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Be the person you would want to work with.

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Cornerstone Business Group Inc 0225086119

I have a basic philosophy in life. Be the person you would want to work with. That is simple, right? Well, today I had an up-close look at how that looks in real life. I had a closing in a community an hour away. When I arrived, I was ahead of my clients, so I spent 20 minutes or so checking and answering emails. One of those emails came from a car dealership where I am buying a new truck.

I custom built a truck on the manufacturer’s website. It only took about 6 weeks to build and ship. When I received the call that it was in, I was ecstatic. My week has been insanely busy, so I have not had time to pick it up, but I will grab it next week. One of the emails I received was the salesperson telling me they aren’t going to honor one of the commitments they made when we were negotiating the purchase.

I had eight dealers offer to collaborate with me on the purchase. I had already designed the truck, so all they needed to do was accept it and fill out the paperwork. Simple enough. The original salesperson I was working with quit prior to the truck arriving. The new salesperson said the deal would be the same. That was until the email came in telling me they were not going to honor the original deal. That was the opposite of my philosophy. It was more like “don’t be the person you wouldn’t want to work with.”

There was another event today that was also a reflection on my philosophy. The closing was on a new construction property, one of my least favorite sales. The biggest issue I have with them is the total lack of control the buyer’s agent has. I find it hard to represent clients when the tract   builders offer no negotiations of any substance.

On this deal, the buyers contacted me in the Spring to ask if I would work with them. They came to my office one Saturday morning and asked if they could sign a buyer-broker agreement. I always use them, so I was thrilled that they wanted to initiate the agreement.

We looked at houses that Saturday and by the end of the weekend, we signed a contract. The BBA they signed guaranteed a certain commission percentage regardless of the seller’s contribution. This builder did not offer compensation at the level of the BBA which meant the buyers were on the hook for the balance.

In the process of closing, it slipped my mind that the buyers were going to owe me a balance on the BBA. We were walking out of the office when the buyers said, “We need to give you a check for the balance of the commission.” That's when I snapped back to reality. We sat down to calculate the number, and the buyers said, now it’s on the gross amount and not the base (which is what the builder paid the commission on).

They wrote the check. I thanked them for their incredible integrity, we had our parting comments, and we left. It was on the way home that I reflected on the car dealer and the real estate clients. One’s words are like ice that melts in the summer heat while the other is like a rock that the worst weather cannot move. The real estate clients were so refreshing and restorative of my hope for humanity. I am sad that the car dealer fulfilled every stereotype I have ever heard about car salespeople. The real estate client demonstrated a deep inner integrity that makes me hungry for another client just like them. Be the person you would want to work with.

 

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Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

That makes sense to me, do unto others as you would have them do unto you, it's a great way to live life!  I look forward to meeting you in person soon!

Oct 11, 2024 04:31 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Mike - choosing representation matters.  For clients, customers and for those who serve them as well.  The examples you share reinforce that thought.

Oct 11, 2024 05:15 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Yes indeed. This is a great way to live - "be the person you would want to work with."

Were you able to get the new car salesperson to honor the original agreement at the end? I hope so. Argh.

Oct 11, 2024 05:31 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV

Still working on it. We'll see. 

Oct 11, 2024 07:52 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Mike. Be the person you want to work with has been a philosophy of mine for many years. Sometimes you just have to look at yourself in the mirror and you want to be friends with the person looking back at you. Enjoy your day.  

Oct 11, 2024 05:39 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Your buyer who wrote the check had more integrity than some.  I'm hearing a few war stories about how recent changes about agent compensation have created situations in that realm.

Oct 11, 2024 08:16 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

CONGRATULATIONS Mike, on having this blog FEATURED in the Old Farts Clubgroup!  

Oct 11, 2024 08:23 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

hi Mike- I'll echo what Brian England said...follow the Golden Rule. It never goes out of style. 

Oct 11, 2024 07:28 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

I love this post and yes, it does remind us that not all people are trying to wrangle us out of hard-earned $$.

Oct 17, 2024 03:46 AM