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Get more Repeat Clients and Referrals

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Many agents feel that they’ve really “made it” when they can look at the pastget more referrals year’s transactions and see that the majority of them came from repeat clients and referrals.

It’s a sign that your past clients have confidence in you – you’re doing a job you can be proud of.

So how do you get those repeat clients and referrals?

First, you have to have been in business long enough to have a sizeable list of past clients.

If you're just getting started and you have even a couple of referrals from past clients, it's a sign that you're pleasing them.

And then, how do you get those past clients to give you reviews? You have to ask. 

Asking can be hard. In fact, you may not want to do it at all, because it might feel a little like begging.

That said, your first task is to “Get over yourself.”

Stop and think about the excellent job you do for your clients. Think about the most difficult or frustrating transactions you had over the past months. Then think about how those transactions might have turned out had they chosen a lesser agent. I'd bet you can visualize at least one agent in your acquaintance who would have let them down.

Do you feel better about asking for referrals yet?

You should, because you know that not all agents are alike. Some are like you - but others are lazy, sloppy, and not willing to do the work it takes to get a transaction from offer to closing.

By sending friends and family to you, your past clients and people in your sphere of influence are doing them a service – perhaps a greater service than they’re doing you.

So ask for those referrals.

Strange as it seems, some people will hesitate about sending you new clients because they know you’re busy. They don’t want to “bother you.” (While you're at it, you might want to make sure that you aren't allowing them to think that helping them is a bother to you!) Let them know that yes – you DO want to help their family and friends.

  • Ask while the transaction is going forward.
  • Ask at closing.
  • Ask after closing.

Some successful agents recommend having a value discussion while the transaction is ongoing. Ask if they have concerns. Ask what they like about working with you. Then ask if they have a friend or colleague who could use your help.

Ask specifically

volunteersIf you say “Do you know anyone…” your customer will mentally skim over everyone they know and probably come up blank. That field is too wide. People can’t focus on “anyone.”

Instead, ask if they know someone at work, someone on their sports team, someone in their family, or a close friend. Extend that to include any groups they’ve mentioned to you – perhaps a non-profit where they volunteer, a church group, or an organization like Rotary or the Elks Club.

It’s far easier to mentally walk through a small group of people than to picture “everyone.”

But no, don’t go over the whole list at once.

Ask about different groups at different times. You can also make asking a part of natural conversation. If they’re talking about family, ask about family. If they’re talking about last night’s bowling scores, ask about team members.

  • Ask again when you’re shaking hands or sharing coffee or a drink when the closing papers are signed.
  • Ask again when you stop by with a housewarming gift – or a “going away” gift for sellers who are moving away.
  • Ask when you call to see if all is going well – or if there’s anything you can do to help them settle in.
  • Ask when you send your post-closing questionnaire. If your company doesn’t have a letter for you to use, feel free to use this one, which serves a dual purpose in asking for a review.
  • Ask when you check in to say hello a few weeks later. At this point you can ask if they’ve met anyone lately who could use your services.

What to say:

Tell them that you’re pleased that they’re happy with your work and that you’ve enjoyed working with them. You’d love to have more clients who (share their positive attitude; know what they want; or any other positive thing you can say about them). Then ask if they know someone like them who needs a good agent. (See “Ask specifically” above.)

You could also say something like: "I'm really glad that you're pleased with my work. I'd really appreciate it if you'd pass my name along to anyone (at work; in your family; on your softball team) who needs good representation in buying or selling a home.

If you were the listing agent …

You can tell them how much you enjoy listing and selling whatever kind of house or property it was. Then ask if they know others with similar homes or property who might be thinking of selling.

Remember to say thank you for every referral!

Failing to appreciate a referral is a SURE way to ensure that you’ll never get another referral from that source.

Call to say thanks after your first meeting with the client they sent. Call later to let them know how things are going. If the referral results in a sale, send a small gift or gift certificate.

Ask for reviews/testimonials.

It would be wonderful if real estate clients wrote reviews or testimonials without being asked, and some do. Most, however, won't think of it unless you ask. So ask.

The client feedback letter is one way to ask, but do also send your clients and past clients links to your profile on Internet review sites.

You can post the reviews they send you by mail or email on your website, but a review entered directly by the client to an on-line site carries even more weight.

The best time to ask, of course, is when they’re telling you what a great job you did – and how they never want to work with any other agent. Just say something like “Would you mind telling other people what you liked about my service? I’d really appreciate it if you’d post a review at XXX or YYY - or both!” If they say they'd do that, tell them you'll send the link. 

You don’t have to have a closed transaction to ask for a testimonial. If you did your darndest for the client and the transaction fell through for some reason beyond your control, they may still feel good about recommending you to others.

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Remember to say thank you for reviews as well as referrals.

Getting in the habit of saying thank you will help build your business and enhancesay thank you your life.

It doesn’t matter whether you say it to a client, to a fellow agent, to your assistant, to the closer who handled your transaction, to the spouse who kept dinner warm while you were showing a home, to someone who held a door open for you, or to the person who checked out your purchases in the grocery store.

Thank you notes are also good for cementing relationships with prospective clients. If you aren't sure when to send a card or what to say, check out my set of Thank You Notes.

Return the favor.

If any of your clients or the people in your sphere are in business, refer people to them when you can – and write a nice review for them on relevant sites.

Don’t stop!

If you want repeat clients and referrals, stay in touch with your past clients and your sphere of influence – and not just to ask for business or referrals.

  • Call, email, or stop by just to say hello.
  • Send them market reports.
  • Send them your newsletter.
  • Send them something short and interesting – like the letters in my Event-themed Staying in Touch set.

In summary: Ask for referrals and ask for reviews. When you get them, follow up with a sincere thank you. AND NEVER FORGET: It is not your clients' job to remember you. It is YOUR job to make sure they never forget you. 

 

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Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

Great subject, yes asking for referrals at different intervals really is a must do.

Sep 13, 2024 04:33 PM
Marte Cliff

Thanks Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI. It's hard for people to ask, so they do need to create ways to slide it into conversations. 

Sep 15, 2024 10:41 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Marte- exellent point. I know many do not feel comfortable asking for referrals or testimonials. However, we can't assume everyone we've worked with will remember to think of us first.  It's up to us to take charge of tooting our own horn. 

Sep 13, 2024 06:25 PM
Marte Cliff

Kathy Streib - and there we go again. Isn't it always up to us to ensure our own success?

Sep 15, 2024 10:41 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Marte Cliff 

Excellent post on the value of constantly getting more repeat clients by asking for referrals.

Sep 13, 2024 06:48 PM
Marte Cliff

Dorie Dillard Austin TX I always think of those past buyers and sellers as an agent's personal gold mine. It has huge value, but won't produce unless you "mine" it. 

Sep 15, 2024 10:42 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Marte... 85+% of my business is repeat and referral because I do stay in touch with my past clients, whom I touch at least 40x a year on average. I have lots of testimonials and most were not solicited. Now I'm getting a bit more intentional on asking for Google reviews.

Sep 14, 2024 05:07 AM
Marte Cliff

Nina Hollander, Broker - you've got your system working for you, and that's wonderful. 

Sep 15, 2024 10:45 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Carol Williams good morning again, Carol... my suggestions for your Second Chance Saturday post.

Sep 14, 2024 05:08 AM
Marte Cliff

Thank you for doing that, Nina Hollander, Broker 

Sep 15, 2024 10:45 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Excellent post with suggestions on how to and when to ask for referrals!

Sep 14, 2024 05:16 AM
Marte Cliff

Thanks, Kat Palmiotti. I know it's not an easy thing to do. 

Sep 15, 2024 10:45 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

These are very good tips!  Getting business from referrals and repeat clients is the best way to have a successful business.

Sep 14, 2024 07:16 AM
Marte Cliff

Yes, Brian England - those referrals are already pre-programmed to like you. 

Sep 15, 2024 10:46 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you, Marte, for your insightful tips on generating repeat clients and referrals. Your guidance on asking for reviews and staying connected truly emphasizes the importance of building lasting relationships in real estate.

Sep 14, 2024 11:54 AM
Marte Cliff

There's no doubt about it, Lew Corcoran. Real estate is a relationship business. 

Sep 15, 2024 10:47 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Marte Cliff first, of all if you are embarrassed about asking for referrals, then you need to find another line of work.  second, if you don't ask for referrals than do not be surprised or complain about someone else getting the business. if you have done an excellent job for a client you have earned the right to ask for the referral.  Third secret Agents find themselves out of business very quickly.  Fourth, clients expect to be asked for a referral by an Agent who has done an excellent job for them.

Sep 14, 2024 01:23 PM
Marte Cliff

Thanks for the insight, George Souto. It really never occurred to me to think that clients expect to be asked for a referral. 

Sep 15, 2024 10:48 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Sep 14, 2024 06:20 PM
Marte Cliff

Thank you Kathy Streib!

Sep 15, 2024 10:48 AM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

That is a lot of great advice, Marte. We send a newsletter to our friend, past clients, leads, etc. on a monthly basis. A mail piece, not an email. We have to supplement that with additional phone calls just to say hello. By birthday cards. By email market reports. And, we have to subtly ask for business.

Sep 16, 2024 03:39 PM
Marte Cliff

Good for you John Juarez. That's the way to build your team! 

Sep 20, 2024 09:53 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

I  missed this, so, happy that Kathy featured it this week. Great post and lots of great advice too.

Sep 18, 2024 08:42 AM
Marte Cliff

Thank you Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 - I appreciate that.

Sep 20, 2024 09:53 PM