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Giving Thanks Part I: Retirement

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Education & Training with Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals.

“Retire from work, but not from life.”
-M.K. Soni



My life has been a series of chapters. Retirement is a wonderful, perhaps final, chapter in which I have traded schedules, appointments, meetings, and deadlines for doing whatever I want whenever I want.  That doesn't mean I want to waste what time I have left doing nothing, though. I still want to make the use of my time meaningful, though.



Most of you know what I've replaced my working life with, and it includes:
Hanging out on ActiveRain, where I've met so many amazing people (online and in person) whom I consider friends. AR is a part of my daily life, and I can't imagine life without you all. The good news is, even if AR were to disappear into a black hole of Never Never Land, I would still have a connection with so many of you. I have met so many of you in person, and I treasure that.  I was going to use the AR collage below this post as my feature image, but it was cutting off half the top and bottom rows, so I put it below.  Throughout this post, I believe I've included pictures of all the AR members I have met over the years. What a blessing you all are.

Taking road trips. When I get home from one road trip, it seems there is always a future Road trip brewing in my mind. My road trips aren't about visiting all 50 states, all the National Parks, or specific historical sites. Although I enjoy and do many of those things, they are not my primary purpose. My trips are more about the people I will see and have the opportunity to spend time with. And, I love trying the regional cuisine during these trips.

My Golf Clubs
are always in the trunk of my car, so no matter where I go, I can pull them out and play when the opportunity presents itself.

And then there’s my writing. It’s where I get to be reflective, nostalgic, and sometimes a little goofy. You folks are my sounding board. I love the feedback I get from you all.  I like to think that my words sprinkle a bit of wisdom with just enough humor to entertain readers (and myself).

Retirement, though, isn’t just grand adventures, meeting new people, and blog posts. It’s the everyday moments, even when I'm alone, like sipping my morning coffee while checking in on AR or an evening adult beverage (or two) in my courtyard.

My retirement is about embracing each day with a sense of purpose and gratitude. I want to continue to be a positive influence in the lives of others. It's about enjoying the journey and celebrating the freedom to spend more time on my interests, explore new interests, and appreciate every moment along the way.

Retirement is an active chapter for which I am deeply thankful.

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Carol Williams

"Information is FREE.
Knowledge, Experience & Integrity Are Priceless."

- Carol Williams

Retired: Real Estate Broker/Owner, Property Manager 
Coaching, goal setting, and marketing consultant

Active: Golf & Travel Blogger
"Golf isn't a sport. It's a lifestyle."
SeniorWomenGolfers.com
TopTeamCarol@gmail.com
 

Whatever You're Doing, Make It Fun!




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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Carol. My wife and I sometimes laugh about retirement. Sometimes we say if we knew how busy we would be in retirement, we would have postponed it, ha, ha. Enjoy retirement. 

Nov 07, 2024 04:45 AM
Carol Williams

Isn't that the truth, Wayne Martin 
How did we ever have time to work?

Nov 07, 2024 06:39 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Oh my goodness, Carol... what a wonderful post and testimonial for retirement! You have really made retirement "your own." And I personally appreciate that your retirement has brought you to my doorstep! Come back soon!

Nov 07, 2024 04:52 AM
Carol Williams

Nina Hollander, Broker 
It was so nice to spend time with you and Chris. I would love to do it again sometime. I'm not sure how long I'll feel comfortable making trips like that, but so far so good.

Nov 07, 2024 06:41 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Carol Williams good morning, Carol... in case you hadn't heard... planes fly to Charlotte! :))))

Nov 08, 2024 03:51 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Carol,

Love your post and know I enjoyed meeting you when you came to Austin and we went to dinner! I can see why you are grateful for retirement being an active chapter in your life!

Nov 07, 2024 09:19 AM
Carol Williams

Hi Dorie Dillard Austin TX 
I'm so glad we were able to connect and spend a fun evening together. Would love to do it again sometime.

Nov 07, 2024 06:42 PM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Carol, my engineering life as I know it ends in 2 weeks.  Still trying to figure out the "after" part.  We've still got about 5 months until our new home will be ready, and after we get there the landscaping/gardening/house set up will consume most of my spare time.  I may find some part time stuff to do besides the real estate work and website overhaul.  And what Liz thinks my retirement looks like and what I think it looks like might need some tweaking :)

Nov 07, 2024 10:39 AM
Carol Williams

Hi Bill,
I think your retirement will evolve and morph into what is meant to be for you and Liz. You could be right about you and Liz having a little different vision of YOUR retirement. 😂



Liz and Bill Spear 

Nov 07, 2024 06:44 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Carol Williams - Although our paths never crossed in real life, it has been a pleasure to read your blog posts and the comments you leave for me. You've traveled far and wide and have been with the best of the best on ActiveRain. May you continue to travel and do all the things you want to do and meet people too. 

Nov 07, 2024 01:41 PM
Carol Williams

Hi Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP 
Without exception, through all my meet-ups, I've discovered we already feel like old friends because we've "known" each other so long. Perhaps someday we will connect in person. 😊

Nov 07, 2024 06:47 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Holy Heavens, Carol Williams 

I did not realize you had met up with so many AR peeps. Every time I see the photo of us, I am reminded of why we had a "do-over."  It was so funny looking at the first set of photos. We both agreed they needed to be deleted. 

Your words sprinkle a bit of wisdom with just enough humor to entertain. I enjoy reading your posts.   Thank you. 

 

 

Nov 07, 2024 03:25 PM
Carol Williams

OMG, Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist I remember that first picture!  Delete! 😂

Nov 07, 2024 06:36 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Carol I look forward to taking another picture with you if you ever make it back to CT.

Nov 07, 2024 04:40 PM
Carol Williams

Don't you get out to Washington occasionally, George Souto. I'm willing to drive to the west-side of the state if necessary. 😊

Nov 07, 2024 06:37 PM
Aura Alex
Seattle, WA
Retired Real Estate Pro

Hey Carol,

You're right, retirement isn't a departure from life, but a shift towards busier days. Priorities have evolved, keeping me deeply engaged in sustaining relationships.

Speaking of 'relationship' whether family or friend, the 'working' world still lingers, urging me to navigate this new chapter with care and intention.

Nov 07, 2024 05:07 PM
Carol Williams

It's a big shift, isn't it Aura Alex 
It evolved and morphed into something I never expected. I suspect you are having a similar experience as time goes by.

Nov 07, 2024 06:50 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Carol- I am in awe of your road trips, especially on your own. I love that you have found a way to work in your love of golf with meeting others across the country. You are as REAL as they come!!!

Nov 07, 2024 07:12 PM
Carol Williams

Thank you, Kathy.
I'm so glad my travels led me to Houston to meet you. 😊

Nov 10, 2024 04:06 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Retirement is really wonderful, Carol.  I must admit I had to try it out a couple times before I really got into it.  My first try was in 2005 when the software company I had worked at experienced a huge layoff, and I was given a golden parachute.  After about 2 weeks I was anxious to go back to work.  Finally, in December 0f 2021, I officially retired in earnest.

Nov 07, 2024 08:21 PM
Carol Williams

Hi Myrl Jeffcoat 
I guess you weren't ready the first time. My first time stuck. 😊

Nov 10, 2024 04:07 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Carol:

What a fun read. You clearly are making the most of your retirement and enjoying it immensely. How wonderful to have met all these Rainers. That collage is so special. I'm so sorry I was unable to meet up with you when you came through my area. Next time for sure!

Jeff

Nov 08, 2024 05:02 PM
Carol Williams

Me too, Jeff Dowler, CRS 
Not connecting with you during my time in SoCal was my only disappoint of the trip. Next time.

Nov 10, 2024 04:08 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh my GOSH, Carol, I LOVE this post! What a remarkable retirement you have had, my friend! Of course, I loved seeing the sunset and the pic with you and Ray. What a wonderful time we had with you and we are both so blessed to have met you in person. We know how fortunate we were to have spent time with you too!

Thanks for such a great entry in this month's challenge. Loved looking at all of your pics too! 

Nov 08, 2024 09:21 PM
Carol Williams

Hi Debe Maxwell, CRS 
I was so happy the timing worked out for me to spend time with you and Ray during my road trip. I hope to do that again sometime, but when remains to be seen.

Nov 10, 2024 04:09 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Enjoy every moment of your retirement. 

Maryland golfers have a sunny but chilly morning. 51 degrees as I post this comment at 10:38 a.m.

Nov 09, 2024 07:39 AM
Carol Williams

So far, so good Roy Kelley. I'm in Yuma, Arizona as of today so I'm back in good weather for golf!

Nov 10, 2024 04:09 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Nov 09, 2024 06:17 PM
Carol Williams

Thank you so much, Kathy Streib 
I hope to inspire others to make the most of their retirement, whatever their interests are.

Nov 10, 2024 04:10 PM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

As we all get closer to retirement you are a shining beacon for us!  I love that you have so much fun visiting Rainers and then share it with us

Nov 10, 2024 05:49 AM
Carol Williams

Thanks, Lise Howe 
I definitely love my meetups with Rainers!

Nov 10, 2024 04:11 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

The saying when one door closes another opens is so true for you with the diversity that you find to occupy your time and enjoy the fruits of your labors.

Nov 10, 2024 01:47 PM
Carol Williams

Hi Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 
I do have a diverse set of interests, and meeting up with Rainers is one of my favorites.

Nov 10, 2024 04:12 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Oh my gosh, those photos are priceless!! Thank you so much for your thank you about your retirement. Great read!

Nov 11, 2024 04:07 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Carol, you have met so many Rainers in your Retirement years.   I have met a few, and enjoyed our meet-up.   While in AZ, maybe we can meet somewhere in between Yuma and Bullhead City.

Nov 12, 2024 12:48 PM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

So enjoyed viewing all the photos. Breaking bread with you and Brenda last Saturday was indeed a special treat.  Thank you for making the effort.  If Brian England  is the male Ambassador for Meet Ups then you are the female Ambassador.

Nov 12, 2024 02:53 PM
Michael J. Perry
Fathom Realty - Lancaster, PA
Lancaster, PA Relo Specialist

I have cut back my real estate hours and Identified exactly what type of clients I which to Represent moving forward .

Nov 13, 2024 11:34 AM