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Buyers & Sellers Have A Choice

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 311291

Buyers and Sellers You Always Have a Choice

Buyers and sellers should not feel obligated to use a particular real estate agent. Maybe it's a friend, a relative, or an acquaintance who has previously talked to you about RE. Perhaps it's an agent you have me through an open house, a party, or at work. Maybe it's a person who is friends with a relative, and again, you feel that obligation.

You feel like you must use them and may feel trapped by a specific agent. This is not the time or place for guilt.

How do I know? Buyers and sellers talk to me; they call and ask me for advice. In the past couple of weeks, two callers asked me about properties.

The responses were disturbing when asked if they had a buyer's agent.

They "sort of" have an agent and don't feel they are looking out for them. The agent has made them promise that if I find a house, I will always give their name. They do want a sale.

The buyers are told by the agent, 'When you find something you like, call me.'  One agent had not gotten back to this buyer for several weeks, not even when what could have been a perfect house was listed with this agent's office. When the buyer found it through an open house, it was already under contract! 

Buyers and sellers, it is not your job to make the real estate agent feel good or to give them business because they 'need' the sale.

 

You have a choice

 

You can choose an agent who will protect your interests and get you the best house, deal, inspectors, lenders, title attorneys, and anything else you need for a smooth transaction.

The best way to find a reliable agent is through someone you trust and whose opinion you value. Talk to others and ask about their transactions. When you meet with an agent, go ahead and ask for a list of their last dozen buyers or sellers. Give them a call. Ask them questions. This is a big deal.

Looking for your new home should be a fun and exciting experience.

Your job is not to worry about the agent.

You Always Have A Choice

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Margaret Rome
HomeRome Realty
Broker/Owner/Realtor®

Baltimore, Maryland


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Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

Whether selling or buying, people need to know that when they have a question there is a person there that will help them.

Any person that asks to be called when they find something they want should be waiting a long time, and after they buy that house, then call them and thank them for nothing.

Oct 09, 2024 04:22 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

     Ed Silva, 203-206-0754  If they are your agent, they should be working for you!

Oct 10, 2024 01:37 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Margaret - life in real estate, on this planet and even in this online community, has "shown" me there are many kinds of practitioners.  And people.  

Oct 09, 2024 04:25 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Hey, Michael Jacobs, we need a new word for "personalities." Please ponder!

Oct 10, 2024 02:53 PM
Michael Jacobs

Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 - while keeping politeness in mind, I think I'll remain silent with my current thoughts. 

Oct 10, 2024 03:25 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

And Michael Jacobs,

There are so many kinds of agents and many different personalities.

Oct 10, 2024 01:41 PM
Michael Jacobs

Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 - and perhaps "personalities" is a particularly kind way of aPProaching the subject.  

Oct 10, 2024 02:39 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Excellent point for buyers and sellers. This is one of, if not THE, biggest transitions in life. Pick an agent who is skilled and personable. Look around. Interview. Speak to past clients. Do your due diligence!

Oct 09, 2024 05:24 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Kat Palmiotti 

Buying and selling a home is a significant investment. Make sure your agent is there to help you protect yourself and your investment. 

Oct 10, 2024 01:44 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Margaret... and then we wonder why real estate agents don't always have the best reputation! I can't tell you how many clients I've picked up over the years because the first or two agents they worked with were like the ones you described in your post.

Oct 09, 2024 05:55 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Nina Hollander, Broker   And those who are less prepared sometimes leave an opening for another Realtor®

Oct 10, 2024 01:54 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Margaret. Feelings should not matter! Representation is the key. Who will best look out for the buyer's interests? It is about choice, choose wisely! Enjoy your day.

Oct 09, 2024 06:11 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

It's very important for buyers and sellers to make the right choice when selecting the right agent for a number of reasons, haha.

Oct 09, 2024 06:23 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Brian England: Well said!

Oct 10, 2024 02:54 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Miss Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 I agree with you 100%. 

I would like to add, that the opposite is also true.  When working with a professional who goes to the ends of the earth for their clients, be loyal to them. Do not "use" them for their knowledge and expertise and then "hire" Mr. or Mrs. Low Ball, the agent who says, "Call me when you find the home."

Oct 09, 2024 07:18 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

So true, Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist

I talked about this recently. And I noticed that you commented.  Take a look at this recent post.

Oct 10, 2024 03:03 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you, Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400, for emphasizing the importance of choice in selecting a real estate agent! I appreciate your insights on ensuring buyers and sellers find someone who truly has their best interests at heart, making the journey more enjoyable and stress-free.

Oct 09, 2024 02:36 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Lew Corcoran

 You always write such kind and meaningful comments. You could give others a few lessons!

Oct 10, 2024 03:08 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Choosing the right agent is one of the more important decisions in the home buying and selling process.  I remember one homebuyer who came through one of my Open Houses.  Her agent had sent her out on weekends to find the house she wanted, and then to call her to write it up!

Oct 09, 2024 05:24 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Myrl Jeffcoat

That agent has found a work-a-round, which was to not work! 

Thank you for the feature!

Oct 10, 2024 03:11 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

CONGRATULATIONS Margaret, on having this blog FEATURED in the Old Farts Clubgroup!  

Oct 09, 2024 05:25 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Margaret- I cannot tell you how many times, when working with sellers, I was told that they should have listed with another agent. Instead they chose their neighbor's newly licensed nephew who lived in another county.  

Oct 12, 2024 06:32 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Oct 12, 2024 07:06 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Kathy Streib, I've heard this from buyers and sellers for years: "And often, it's too late to make a change." When they do call, I cannot give them advice! For me, the way to get the word out is through blogging and my show. 

Thanks for the feature in your weekly post. 

Oct 12, 2024 08:09 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Margaret,

I don't know how I missed this post! I'm so glad that Kathy Streib featured it in her selection of posts for her Sunday series! Choosing the right agent is a crucial decision in the home buying and selling process. it can make all the difference in obtaining the right house and being completely informed to make that decision on the right home.

Oct 13, 2024 05:07 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Dorie Dillard Austin TX: I love Kathy Streib's Sunday series. The right agent makes all the difference when it comes to such a huge, important decision as buying or selling. 

Oct 13, 2024 05:44 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Have also received calls from potential buyers asking questions about properties, Margaret. One called on Sunday and I asked if she had an agent, she said yes and that he didn't work on the sabbath. Another one said her agent was out on a long bike ride and wasn't available. Oh boy!

Oct 13, 2024 05:36 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!

You can't make this stuff up.  So, did you drop everything and show her homes? 🙃

 After all, her agent deserved privacy on Sunday, and the other certainly needed the exercise, peace and quiet.

Oct 13, 2024 05:51 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!

I took a pass both times, Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400! 😂

Oct 13, 2024 06:21 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! Thanks for the smiles.

Oct 14, 2024 12:08 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

This is excellent advice to share. I will post your blog on X.

Oct 14, 2024 11:31 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Thanks so much, Roy Kelley 

Oct 14, 2024 12:07 PM