specialist)
PSA (Certified Pricing Strategies; Mastering the CMA)
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Comments(16)

Ricki Eichler McCallum
CastNet Realty - Corpus Christi, TX
Broker,GRI,ABR, e-Pro, TAHS

What a beautiful memory and a beautiful picture to go with it. The area is more important than the house most of the time.

Aug 13, 2024 08:53 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Ricki Eichler McCallum - I knew you would understand. Your many years of experience are a storehouse of memories. 

Aug 15, 2024 03:06 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Great memory you are sharing here on the platform Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP 

Aug 13, 2024 10:14 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Thank you.

Aug 15, 2024 03:06 PM
Michael Elliott
Fathom Realty - Burlington Township, NJ
Burlington, New Jersey Residential Sales

Thanks for sharing this memory.  Interesting to hear your thoughts from then, I think as agents sometimes we assume why people buy.

Aug 14, 2024 02:22 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Michael Elliott - People say not to live in the past. I find a nonmaterial treasure trove of insights from good memories. And I think to myself, when decisions need to be made, choose wisely. 

We need to be cognizant of what our buyers really want and to listen carefully. 

Aug 15, 2024 03:09 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you, Patricia, for sharing your heartfelt reflections on the importance of finding the right location when buying a home. I truly appreciate your insights on how community and memories shape our experiences, and your story is a beautiful reminder to cherish those moments!

Aug 14, 2024 03:47 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Lew Corcoran - to the the truth, I was never fond of that saying:  Location! Location! Location! 

Understanding what you really want in your personal life, and understanding what buyers and sellers want, and following through has a higher probability of success. 

Thank you!

Aug 15, 2024 03:12 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Patricia - among many other things, real estate can teach many lessons.   Buying a property for sale is much more than a particular house.  It's the neighborhood, the surrounding the community and countless more aspects of the experience.  Sharing your personal story fits nicely into the bigger picture of the message in your post.  

Aug 14, 2024 04:44 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Michael Jacobs - I think the biggest turn off I ever experienced was when I was looking to buy a home in Texas, a completely different location from where I came from, and the real estate agent didn't listen to me. As a buyer, at that time, not a REALTOR®,the person representing me kept taking me to places I distinctly said I did not want to go to live in a location not on my list.

On a positive note that was the motivation why I became an agent. I always knew I'm the type of person who looks at the bigger picture. That is why I get a lot of repeat clients. 

Aug 15, 2024 03:19 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Patricia. Sometimes the things many never consider are the most important decisions. Enjoy your day.

Aug 14, 2024 04:55 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Wayne Martin - Hear ye! Hear ye! I agree with you completely!

I hope your day has been good for you!

Aug 15, 2024 03:22 PM
Debbie Laity
CinaJones Real Estate - Cedaredge, CO
Your Real Estate Resource for Delta County

Hi Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP I didn't know you lived in Illinois. I'm from the Quad Cities. I lived in Iowa and Illinois. Thank you for sharing your experience. That community sounds wonderful. I grew up by two creeks and loved it. 

Aug 14, 2024 09:00 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Hi Debbie Laity - I was born in Chicago, my children were too. When I was 24 years old, after my son was born, I said it's time to move north and we moved out of Cook County to Lake County where it was mostly rural and significantly less populated. I lived there until my company relocated me to TX. 

I never went to Quad Cities but heard good things about the area and the people who lived there. I did not know you lived in Quad Cities. I hope your memories are good one! Growing up by two creeks sounds wonderful! I've alway been attracted to rivers, creeks, lakes, the woods, and a slower pace of life. 

Aug 15, 2024 03:27 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Patricia:

What a nice memory you've shared, as well as some valuable thoughts for home buyers. It's a good example of why it's important to understand your priorities as a potential home buyer, both current and long-term, and to look at the larger picture.

Jeff

Aug 14, 2024 03:37 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Jeff Dowler, CRS - It really is a good idea to listen, really listen to what our buyers want and to provide guidance based upon helping them achieve their goals, not our own personal gain. Typically, when a buyer feels "this is perfect," I ask them, can you see yourself living here 5 years, 10, or more? Then I wait and let them decide. Many times/years later, they told me, that was the best advice they received. 

Aug 15, 2024 03:31 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Patricia a lot of things go into considering the purchase of a home, and this is certainly one of them.

Aug 14, 2024 06:44 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

George Souto - I'm the type that always questions things, and I say to myself: Is that true? Those three little words helped me to make big and little decisions. 

That is why I don't like to be around people or other sales people who implement pressure. Nor would I ever say, I showed you 5 houses, now pick one. Buying something that is the biggest investment of your life deserves quality time to think about the whole picture beforehand. 

Aug 15, 2024 03:36 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Tried to comment on your two recent posts Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP  not sure if it was an accident or intentional but the comments are blocked off, Endre

Aug 15, 2024 09:42 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Endre Barath, Jr. - thanks for letting me know. I don't know what happened. 

Aug 16, 2024 05:23 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Families considering a move to the area are in very good hands when they seek your professional real estate advice and assistance.

Aug 16, 2024 04:19 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Roy Kelley - thank you. You always have the nicest things to say and I'm so glad you're a huge part of the ActiveRain family. How long have you been here? 

Aug 16, 2024 05:24 PM
Debbie Laity
CinaJones Real Estate - Cedaredge, CO
Your Real Estate Resource for Delta County

Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP your last two posts are packed full of great information and should be featured. I'm curious as to why you disabled the comments. 

Aug 16, 2024 09:16 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Debbie Laity - I'm not sure what happened. I had a lot going on. 

Thank you. 

Aug 16, 2024 05:25 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hi Patricia your post made me think of helping so many families find the right area, surroundings and home and how delighted they were to experience it all once it became a reality in their lives.  You shared the 'feeling' and 'heart' of it all and that's what makes me smile the biggest!  I can see how special it was for your Dad to buy your son's first fishing pole and introduce him to fishing when he was young.  It doesn't get any better than that!! I'm sure we could all write many posts about these kind of 'gifts' that are given to families!. How about a monthly contest you could host? How fun would that be to read all the stories!  Love it Debe Maxwell, CRS !

Aug 16, 2024 03:40 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Anna "Banana" Kruchten - I agree with you!. After all that time and effort in finding the right place it is like finding the last piece of the jigsaw puzzle! It is only then, you can look at the whole picture and have a good sigh of relief while enjoying the view, knowing all your efforts were worth it. To buy a house there are a lot of pieces!!!

I know there are a lot of agents who don't have time for undecided buyers, but those are the ones I learn from the most. What's really interesting is, I do a lot of listening but of course, I have to respond and communicate with them too. I always ask an open ended question pertinent to their situation and give them time to think about what they want to say or how they want to answer.  What's interesting is, it never fails I ask if they might want some privacy to talk between themselves for a few minutes That seems to be the most effective. 

I guess for me, I was so young and married. I knew once I made that decision, there was no going back to mom and dads, but it was important for me to think about giving them a reason to be a part of my family and that was a very successful move. 

Oh yes! I can still picture the day my mom and dad pulled up to the house and when I opened the door my son was standing next to me, my dad said to my son, now you just wait right there, I have something special just for you. 

My dad went to the trunk of his car and brought out the fishing pole. My son's eyes were bigger than golf balls. Then, the two of them stood outside and sat on the porch together while my dad instructed him how to properly care for a fishing pole how you handle it, teaching him about safety, etc.,

Then, the two of them took off together to the lake. When they came home, both of them had smiles a mile stretch long. It was a Norman Rockwall moment for sure! 

Yes! I also think this would be a very good Challenge. I would be happy and honored to host with you. Plus, who among us doesn't have a good story to tell about helping a buyer(s) to find the right place in the right environment where quality life goes beyond the doors. And that makes all the difference. 

Aug 16, 2024 05:42 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Yup just one piece of the puzzle Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP ! I think considering the most 'perfect' setting as possible for the family lifestyle is so important. Seems that way to me.  As for the contest it's not a good time for me to host a contest. I've got so much on my plate to handle. But I know you would have a blast cheering others on with learning this invaluable skill set.  Go for it!!!

Aug 17, 2024 08:50 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Featured in BananaTude!

 

Aug 16, 2024 03:45 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Anna "Banana" Kruchten - you made my day!

Thank you!

Aug 16, 2024 05:43 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh, that's awesome, Patricia! I love your graphic too - a perfect image for your beautiful writing. And, I'm with Anna "Banana" Kruchten - here's another idea for a challenge. I volunteer you both to host!

Aug 16, 2024 08:07 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Debe Maxwell, CRS glad you like the idea. My thought was for Patricia to host the challenge.  As for me right now, my plate is full as you know I've got a lot going on. 

Aug 17, 2024 08:45 AM
Charles Ross - eXp Realty LLC
eXp Realty LLC Salina Group - Salina, KS
Love To Help People

Thank you, Patricia Feager, for sharing such a touching story. It’s a great reminder that a home is more than just the structure; it’s about the experiences and memories that can be created in the surrounding community. #HomeBuyingTips 🏡✨

Aug 19, 2024 04:54 AM