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Motivational Monday…Make Your Memories

This weekend, we celebrated the life of my sister-in-law’s father.  He passed away almost 5 months to the day he lost his great love and wife..Mrs. A. 

During the services his daughters, grandchildren, cousins and other close family members shared funny and sweet stories about him. 

 

 

My niece recalled that her grandfather was always there to pick her up from activities if needed. He stressed the importance of family first, no matter what differences you may have 

 

His nephew, who grew up on the same block, recalled the encouragement his Uncle Pete gave him when upon graduation from college, he decided to join the military. 

 

One of his granddaughters remembered how much he loved talking to people. When he took her to the mall, they always ran into someone he knew. She said “20 minutes later” we would finally continue their outing. 

 

Mr. A loved the Astros. When Larry and I saw him, if it was during baseball season, he could tell you who was pitching, the stats, and who needed to go!

 

 

It occurred to me that our time with family, friends and others are memory makers.   

 

Take a moment to recall a special memory of a relative or friend. It may have been only a moment but it had an impact on you! 

 

These memory maker moments are what’s important in life. They add a layer to our lives that make all the other stuff we endure worthwhile.

 

 

We never know when a conversation we have with a child…or having a cup of coffee with a friend will be remembered in a special way. 

 

So head out this week and make as many memory maker moments as you can. 

 

We do not remember days, we
remember moments.

Cesare Pavese

 

If you can take the time to be present with your family, the memories will be clearer and stay with you longer.
Unknown



Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment, until it becomes a memory.
Dr. Seuss

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Comments(21)

Michael Elliott
Fathom Realty - Burlington Township, NJ
Burlington, New Jersey Residential Sales

So sorry for you loss, Kathy, you did a nice tribute.  

Sep 16, 2024 04:51 AM
Kathy Streib

Thank you Michael Elliott My nieces wore Astros jerseys over their dresses to honor their grandfather. 

Sep 16, 2024 03:52 PM
Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Thanks for sharing those beautiful quotes Kathy!!!

If you can take the time to be present with your family, the memories will be clearer and stay with you longer.
Unknown

Sep 16, 2024 05:17 AM
Kathy Streib

HI Sham Reddy CRS Thank you and hope that all is well with you. 

Sep 16, 2024 04:04 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. I was never a Dr. Seuss fan when younger, but as I age his wisdom is becoming more apparent. Enjoy your day.

Sep 16, 2024 05:28 AM
Kathy Streib

Wayne Martin I'm the same way. As I've "matured" his words make more sense to me. 

Sep 16, 2024 04:06 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Kathy,

I love your post this Monday morning. Make the most of all those precious moments with families and friends because they are memory makers! Your quotes are wonderful and I especially like the quote from Dr. Seuss! 

Sep 16, 2024 05:30 AM
Kathy Streib

Dorie Dillard Austin TX you and I were on the same page today. I saw the beautiful memories made at John and Erika's wedding. 

Sep 16, 2024 04:14 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

When someone is no longer in our life, we spend a lot of time thinking about all of the good memories we have of them.

Sep 16, 2024 06:12 AM
Kathy Streib

Brian England we have a friend we used to walk with in FL...he passed away several years ago. To this day, when we see an older gentleman with a shock of white hair and a yellow polo shirt, we think of him. 

Sep 16, 2024 04:17 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Kathy - Dr Seuss celebrated life with his words.  Moments and memories continue to matter.   

Sep 16, 2024 06:47 AM
Kathy Streib

Michael Jacobs They do matter a lot!  It's up to us to try to make as many as we can. 

Sep 16, 2024 04:24 PM
Bill Salvatore - East Valley
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

So often you hear the spouse passes not long after the first to pass. Great information. Thanks for sharing and enjoy your week!

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Sep 16, 2024 06:56 AM
Kathy Streib

Bill Salvatore - East Valley we all had a feeling that he was ready to reunite with her. 

Sep 16, 2024 04:26 PM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Hello Kathy Streib, I am sorry for your loss. It is a great feeling when we remember someone by their laughter, kindness, smile...that shows they were loved a great deal.

Sep 16, 2024 07:00 AM
Kathy Streib

Beth Atalay I agree. That's why it's helpful when family and friends come together to remember their loved ones and tell these stories. 

Sep 16, 2024 04:27 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

My grandfather passed in the mid 1970s. He was the biggest baseball fan I have ever known. The memories are still in my head.

Sep 16, 2024 07:23 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty I love that. He had a big impact on you!

Sep 16, 2024 04:28 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

I am sorry for your loss. You have offered some good advice.

I like your quote selections.

Sep 16, 2024 07:47 AM
Kathy Streib

Thank you Roy Kelley I know his family is at peace knowing that he is with his wife. 

Sep 16, 2024 04:30 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

"Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment, until it becomes a memory."

That's such a great Dr. Seuss quote.

Sep 16, 2024 08:42 AM
Kathy Streib

Myrl Jeffcoat it's one of my favorite quotes. 

Sep 16, 2024 04:31 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Kathy,
I can think of so many moments I am grateful for from times with the special people in my life - family and friends. We don't remember "things". We remember the moments with special people. 

Sep 16, 2024 09:22 AM
Kathy Streib

Carol Williams I loved hearing the memories my nieces and others recalled. 

Sep 16, 2024 04:33 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Kathy and he sounds like a man I would of love to be friends with and talk to and learn from him.

Sep 16, 2024 09:42 AM
Kathy Streib

Will Hamm he loved to tell a good story. His wife saved all of the letters he'd written. 

Sep 16, 2024 04:34 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Hi Kathy... your sister-in-law's father sounds like a wonderful person. What a wonderful way to remember him.

Sep 16, 2024 10:19 AM
Kathy Streib

Nina Hollander, Broker He was a good man and he loved his family totally. 

Sep 16, 2024 04:34 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you, Kathy, for sharing such heartfelt reflections on the importance of making memories with loved ones. Your words remind me to cherish every moment, as those memories truly shape our lives in meaningful ways.

Sep 16, 2024 12:16 PM
Kathy Streib

Lew Corcoran we have to be present when we're with our families and friends. Treasure every moment. 

Sep 16, 2024 04:35 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy I am glad I made family a priority while my two boys were still young.  I would have missed out a lot if I had not done that.

Sep 16, 2024 12:46 PM
Kathy Streib

George Souto I'll bet they appreciated that too. We can't go back, can we? So hopefully we have those memories to carry with us. 

Sep 16, 2024 04:36 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

So sorry for your loss, Kathy. But what wonderful memories were shared at the celebration of life!

I thought the quote from Dr. Seuss was particularly meaningful!

Jeff

Sep 16, 2024 07:53 PM
Kathy Streib

Hi Jeff Dowler, CRS 

Thank you! Isn't it interesting how many of us as we've aged have a greater appreciation for Dr. Seuss!

Sep 17, 2024 07:20 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Kathy Streib  what a powerful post and message, now many will not get it.... just my two cents, Endre

Sep 16, 2024 09:37 PM
Kathy Streib

Endre Barath, Jr. it's important to me even more now to not pass up opportunities to be with friends and family. 

Sep 17, 2024 07:22 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Your post warms my heart Kathy! Thank you! What a beautiful celebration of life with so many sharing their memories of him. What a great guy! I've been at many of this type of celebration and it's so beautiful seeing and feeling the love in the room.  I"m thinking of a few folks right now that have left us with wonderful memories and I'm so thankful for them.  It's making me smile real big.......thank you again! 💛

Sep 17, 2024 11:24 AM
Kathy Streib

Anna "Banana" Kruchten making you smile made my day. I enjoyed listening to what his grandchildren said because I didn't know a lot of their stories. I knew of my own experience with him. 

Sep 17, 2024 07:24 PM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

Hello Kathy,  I went a service this year and those attending were asked if they had a story or a thought they would like to share about John.  Many stood and shared.  What really has stayed with me was when the 3 kids, teenagers each spoke at the front.  While each displayed a completely different personality, from the previous,  their love and admiration shown thru.  John no doubt was very proud.  Mark

Sep 17, 2024 01:25 PM
Kathy Streib

Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho isn't that what we all hope for...to know that we were loved!  I love seeing how individuals were impacted. 

Sep 17, 2024 07:25 PM