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Hug and High 5 Day and Back at ‘Ya

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Hug and High 5 Day and Back at ‘Ya

 

Perhaps it’s a bit apropos that Hug and High 5 Day is the day after September 11. It was started by David Hale Sylvester who lost a good friend on that day in 2001. 

 

After that day and suffering the loss he and others had, he found solace in “traveling the world and giving out high fives and hugs.”

 

In 2020, he began a journey to do a good deed in each of our states.

 

We all know the feeling we get when we’re on the receiving end of a hug or high five. We also know the joy that stays with us when we hug someone. Of course, there are the health benefits from hugging that we know about. 



The connection we have from a real hug or high five, ie social touch,  cannot be overlooked. Studies found that this “touch starvation” as a result of the 2020 imposed isolation increased our stress and depression along with other physiological effects. 

 

 

We don’t have to travel to each state hugging everyone we meet, however we can make an effort to reach out and connect with the people we meet in our everyday lives. 

 

                                

 



One of the most important things you can do on this earth is to let people know they are not alone.

 Shannon L. Alder

 

 

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Comments(27)

Charles Ross - eXp Realty LLC
eXp Realty LLC Salina Group - Salina, KS
Love To Help People

Kathy Streib, your message about the power of hugs and high fives is a beautiful reminder of the importance of human connection. It’s amazing how small gestures can make a big difference! 💖 #StayMotivated #SpreadJoy 🤗🙌

Sep 12, 2024 05:31 AM
Kathy Streib

Charles Ross - eXp Realty LLC I couldn't agree more!!!  That's the issue with working at home and everyone being more connected to their devices. 

Sep 12, 2024 11:35 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

I had no idea, Kathy, that there was such a day. I'm a hugger, although not much of a high fiver! I hugged people all through the pandemic and they hugged back!

Sep 12, 2024 05:36 AM
Kathy Streib

Nina Hollander, Broker during the pandemic, 3 of my GF and I met at someone's home for lunch. The first thing we did was hug each other. 

Sep 12, 2024 11:44 AM
Doug Rogers
RE/MAX Coastal Properties - Destin, FL
Your Real Estate Resource!

Love it! Our world could use more kindness

Sep 12, 2024 05:38 AM
Kathy Streib

Doug Rogers I agree. We often forget that there are real people with feelings out there!!!

Sep 12, 2024 11:46 AM
Jeffrey Richman
Immediate Home Solutions - Myrtle Beach, SC
Creative Real Estate Specialist

Hi Kathy,

I'm a hugger and so are most of my friends.  Hugs seem to make things better even when they're not

Sep 12, 2024 06:13 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeffrey Richman I agree. I've also used a wink or smile when unable to hug someone.  I sat across the table from my good friend, a new mom. Her M-I-L was going on and on about how she needed to feed the baby real food. I could tell my friend was at the end of her patience so I gave her a wink and a smile. 

She told me that was exactly what she needed. 

Sep 12, 2024 11:50 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Kathy,
I love high fives and hugs. We do lots of high-fiving on the golf course, usually after someone makes a great putt. And, we often hug after the game is over. I will bookmark this post so I can come back  and re-click the link you left. I want to read what he did in each state.

Sep 12, 2024 06:35 AM
Kathy Streib

Carol Williams i hope you will. His is an interesting story!!!

Sep 12, 2024 11:51 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Nothing is ever wrong with a high five and a hug. Have an awesome day.

Sep 12, 2024 06:49 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty I couldn't agree more. We dodged a bullet with Francine, so I'm a happy camper. 

Sep 12, 2024 11:52 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Sending multiple hugs!

Have a great day and an outstanding week.

Sep 12, 2024 07:15 AM
Kathy Streib

Roy Kelley sending them right back at 'ya and to Chef Dolores. 

Sep 12, 2024 11:53 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

It is so easy to impact others, with a smile, a compliment, a hug or a high five. Let's do it. I give you a high five for a great post.

Sep 12, 2024 07:22 AM
Kathy Streib

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 And I'm sending you a high five back at ya. People want to feel like they're seen and heard...that someone cares. That's all. And, that's not asking a lot. 

Sep 12, 2024 11:54 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Kathy - life encompasses many types of experiences.  Good, bad and plenty of stuff in between.  Why not combine in a high five or two (possibly more) and a hug --- why not, indeed.  

Sep 12, 2024 07:28 AM
Kathy Streib

Good question Michael Jacobs There are many ways we can make a difference in someone's day. 

Sep 12, 2024 11:55 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

A hug is a sincere form of appreciation and when done tastefully can ease apprehensions

Sep 12, 2024 07:29 AM
Kathy Streib

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 it's human nature to want to reach out and hug or touch someone in some way when we see them, or if we sense they need it. 

Sep 12, 2024 11:56 AM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Hi Kathy, what a wonderful way to show or love and support for others. I didn't know about this Day, but I know a hug and high five goes a long way with our emotions. 

Sep 12, 2024 07:39 AM
Kathy Streib

Hi Jerry Newman it really can make a difference, can't it?!  

Sep 12, 2024 11:57 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hugs to you Kathy, you are a great friend and always love to catch your blogs and you and Larry are special to me.

 

Sep 12, 2024 09:26 AM
Kathy Streib

Awwww thank you Will Hamm You make it easy to be a friend. 

Sep 12, 2024 11:58 AM
Monica Hill
RE/Max Associates - Wilmington, DE
the REALTOR to help you discover Delaware

Kathy, I heard a children's song years ago that includes the words, "Four hugs a day, that's the minimum" which is what your post immediately brought to mind! I also remembered a policeman here locally several years ago who stood on the street in a local town offering hugs. It was great to see the response from strangers to his offer. 

Sep 12, 2024 09:51 AM
Kathy Streib

Monica Hill what a wonderful thing to do!!!!  It made me smile just reading about it. 

Sep 12, 2024 12:00 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

I hadn't heard of this, Kathy, but I enjoy giving and getting hugs, and high fives, too. Love Alder's quote.

Jeff

Sep 12, 2024 09:59 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeff Dowler, CRS I love that quote!!!  If we open our eyes, we see many opportunities when we can offer someone a smile or thumbs up.  One of the things I love about our morning walks is the socialization we get from smiling at others and saying Good Morning. We make it a point to spend a little extra time with JB whose wife has dementia. He is the caregiver but gets out in the morning to walk. He needs seeing everyone else just as much as we all do. 

Sep 12, 2024 12:08 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Kathy love this post and idea!  You're talking my language! Reaching out and being kind, hugging someone, smiling, spreading joy can reaches the deepest parts of each one of us. And I do feel that many, many folks need and want more love right now.  It seems that way in our world. I had a dear friend say to me, I need a really big hug, could you give me one?  Done ❤️

Sep 12, 2024 11:01 AM
Kathy Streib

Anna "Banana" Kruchten you brought up an excellent point. Don't be afraid to reach out to friends and here when you need that hug!!!

Sep 12, 2024 12:09 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

“One of the most important things you can do on this earth is to let people know they are not alone.

I love that quote, Kathy!

Sep 12, 2024 11:02 AM
Kathy Streib

Myrl Jeffcoat I'm with you. I was not familiar with it but it's an important one. 

Sep 12, 2024 12:10 PM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

That is quite a journey David set out for himself.  I have seen a couple of movies, and read a couple of articles of this type of action resulting from the 911 horror.  m

Sep 12, 2024 12:01 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy I definitely feel better after I get a hug or a high 5.

Sep 12, 2024 04:56 PM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

Taking this slightly off course we are often see in Q&A agents asking about buying leads. I always suggest getting out there and shake hands... shake hands! If that isn't closely akin to giving a hug I don't know what is.

Sep 12, 2024 07:05 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

I had no idea that there was a day like this too.... now with that said, I am not a touch and feel kind of person, but I give written and verbal hugs in different ways to people... some appreciate it others do not, Endre

Sep 12, 2024 09:12 PM