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Gold Star Mother's & Family's Day

 

The Gold Star family is one that has experienced a loss of a loved one-an immediate family member who died as the result of military service. Those who have died on duty leave behind parents, siblings, spouses, and children.

 

Those left behind are recognized as Gold Star Families.

 

The History of the Gold Star Family Designation

The phrase "Gold Star Family," dates back to World War I, when military families displayed service flags featuring a blue star for every immediate family member serving in the United States Armed Forces.

 

My aunt was a double recipient of the Gold Star, her husband was held prisoner and died during the Korean War and and his only son, my cousin, a helicopter gunner perished in the Vietnam War. It's true that only those who have lost loved ones during conflict know and fully understand the pain of loss.

 

Am still haunted to this day that my cousin promised he'd come home safe as I desperately clung to him, saying goodbye through free-flowing tears. Instead he arrived in a pine box, draped with the American flag.

 

Our family was never the same.

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Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Losing a husband and a child to war was absolutely devastating, George Souto. Hope to never experience that!

Sep 30, 2024 01:36 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Our military over any other group should be taken care of in this country, instead of those who just continue to take without contributing, Dr. Paula McDonald!

Sep 30, 2024 01:37 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Military people step up to protect America at all costs, Dennis Neal. I will always remember and honor them!

Sep 30, 2024 02:33 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Forgetting would be forsaking them, Kathy Streib. Their lives mattered!

Sep 30, 2024 02:34 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

The memories of horrific events cannot be undone and another reason they need to be remembered as heroes, Endre Barath, Jr..

Sep 30, 2024 02:51 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

For the rest of most of people's lives, Michael Jacobs. At least mine. I am the last generation that remembers my cousin, everyone has passed that was part of my uncle's life. 

Sep 30, 2024 02:53 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

As long as evil exists, war is inevitable, Brian England. I'd fight for America if it came down to my freedom being taken away to live in a socialist or communist stronghold. You better believe it!

Sep 30, 2024 03:22 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Hello Nina Hollander, Broker, thank you for the kind comment. 💗

Sep 30, 2024 03:24 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Still feels like it happened yesterday. The helpless feelings never go away, Kat Palmiotti, no matter how many years pass!

Sep 30, 2024 03:26 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

I often wonder what his life would have been like had he came home safely, Carol Williams. He never married and no children to carry on his legacy. So sad!

Sep 30, 2024 03:28 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Oct 05, 2024 06:24 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Sympathies and appreciation go out to the Gold Star families for having someone that wanted to defend us and paid the ultimate price while doing so.

Oct 06, 2024 05:33 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Wanda. Lost a classmate during the Viet Nam crisis. A class of 28 guys. The pain of loss lingers. Can't imagine being a family member. 

Oct 06, 2024 06:14 AM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Endre Barath, Jr. and Wayne Martin nailed it - I too remember the evacuation news - the people on the roof top, the planes getting pushed off the aircraft carrier deck - my dad had just died a week before and I was so grateful that he didn't see those scenes.  Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! - I am so sorry for your cousin's death- I am so grateful that my son came home safely from Iraq - it was a long 6 months or so to have him there and now the service members go back to deployments multiple times.  So hard...

Oct 06, 2024 06:25 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

THANK YOU so much for the feature in Posts Just For You, Kathy Streib! Reminders are necessary to keep these heroes in mind and to always honor their ultimate sacrifice.

Oct 06, 2024 09:02 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Coming from a long line of military veterans, it hits the heart and home, literally, Ed Silva, 203-206-0754!

Oct 06, 2024 09:04 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

So very sorry for your loss, Wayne Martin. Every single casualty had people who loved and cared for them, praying for their safety!

Oct 06, 2024 09:07 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Losing an uncle and then his son was a double hit to the heart’, Lise Howe. My stepdad was called a baby killer when he came home, though he was a printer during the Vietnam war.

I am unable to understand why, except for Hanoi Jane and her highly publicized visit. She disgusts me!

Oct 06, 2024 09:12 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

My son lost several friends in Iraq, the pain is still with him today. I remember attending the funeral of his Gunny Sergeant who had been killed in Afghanistan, it haunts me to this day as I can remember the wail of his wife draped over the coffin as his children were escorted away by family. I am sorry for your family's loss.

Oct 07, 2024 10:40 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Your comment brings back the feelings fresh, Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543. Time does not heal all wounds, especially when they cut extremely deep into the heart. 💔

Oct 07, 2024 11:05 AM