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When Do You Give Up?

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Real Estate Agent with Fathom Realty 8431215

So I got bored and left them there, they were just dead weigh to me.  Better down that road, without that load.     -Neil Young , from "Thrasher"

 

No one likes to give up,  but sometimes the weight of the mission is considerably more profound than the fruit of the goal.   Often, other people can be too stubborn to pull off a project or goal.  Or maybe their goals do not align with yours.  When we exhaust all options, we move on.  

We have all been in that position.

But what if the mission is simply more difficult than what originally projected?  And the fruit is as bright and as big as it was at the onset?    You find a way.  Because if you do not find a way, you will find an excuse.  Unless the mission is riding your bicycle from the US directly to Europe,  find a way.

Some missions / goals are best attacked after a brief hiatus, which allows us to get away then reapproach with a fresh and new perspective, or attitude.  

The more challenging the mission, the sweeter the victory.

My cell:  (609) 864-8164

My website:  https://michaelelliott.fathomrealty.com/

 

 

  

Posted by

Michael Elliott

NO ONE DOES MORE TO GET YOU MORE

         

michaelelliott.fathomrealty.com

Burlington, New Jersey Real Estate 

Broker / Salesperson

Fathom Realty

elliottrealtor@gmail.com

cell (609) 864-8164   office (888) 455-6040

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Comments(18)

Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Thanks for sharing Michael!!! Great message here!!!

No one likes to give up,  but sometimes the weight of the mission is considerably more profound than the fruit of the goal.   Often, other people can be too stubborn to pull off a project or goal.  Or maybe their goals do not align with yours.  When we exhaust all options, we move on.  

Sep 12, 2024 03:56 AM
Michael Elliott

Thank you Sham !

Sep 12, 2024 05:27 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you, Michael, for sharing your thoughts on the challenges of perseverance and knowing when to let go. Your insights serve as a powerful reminder that sometimes stepping back can help us move forward with renewed clarity and purpose.

Sep 12, 2024 05:20 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Michael,

Sometimes we find ourselves in over our heads but often if you put it down, take a break and come back and look at it from a different angle the way to get it down is revealed!

Sep 12, 2024 05:28 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Michael. Between stimulus and response man has the power to choose. Sometimes it pays to count to 10 before responding to a stimulus. As long as you control the situation the choice is yours. Choose wisely. Enjoy your day.

Sep 12, 2024 05:29 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I feel like I have to give up when things are out of my control, but when I am in control, I don't ever give up, haha.

Sep 12, 2024 05:29 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Michael... I like to think I never give up if it's something I really want. That being said, I can tell you I have, over the years, given up on some buyers and sellers... whose motivation (or lack thereof) made me realize I was wasting my time.

Sep 12, 2024 05:40 AM
Michael Elliott

Exactly !!  Same here.   

Sep 12, 2024 05:42 AM
Jeffrey Richman
Immediate Home Solutions - Myrtle Beach, SC
Creative Real Estate Specialist

Hi Michael,

I agree with the statement "The more challenging the mission, the sweeter the victory."  At least that's true in my world.

Sep 12, 2024 06:19 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Michael,
You're right. Sometimes, we need to take a break to adjust our perspective and find a new approach. That works on a personal and business level.

Sep 12, 2024 06:38 AM
Michael Elliott

For sure, Carol !

Sep 12, 2024 06:40 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

I'm a pretty hard headed guy but after hitting my head against the wall enough times over my life I am content with giving up once in a while Michael Elliott .

Sep 12, 2024 06:39 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

I kind of thought about retirement when I read this post. When do I say enough. It is coming up, but I still don't know. A few years maybe?

Sep 12, 2024 06:56 AM
Michael Elliott

Oh no, that was not my intent !

Sep 12, 2024 06:59 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

A great inspirational post, thanks for sharing and a high five for you.

Sep 12, 2024 07:24 AM
Michael Elliott

Thank you, Nick!

Sep 12, 2024 08:33 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Some of the challenges we face in real estate are just not worth the effort. It is important to move on to more productive efforts.

Sep 12, 2024 07:37 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Michael Elliott 

When push comes to shove, I dont' dawdle, whine, or make a big stink. I have no problem moving on!!! Life is too short! 

Sep 12, 2024 08:49 AM
Michael Elliott

Amen, I do not do drama, either !

Sep 12, 2024 10:49 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Michael Elliott one of my big problems is that sometimes I am to dumb to give up, when the wise thing to do is turn the page and move on.

Sep 12, 2024 04:02 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Michael- my saying has always been..where's there's a will, there's a way. Of course, the "will" may wane if you realize the goal is no longer what you want or need or worthy of your time. 

Sep 12, 2024 06:06 PM
Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

Aint no mountain high enough, thrown in with a little no guts no glory and a rousing round of Tom Petty standing your ground! Works for me!  

Sep 13, 2024 02:02 AM
Michael Elliott

Heyyyy baby, there ain't no easy way out!!   Loved TP.

Sep 13, 2024 02:06 AM
Debra Leisek

Me too Michael Elliott !! And we won't back down.............

Sep 14, 2024 12:00 AM
Michael Elliott

Debra Leisek TP is in my top 10 all time, I listen to him on Spotify while in my car or home quite often.  I cried when he died.  

Sep 14, 2024 01:03 AM
Debra Leisek

Michael Elliott 

I felt the same way He died too soon. Glad we can still hear his voice!

Sep 15, 2024 12:10 AM
Michael Elliott

On the TV series Bad Monkey with Vince Vaughn (I recommend)  they play all TP covers.  It is well done. 

Sep 15, 2024 12:25 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Michael, persistence is key when you truly want something. However, knowing when to walk away when your time and energy are better spent elsewhere is good decision too!

Sep 13, 2024 10:05 AM
Michael Elliott

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 --  exactly.   PS--  I am still laughing about your post yesterday.  The "can't pronounce street name" really is funny.

Sep 14, 2024 04:17 AM