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POWER OF THE LOLLIPOP (fun life secret)

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Industry Observer with people first-then business feedback-input specialist

A lollipop is candy on a stick and the name makes no sense. Yet there isn't a kid that doesn't know about this word and who hasn't had the experience of one of these. The one that sticks (pun) out to me is the Tootsie Roll Pop. When I found out that you can have your Tootsie and eat it too, my world as a kid became more exciting

LOLLIPOPS ARE NO RESPECTER OF PERSONS

I used to by a large box of these and keep them at the Real Estate office. Pretty soon everyone was walking around with sticks coming out of their mouths. I made a couple of observations. First, you cannot talk with one of these in your mouth. If you try to, the flavor can escape. People learn to speak in between licks & swallows

WATCH THEIR HAND GO TO THE MOUTH

So, when you meet someone who has one going, you can talk all you want until their hand goes to the stick...then you know that they will respond. But the pop has to stop...first. Another thing I noticed is you never know what flavor someone has until they pull it out of their mouths. Either the tongue or the stick gives it away and people are quick to promote their flavor. I love orange & chocolate...yum!

MANY WAYS TO PARTAKE

I have seen people enjoy theirs different ways. The user controls the degree of experience by leaving it in the mouth or taking it out. The girl users like to apply it like lipstick while they indulge. They get an extra perk out of it. A few daring users like to crunch down and get to the Tootsie roll center. The noise generated gives you away every time. No matter what happens...you win!

BUSINESS MEETING TOOLS

In my meeting rooms, I kept Tootsie roll pops in a glass jar. Once I reached for one during a meeting, everyone else got one too. You had all these childlike adult Real Estate agents discussing business in between slurps and swallows. It actually made us all better listeners because our mouths stayed busy quiet allowing the speaker quality floor time. Once, we all got into a passionate business discussion and the lollipops actually helped us with our pacing while we had discussion..Less interruptions...lol

NOTE: Nearly impossible to hate, argue or attack anyone under the rule of the lollipop. Who would want to stop long-enough to do so? To miss a lick? LOL

YOU LOVE EVERYONE

It is impossible to dislike anyone who is enjoying a lollipop. TRY IT!  It cannot be done. If a policeman pulled you over and had one of these going, it would change your mood instantly and his too. Doctors coming in and out of their examining rooms would be more inviting. Judges would not be feared but become father figures and if teachers would imbibe, students could relate to them better.

IMAGINE BEING REPRIMANDED

A lollipop person, approaches you for a reason, takes it out of their mouths, begins to make a point while waiving the candy on a stick around while giving you correction, direction or even a scolding. How bad could it be? 

HOW IS THIS POSSIBLE?

When you & others visit with their little inner child, what's not to like? There is no negative or take-aways. Judgment & criticism is replaced by innocence & acceptance & goodwill fills the air. There is a type of truce or temporary peace. Now that is power!

Not to leave out ice cream or your favorite candy, the lollipop can take you instantly to neutral, objective ground where love they neighbor is predominate

THE GOOD SHIP LOLLIPOP

A lollipop makes for a better human being......

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Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Richie Alan Naggar - if we were sitting face-to-face, I wonder who would stop talking first about lollipops. Since that's not possible, here are a few of my memories:

1) Singing with the song on the radio "Lollipop! Lollipop! Oh, Lolli Lolli Pop. POP!"

2) Our family doctor did house calls but when the five of us kids got sick, my mom took us all by bus to the doc's office. One-by-one, a sibling went into the office, coming out with a lollipop in their mouth. Then we would compare which flavor we picked.

3) Shortly after family doctor office visits, we had to go to the dentist.

4) After being in the hospital for a very scary procedure when I was 8 or 9 years old, as soon I was able to go home, the nurse had me choose a lollipop shaped in a fist. Nurse said "you gotta fight to stay well." Hmmmm... I could probably market that idea for a political candidate.  

Thanks for the fun post. Hope you don't mind my sharing - in this case, I was a sucker having fond memories. 

 

Oct 05, 2024 08:06 AM
Richie & You

Most excellent sharing, telling & intimacy at work in your decent commenting allowing me to know YOU Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP ...a most worthy person indeed thank you

Oct 05, 2024 10:40 AM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

Great information. Thanks for sharing, enjoy your weekend, and here's a GOOD LUCK to your favorite Football Team! 

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Oct 05, 2024 10:52 AM
Richie & You

Anything in Chandler AZ Real Estate the guy to see is Bill Salvatore - East Valley 

Oct 05, 2024 11:45 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Richie- I love the sound of the word "lollipop" but I've never been a huge fan of them. However, I do admit to choosing the red or grape tootsie roll lollipop. The only thing is I'd grow impatient waiting to get to the center and the tootsie roll. 

Oct 05, 2024 05:15 PM
Richie & You

Whoever came up with the idea of a tootsie roll pop was a genius Kathy Streib 

Oct 06, 2024 06:21 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Oct 05, 2024 06:27 PM
Richie & You

Two kids going out to play with each other thank you Kathy Streib 

Oct 06, 2024 06:20 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much, Richie, for adding smiles to our faces with this post. I will share your blog on X.

Oct 06, 2024 01:28 PM
Richie & You

The father of ActiveRain ladies & gentleman Roy Kelley thank you

Oct 06, 2024 02:08 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

I missed your post Richie and have been gone so really glad Kathy Streib featured your post in her Sunday series! I always liked lollipops as a kid and liked cheery or grape flavored. Last week two colleagues were in a jewelry store picking something out for our broker who is sadly no longer going to be our broker and they had a bowl of lollipops!   We each took one (mine was lime) and walked out with our purchase and all remarked we couldn't remember the last time we had a lollipop in our mouths! 

Oct 07, 2024 05:13 AM
Richie & You

Now that is the power of a lollipop in action. How fun for all of you to visit with the child within Dorie Dillard Austin TX ...thanks for sharing

Oct 07, 2024 05:54 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Richie - would I be a sucker to disqualify the fun secrets of the lollipop?  Hmm. . .pondering to continue.  

Oct 07, 2024 06:44 AM
Richie & You

I promise you the little boy will come out IF you demonstrate the power of the lollipop Michael Jacobs ...you won't be a sucker?

Oct 07, 2024 09:23 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

What a true and fun post. Glad Kathy featured it as I had missed it and it is well worth reading and remembering.

Oct 07, 2024 10:52 AM
Richie & You

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 ...a good neighbor & friend thank you

Oct 07, 2024 11:39 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

This is so everywhere that I never really think about the origins of the lollipop because I can’t think of world without them.

Oct 07, 2024 11:04 PM
Richie & You

They have a feng shui lollipop Laura Cerrano where when it enters the mouth, all systems line-up with it harmoniously

Oct 08, 2024 06:00 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

As a kid, when dad would go to the bank to cash a check, we would look for the guard as he always had a supply of lollipops in his pocket and would walk around vigilant to activity and youngsters.

Having the candy at a meeting is clever to keep everyone quiet and attentive.

 

Richie Alan Naggar   Does licensed to thrill mean you also drive a taxi?

Oct 08, 2024 05:33 AM
Richie & You

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 ...I thrill wherever I go thank you. I liked your fond memory share for we are all made-up of those stories & still going too

Oct 08, 2024 05:57 AM
Peter Mohylsky, www.athome30a
Property Management Inc.-Destin - Sandestin, FL
Call me at 850-517-7098

Sugar delights the soul.  putting it on a stick keeps the hand clean.  

Oct 12, 2024 06:59 AM
Richie & You

Peter Mohylsky, Beach Broker ...good of you to stop-in

Oct 12, 2024 07:16 AM
Paula Hathaway, REALTOR, LBA
Douglas Elliman Real Estate - Southampton, NY
"Deeply rooted in The Hamptons---local expertise"

I know this is an older post but I have to comment...It is the best story about lollipops ever written! I have two grand neices who are 7 and 9 and I'll bet you this will resonate with them. I will share it so we can talk about it later today, when I go to their house for a Birthday Pool party! Thanks for your talent Richie--the fact that you share it so widely and broadly is a testatment to your Humanity!

Aug 14, 2025 07:55 AM
Richie & You

I so enjoy you Paula Hathaway, REALTOR, LBA ...You remain one of my rewards thank you Paula. Fondest thoughts

Aug 14, 2025 09:50 AM
Paula Hathaway, REALTOR, LBA
Douglas Elliman Real Estate - Southampton, NY
"Deeply rooted in The Hamptons---local expertise"

Hi Richie,

Well, Paul, my nephew got your Lolli-Pop Post and he is reading it to  the girls tonight--his beautiful daughters. I will let you know how it goes. They love reading but better when Dad or Auntie P does the reading! I have also noticed that they love adult dialogue better than stories for kids--makes them feel part of the real world...This one should be a hit!

Aug 14, 2025 02:49 PM
Richie & You

This sharing of yours is the truth life essence with legs thank you Paula Hathaway, REALTOR, LBA 

Aug 15, 2025 05:28 AM