The title of the posting is with you all the days of your earthly lifetime. It is a very helpful perspective on how to navigate through life & make difficult decisions something we all do. Instead of playing more hit or miss when choosing, try this assessment approach instead. It will deliver into your hands a calculated result
LIFE ENCOUNTERS
Where can we go to escape misery, sorrow, misfortunate, hurt, pain & all the other discomforts of life. There is no place! Thus, we must travel & learn how to not let woe have its way with us but instead, we have OUR way with it. Woe unto us? NO!
THE CROSSROADS
1. We must learn how to navigate through life & all that is presented.
2. We must learn to rise above what is trying to pull us down.
THE INEVITABLE
1. Calculate the risk/journey for plus or minus dynamics. Any gain comes with risk
2. Choosing the lesser of the two pains (evils) sometimes visits with us. Accept this
3. There is no time-out & doing nothing not an option. We must make a difference
TITLE of the POSTING DYNAMICS
1. Do not fear anything. Instead, if you must travel toward the unknown, know that it wasn't designed to take your life nor defeat you. We would all dead if not true
2. Like many difficult choices, pain is part of what is visiting with you. We are not singled out individually or personally, but mankind has inherited this bleak fact
3. When the less than desirable choice makes it way to your forefront, examine it for its downside, the place where you will land when it is through with you.
4. Many times, loss accompanies the visit along with pain. Perhaps this is a consequence of a previous action (s) & must be dealt with. So be it then.
5. You will see the best course of action traveling with a constant/obvious pain-buddy. Choose the short-term pain aspect & then realize this without doubting
6. Once it completes its cycle & passes, behold long term pleasure reward awaits. It's over! This too shall pass is fulfilled. If done correctly, a bonus is given at the end
7. Your character is strengthened. More courage has been added. Proof that "fear" can be outdone. Your confidence level goes up. Your skills bank even refines. yay!
THE UPS & DOWNS of LIFE
Success/failure. Loss/gain/ Sorrow/happiness. Sickness/health. Pain/pleasure. All of these get a turn, some to take a bite out of you & for you, to take a bite of them too.
UNIVERSAL LAW
"Every new high creates a new low" cannot be tampered with. What then? Seek the level ground which is predictable & a good ride! Adding to it sets yourself up for the fall. Avoiding it or taking away from it, locks you into a downturn cycle. Learn to cruise without the bruise. Find your place & ride it through its conclusion
EAT LIFE OR it will EAT YOU
Plants, animals, & insects have this built-into them & they all practice it. Darwin recognized it as survival of the fittest. You came across it in your childhood when you played the King of the Mountain game. For a short time, you eat (rule). Then, you get eaten (dethroned). While it mirrors predator-prey dynamics, it is not
MAKE GOOD USE OF:
1. Opportunities. Sometimes they don't knock! Be on the look-out (bolo)
2. Seek optimum. This is all you can give or have in the moment. Refined 100%
3. Time. We all take this for granted however the "clock" never stops ticking
4. Where you place your first step determines your direction of travel. Travel well
MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL
Don't forget what it was like to be kid. I am speaking of the FUN part, large doses of carefree & simplicity plus hope built-into your existence without the asking. The child is still there. It asks: Where are you?
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