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Perspective…A Squirrel’s View

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Perspective…A Squirrel’s View

 

The squirrels in our backyard come and go.  Some may have found greener pastures/peanuts and some may be in squirrel heaven. 

 

So, I’m back to “training” some squirrels to take a peanut from my hand. The other day, a fairly young squirrel was across the yard and stopped when I whistled. 

I held out a peanut and he started hopping across the grass
for his reward.

He stopped and looked around. Again, I held up the peanut. 

So…I tossed it on the grass hoping to entice him. 

 

He still couldn’t find it. I thought of the quote “even a blind squirrel finds a nut once in a while.”

It dawned on me, though, that while I could see the peanut on the grass…I am seeing it from my perspective…standing above the grass. 

 

I got down on my knees to see what the squirrel was seeing. 

Well…of course he didn’t see the peanut!  How could he?!

 

That’s the thing about our points of view. Everyone has one that is unique to them.

 

 It changes with time, location, and age. It can change multiple times in our day…or never at all. 

 

One of the best things we can do is to understand the other person’s point of view…to try to see things from their perspective. 




Empathy begins with understanding life from another person's perspective. Nobody has an objective experience of reality. It's all through our own individual prisms.
Sterling K. Brown



The greatest tragedy for any human being is going through their entire lives believing the only perspective that matters is their own.
Doug Baldwin




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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. You featured photo is a reminder I need to consult with you! Soon! And your post is a reminder that all should follow the words of Covey "seek first to understand, then to be understood." Enjoy your day.

Oct 08, 2024 04:53 AM
Kathy Streib

Wayne Martin give me a call!!!   I'll help at any time. 

Oct 08, 2024 05:42 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

We all get into a mode where we get impatient with someone that doesn't grasp what we are offering, 'When we have repeated something so often, we feel it should be common knowledge and yet every new client needs the start from the beginning approach.

Oct 08, 2024 05:16 AM
Kathy Streib

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 I hope/think as we get older, we get better at seeing what the other person sees. And hopefully, while it may not change our views, it gives us a better understanding. 

Oct 08, 2024 05:45 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Kathy - as a native of California, you know the state of fruits and nuts, squirrels fascinate me.  They can provide non-stop possibilities to observe.  And sometimes to interact.  

Oct 08, 2024 05:35 AM
Kathy Streib

Michael Jacobs I have always said that California is full of fruits and nuts!!! (Present company excluded)

Oct 08, 2024 05:46 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Love this analogy! Seeing something from someone else's perspective isn't always possible, but it is possible to try. Maybe we'll get a little closer to seeing what they're seeing.

Oct 08, 2024 05:37 AM
Kathy Streib

Thank you Kat Palmiotti We owe it to ourselves and others to try!!

Oct 08, 2024 05:47 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Kathy... what a terrific analogy and great advice about looking at things from another person's perspective!

Oct 08, 2024 05:40 AM
Kathy Streib

Why thank you Nina Hollander, Broker  We have to try!

Oct 08, 2024 05:48 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Kathy,

A great observation and analogy. I love the Sterling K. Brown quote. If only we could all take a step back, listen more and consider a different point of view! We all need to stop thinking we are the one with all the answers!

Oct 08, 2024 05:53 AM
Kathy Streib

Dorie Dillard Austin TX I couldn't agree more!  There are strong feelings that are often hard to get past. But we have to try. 

Oct 08, 2024 05:49 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Great post, so easy to shut people off and not hear them. We all come from different backgrounds with different beliefs and different views. Sometimes it is better to listen than to speak.

Oct 08, 2024 06:08 AM
Kathy Streib

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 You said it!!!  Often it's better to listen than to speak.

Oct 08, 2024 05:50 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Such a cute little squirrel.  I don't know much about squirrels, are they good to have around or do they cause damage in the yard?

Oct 08, 2024 06:18 AM
Kathy Streib

Hi Brian England wellllll ...you don't want them in your house although I've seen people on Instagram who have squirrel pets. The only damage they're doing now is cutting off little branches of our oak trees so they'll drop down on our patio. They race down to eat them and I'm left to step on the half eaten acorns. 

Oct 08, 2024 06:05 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Kathy, we definitely have to look at situations a few ways to see the WHOLE picture.   The squirrels in my neighborhood love to taunt my kitties that are watching like hawks.

Oct 08, 2024 06:31 AM
Kathy Streib

Joan Cox during nesting season, the poor squirrels get dive-bombed by the blue birds. 

Oct 08, 2024 06:12 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Just a question...what if the squirrel has rabies or something like that...I would be a bit scared to feed that way. I will throw them the peanut...lol 

Oct 08, 2024 06:31 AM
Kathy Streib

Hi Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty I make sure I have a long peanut and I hold it out for him. You can tell if they're acting strange! Congrats to your Mets!!!

Oct 08, 2024 06:16 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Kathy,
This is absolutely true! I've always said, "People are the way they are for a reason." Unless you know their story, you can't judge them. Everyone has unique experiences, and therefore a unique perspective on any given situation.

Oct 08, 2024 08:11 AM
Kathy Streib

Carol Williams you're right!  Everyone has a story. Often when we take the time to hear their story, we'll understand why they think what they do. Or...we realize they truly are crazy. LOL

Oct 08, 2024 06:25 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Good Morning Kathy and yes people do not see the things that we may see.  I try to put my feet in other people shoes all the time.

 

Oct 08, 2024 09:54 AM
Kathy Streib

Will Hamm let's face it...most of us can be arrogant in our way of thinking!  We have to try to understand their point of view. 

Oct 08, 2024 06:27 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you, Kathy Streib, for sharing such a thought-provoking post! Your insights on perspective serve as a crucial reminder of the importance of empathy and understanding in our interactions, and I truly appreciate the way you've illustrated this with your experience.

Oct 08, 2024 11:16 AM
Kathy Streib

Thank you Lew Corcoran Appreciate that. 

Oct 08, 2024 06:36 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

So I get where you are going to with this and I so agree with you.  I ran into a lady who clearly was having a bad day and I had no idea who she was or why.  It just so happened she had been in an accident and was off her normal way of being and doing things. A lady behind me knew her and told me the story.  Poor gal, she was dealing with a lot that had just happened.

 

ON a funny note, perhaps the squirrel was seeing a 'nut' who was looking at him through the grass!!

Oct 08, 2024 12:08 PM
Kathy Streib

Anna "Banana" Kruchten very funny!!!  I suppose I AM the nut!!!  They have me wrapped around their little paws or whatever they have!!! We have our favorites at the Preserve but those are usually red squirrels. 

Oct 08, 2024 06:37 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

You gained appreciation through a new view, Kathy, some could stop and do the same. The squirrel was definitely at a disadvantage because of short stature or maybe it wasn't his day to feel like a nut! 🤣

Oct 08, 2024 01:30 PM
Kathy Streib

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! we used to have a squirrel who would come to the window and begged. He looked so cute!!!

Oct 08, 2024 06:41 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Empathy begins with understanding life from another person's perspective. Nobody has an objective experience of reality. It's all through our own individual prisms. ~ Sterling K. Brown

I love that quote, Kathy.

Oct 08, 2024 05:12 PM
Kathy Streib

Hi Myrl Jeffcoat isn't that a wonderful quote. 

Oct 08, 2024 06:44 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy I have been referred to as squirrely on occasion, and I love peanuts, so I am sure I would have found it.   😋😜🤪 

Oct 08, 2024 06:04 PM
Kathy Streib

George Souto I have no doubt that you would have!!!   I should toss you some at the next Zoom meeting. 

Oct 09, 2024 12:29 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I love this analogy. Great post, Kathy.

As for the squirrel not seeing the nut....made me think of the movie Honey, I Shrunk The Kids. LOL

Oct 10, 2024 03:26 AM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

Good morning and a truly insightful and thought provoking post. Thank you. Our focus does indeed create our reality.

Oct 12, 2024 08:24 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Kathy Streib You are a fantastic lady you never sieze to amaze me 

Oct 13, 2024 04:32 PM