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Motivational Monday – Let's Be Kind

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Real Estate Agent with Dirt Road Real Estate SA676002000

Tomorrow is the 2024 Presidential, Senate, Congress, state, county and city election day. This election has for many been unkind even though some candidates have campaigned on the theme of “joy” which appeared to be somewhat lacking.

I came across this quote by Albert Schweitzer and I had never heard or read it before.

"As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust and hostility to evaporate."

Even though I have attempted to be emotionally intelligent in my responses both in person and online, I must admit sometimes my comments appear to be unkind. As I am a very high “D” problem solver and a much lower “I” people person, a low “S” fast pace person and a high “C” process person, I must continue to check myself.

Kindness does not even require words as noted by William Arthur Ward:

“A warm smile is the universal language of kindness.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson recognized the relationship between kindness and time with these words:

“You cannot do a kindness too soon,

for you never know how soon it will be too late.”

Possibly when we are kind, we are demonstrating wisdom that being learning from the mistake of others.

“What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness?”

Jean Jacques Rousseau

Yes, there can be an authentic disconnect between kindness and fondness as observed by Samuel Johnson.

“Kindness is in our power, even when fondness is not.”

As move forward after this and any future election, maybe we with kindness the feelings of misunderstanding, mistrust and hostility will start to evaporate.

Possibly the words of Sophocles will help us in that endeavor.

"One who know how to show and to accept kindness will be a friend better than any possession."

Leanne M Smith, The Grit and Gratitude Agent Who Goes the Extra Mile Because Life Begins Where the Pavement Ends.

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Leanne M. Smith, MS, GRI, rCRMS

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Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Leanne and it is important to be kind and be friendly to all we come in contact with.  Great blog.

 

Nov 04, 2024 08:57 AM
Leanne Smith

Yes it is important to be kind.

Nov 04, 2024 09:11 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Leanne - regardless of outcome, may kindness rule.  

Nov 04, 2024 09:45 AM
Leanne Smith

Agreed. Sometimes kindness does conflict with reality and therein lies the problem.

Nov 04, 2024 09:47 AM
Bill Salvatore - East Valley
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

This is the perfect week to stress lets be kind.  Only if we all would, Thanks for sharing and enjoy your Monday and have a productive week! Bill

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Nov 04, 2024 09:50 AM
Leanne Smith

Yes this week kindness is essential. I will admit sometimes for me it is difficult to remember to be kind when I observe some of the behavior I have witnessed from disrespectful drivers to shoppers who leave shopping carts next to a vehicle instead of walking the carts to the car corral.

Nov 04, 2024 09:59 AM
Carla Freund
Keller Williams Preferred Realty - Raleigh, NC
NC Real Estate Transition & Relocation 919-602-848

Love this Leanne. This week is a great time to go out of your way to be kind.

Nov 04, 2024 10:13 AM
Leanne Smith

Good to read you enjoyed the post. Yes now is the time to be extra kind.

Nov 04, 2024 10:15 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Thank you Leanne for some calm sanity before the storm. This has been a tumultuous election and I for one will be glad when its over! It will be the time to be kind and MOVE ON!

Nov 04, 2024 04:56 PM
Leanne Smith

I too will be glad and praying our Republic will survive after this election.

Nov 05, 2024 04:54 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Leanne- it is often hard to reach down and bring out our kindness but we need to. We are a good people living in tough times. 

Nov 04, 2024 06:44 PM
Leanne Smith

Yes we are good people living in tough times as did our ancestors. That toughness was often more physical than what we are experiencing today IMHO.

Nov 05, 2024 04:54 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Excellent post and I find it that often people confuse kindness with weakness. I try to be kind most of the time and there are times when people perceive it as a weakness, little do they know that there is an Airborne Ranger Infantry Captain behind the kindness....Endre

Nov 04, 2024 08:18 PM
Leanne Smith

Your comment made me smile and thank you for bringing forth that perception of kindness may be perceived as weakness. 

Nov 05, 2024 04:49 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Being kind is the only way to go in my book and if I can't be kind to someone then I don't want to be around them, haha.

Nov 05, 2024 01:41 AM
Leanne Smith

I am not surprised by your comment Brian England  as you have been kind since our first interaction.

Nov 05, 2024 04:53 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you, Leanne Smith, for sharing such thought-provoking insights about the power of kindness, especially during challenging times like elections. Your reflections remind me of the importance of fostering understanding and warmth in our daily interactions.

Nov 05, 2024 04:22 AM
Leanne Smith

You are more than welcome Lew Corcoran 

Nov 05, 2024 04:53 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Leanne... if you really think about it for a bit, it's not all that hard to be kind. And once you start, it's easy to be kind.

Nov 05, 2024 05:30 AM
Leanne Smith

And the wisdom continues from Active Rain members, thank you Nina Hollander, Broker 

Nov 05, 2024 05:38 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Leanne Smith

Nov 05, 2024 05:40 AM
Ralph Gorgoglione
Metro Life Homes - Palm Springs, CA
California and Hawaii Real Estate (310) 497-9407

It's exponentially important to convey kindness.  And Presidential candidates need to be aware of that.  Name-calling certainly doesn't exude kindness.

Nov 06, 2024 01:21 AM
Leanne Smith

I agree name calling from anyone is counter productive and even more accusations are equally harmful.

Nov 06, 2024 11:48 AM