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Perspective

They say that time heals all wounds. I don’t know about healing them, but over time our hurt and pain are pushed to the back.  The memories and how we felt are still there. 

 

That men do not learn very much from the lessons of history is the most important of all the lessons that history has to teach.
Aldous Huxley

 

TIME does,however, offer us a different perspective of the events. And, if we’re lucky and wise, we learn from what happened.

It’s been 23 years. 9/11 still seems fresh to me. I remember the hours spent watching the news and how my spirit was lifted, even if for a short time, when I saw how this nation came together. 

 

 

First responders were thanked and respected. Our wonderful flag flew in our yards and on our cars. Many of us wore Flag lapel pins. 

We wanted to cancel those who hurt us, not those who didn’t fit a new agenda. 

 

We showed kindness to each other rather than calling each other names. 

And now, it’s 2024, 23 years later. Have we forgotten? Have we relegated 9/11 to a changed history?

 

One cannot and must not try to erase the
past merely because it
does not fit the present.

Golda Meir

 

Moving forward doesn’t mean moving on or forgetting but moving through and taking with us what we’ve learned. 

 

Our differences can strengthen us just as much as the ideas and goals we have in common. 


 

My hope is that as we mark the 23rd anniversary of 9/11 we can put aside our differencesstop the name-calling…throw out the negativity and consider how great and powerful we are when we come together. 

 

remember

 

 

A great civilization is not conquered from without until it has destroyed itself from within.
Will & Ariel Durant, “Epilogue – Why Rome Fell”,
Caesar and Christ: The Story of Civilization, Volume III

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Comments(25)

Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Gosh, it doesn't seem like 23 years ago that 9/11 happened.  In so many ways it seems like yesterday.

Sep 11, 2024 05:36 AM
Kathy Streib

Myrl Jeffcoat same with me. I wonder if they cover this in our schools as a day of rembrance. 

Sep 11, 2024 01:12 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Kathy, although many can forget lots of events but not 9/11. It is forever in our minds Some things you just can't forget!

Sep 11, 2024 05:41 AM
Kathy Streib

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 I agree. We might forget some stats from that day but never what happened. 

Sep 11, 2024 01:13 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

CONGRATULATIONS Kathy, on having this blog FEATURED in the Old Farts Clubgroup!  

Sep 11, 2024 05:41 AM
Kathy Streib

Myrl Jeffcoat Thank you. I appreciate it. 

Sep 11, 2024 01:13 PM
Jeffrey Richman
Immediate Home Solutions - Myrtle Beach, SC
Creative Real Estate Specialist

Hi Kathy,

A wonderful, thoughtful post about a day that I believe that nobody should forget.  I really like your quote from Gold Mier

Sep 11, 2024 05:50 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeffrey Richman that quote carries a lot of weight!!!

Sep 11, 2024 01:14 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. I will never forget 9/11. Have read much of the works of Will and Ariel Durant. Many should read their work. Great post as always. Enjoy your day.

Sep 11, 2024 06:00 AM
Kathy Streib

Thank you Wayne Martin there's a lot of truth in that quote. 

Sep 11, 2024 01:15 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

I large percentage of those alive today were either not born, or too young to really remember. I am not sure we will ever see people come together like that again. Americans are too divided and seem to believe anyone who does not agree with them is brainwashed.

Sep 11, 2024 06:12 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty i have found myself down that path but I can't give up hope. 

Sep 11, 2024 01:16 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Kathy,
Oh, how I wish we could come together as a nation like we did then. It is my most fervent prayer these days.

Sep 11, 2024 07:22 AM
Kathy Streib

Carol Williams Been in my prayers every night since 2020. 

Sep 11, 2024 01:17 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

This is still a wonderful country, with wonderful people who have come from all over the world to call it home. Many who will lay down their lives in our armed forces. We are far from a broken country and when we stop blocking each other for power, we will see a much stronger version of our country than has been on view for the past decade. There is so much bravery and heroic actions to focus on since that day, as those who would like to destroy us from without and within have been faced down and overcome.

Sep 11, 2024 08:20 AM
Kathy Streib

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 your comment lifted my thoughts. Thank you! We have it within us to be who I think we are and can be. And yes, we need to hear more of the positive acts of others that are out there. 

Sep 11, 2024 01:20 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Kathy:

Thank you for such a thoughtful post on this somber day filled with so many memories. It's hard to believe it's been 23 years but the memory of the horror doesn't fade. I know I will never forget!

The quotes are wonderful, especially Golda Meir's! 

Jeff

Sep 11, 2024 09:13 AM
Kathy Streib

Thank you Jeff Dowler, CRS I believe in the good in people even though it can appear to be in hiding at times. I don't want us to forget the horrific acts. 

Sep 11, 2024 01:28 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

For the families of those that perished on that day there will never be enough tim

Sep 11, 2024 09:51 AM
Kathy Streib

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 I know that it will stay with them forever. 

Sep 11, 2024 01:29 PM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Kathy, those who lost family members probably still are in pain, I would be too.   We will always remember 9/11.

Sep 11, 2024 10:02 AM
Kathy Streib

Joan Cox I'm sure they are as I know I would be as well. 

Sep 11, 2024 01:29 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Kathy though all the disbelief, horror and seeing in real time 23 years ago just what really did happen makes me pray even more now that we can come together as a country again.  That was an amazing experience seeing everyone in town flying their flags on their house, cars, place of business.  I pray every day for peace.

Sep 11, 2024 10:27 AM
Kathy Streib

Anna "Banana" Kruchten  I pray every night for peace and for us to come together. 

Sep 11, 2024 01:31 PM
Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

Too many people do not remember as evidenced by what is happening around the world now. 

Sep 11, 2024 10:27 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI it is insanity. I wonder how many have no clue about that day. 

Sep 11, 2024 01:31 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Kathy Streib - Yes. I remember and have learned a lot. It bothers me that many people forget about the togetherness we felt at that dreadful date in history. I have no use for bullies. I do not admire or respect people with big egos. Golda Meir was incredible. She was a great role model. Too bad there isn't Golda Meir Training Classes in schools and in business for students of all ages to learn more. 

Sep 11, 2024 10:56 AM
Kathy Streib

I agree with what you said Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP  I too have no use for bullies, arrogance and thugs. Period. 

Sep 11, 2024 01:33 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

It was a day that many of us will never forget.

It is good to see all of the tributes today.

Sep 11, 2024 11:57 AM
Kathy Streib

Roy Kelley I hope you are doing well!!!

Sep 11, 2024 01:33 PM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

Hello Kathy,  Mr. Huxley's quote is disturbing in how true it is.  I don't believe that issue will ever be fixed.  If so I know it to be far above my paygrade.  I can only hope to be a better person within my very small circle of influence.  m

Sep 11, 2024 12:21 PM
Kathy Streib

Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho every night I ask that I be a better person tomorrow than I was today. Can't hurt!

Sep 11, 2024 01:34 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you, Kathy, for sharing your thoughtful reflections on the lasting impact of 9/11 and the importance of perspective. Your call for unity and remembrance resonates deeply, reminding us to learn from the past while moving forward together.

Sep 11, 2024 12:54 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy this is one event that I don't think time will heal for me, or for many others.

Sep 11, 2024 03:50 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

The acts on 9-11-2001 will forever live on as cowardice by terrorists with no regard for life, only the goal to kill Americans. Wish we could come together again as a country but do know that I strive to do better tomorrow than today.

It's something to strive for, Kathy!

Sep 11, 2024 06:29 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Kathy Streib  what a powerful post, and to me it is fresh as ever, I still remember the phone call I got ..."turn on the tv" and it is embedded in my mind... still see the planes and the twin towers.... Endre

Sep 11, 2024 10:17 PM