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Wordless Wednesday - November 6, 2024

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Take time to practice thinking clearly. Clear thinking involves trusting the only person you have to correct is yourself. It is an essential cornerstone of self-respect. Self-respect is strengthened when we take the necessary time and energy to monitor our own negative thoughts about others and stop believing in gossip. There was a book I read about a decade or more ago. The premise was to ask yourself, is that true? 

 

Self-respect grows when we recognize that believing everything we read digitally, hear through mouthpieces and talking heads on the media or social media, may not be true. Make a decision to stop believing everything that isn't any of your business and to learn to mind your own. 2024 has taught me, not even paid and elected Judges are always right.   

 

Working hard to convince others you are right, and others are wrong or have wronged you, is not a psychologically healthy way of living. Negative thoughts, comments, or stories about others don't belong in public. There isn't enough time on earth to waste time believing you are right and most likely everyone else is wrong. We need to see ourselves for who we are - People. Not gods. These are my reflections after the election. I began taking Yoga classes about a year ago. It is very helpful in putting things into proper perspective. 

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PATRICIA FEAGER, REALTOR®
DFW FINE PROPERTIES
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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Patricia. Timely post the day after the election. May we now come together and move forward. Enjoy your day.

Nov 06, 2024 05:09 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Wayne Martin - Amen...

Nov 06, 2024 05:14 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

A wordless Wednesday that's really wordless! Love it!

Nov 06, 2024 05:11 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Kat Palmiotti - thank you. 

Wishing you peace this week and more. 

Nov 06, 2024 05:15 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Amen!  Now that the elections are over maybe the brains will get back to taking care of business.

Nov 06, 2024 05:38 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 - Yes. And let there be peace on earth, and let it begin with me. 

Nov 06, 2024 05:38 AM
Bill Salvatore - East Valley
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

We need to make this our focus now, great information. Thanks for sharing it.

Have a super fantastic week!

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Nov 06, 2024 06:12 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Bill Salvatore - East Valley - Time to turn a new leaf in life. 

I'm glad you liked it. May life be good for you and all!

Nov 06, 2024 06:14 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Patricia, here’s to coming together and making progress from now on!

Nov 06, 2024 06:23 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Thanks Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 for your comment. There's so much more we can learn to do together rather than apart. 

Peace!

Nov 06, 2024 06:27 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Hi Patricia... I'm afraid that for a very long time our education system has not been teaching kids how to think critically... and that's what leads to people being dependent on the opinions of others.

Nov 06, 2024 06:45 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Nina Hollander, Broker - in grade school I had 8 years of Common Courtesy. In High School I had 4 years of learning self-servant leadership. In my first year of College, I had a full semester on Thinking Critically. All of those years of education formed my foundation. 

Primary grades, high school, and beyond need a complete overhaul.

I am very lucky in my second year of current adult education taught by old school Professors.  It is very sad when children and young adults are not getting critical thinking, ethics, and morality in schools. 

 

Nov 06, 2024 06:55 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP I totally agree, Patricia. Just not sanguine that changes in our education system will happen any time soon.

Nov 06, 2024 09:50 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Patricia,

I knew you would have a healing post for us the day after the elections. Thank you..the American voices have been heard loud and clear and we need to move on make progress for our country!

Nov 06, 2024 08:24 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Dorie Dillard Austin TX 

Thank you. I hope it was healing. Rather than shake a finger or turn away from people we disagree with, it's time to be disciplined. Practice forgiveness and admit when you're wrong. We can do this by trying harder to separate facts and realities and to be more sensitive to others by simply listening. Also, we must never give up on building stronger relationships. Henry Wadsworth Longfellow once noted: "Perseverance is a great element of success."

Nov 06, 2024 08:45 AM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

lol...Patricia, I have found self examination leads to me beating myself up pretty good.  lmao.  Getting better, at getting back up, but the beating myself up continues most of the time.  I have come to understand and accept it for what it is and keep getting better.  Today for example is so much better than the turmoil I was in yesterday.  Much thinking thru things involved, along to coming to conclusions I feel best moving forward.  m

Nov 06, 2024 09:47 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho - Self-awareness begins the path to wholeness and understanding. It takes a lot of practice to have compassion for us and to stop beating ourselves up. I wish you peace of heart. 

Nov 06, 2024 04:42 PM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

I have been doing a lot of praying in the last few days Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP as my mind has been very overloaded with worry about a friend. Today I finally have peace as I truly turned it over to God.

Nov 06, 2024 01:23 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Bob "RealMan" Timm - You must be a good friend to worry about your friend. When I feel overwhelmed, I surrender to the Almighty. 

Lord, have mercy. 

Nov 06, 2024 04:44 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Peaceful transfer of power.  Peaceful transfer of power.  The country has been torn apart in this last election cycle.  Peaceful transfer of power.  It's a basic tenet of a peace filled country.  

Nov 06, 2024 04:49 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Myrl Jeffcoat - Thank you for your thoughtful comment that is sure to resonate with everyone. 

Nov 07, 2024 04:27 AM
1~Judi Barrett
Integrity Real Estate Services 116 SE AVE N, Idabel, OK 74745 - Idabel, OK
BS Ed, Integrity Real Estate Services -IDABEL OK

Good evening Patricia! I am hopeful that everyone finds something that helps them have peace in their lives.  For me, it's walking and reflecting, reading the right books and prayer.  Our nation needs citizens that do inner exams and ask why someone wants to say what they are saying or do what they are doing.  Asking the whys always helps me sort things out.  I despise gossip or hurtful talk!

Nov 06, 2024 05:18 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

1~Judi Barrett - that old saying, it's my way or the highway, doesn't result in peace; nor does it foster hope for the future. Your method for getting through difficult times, such as "walking and reflecting, reading the right books and prayer," has worked for generations before us, our own generation, and does help put things into perspective. 

Some ask why? Others say why not. Coming together is a winning combination. 

Thanks, Judi for your comment. It's wonderful to see you back on AR today. 

Nov 07, 2024 04:33 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Patricia there was a time not long ago that we could trust what main steam media reported, however, that is not the case anymore.

Nov 07, 2024 03:24 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

George Souto - Fond memories of the greatest journalist I can remember:

David Brinkley

Walter Cronkite 

Tom Brokow

Howard Cosell

Peter Jennings

Ted Koppel

Mike Royko

Barbara Walters

 

Nov 07, 2024 03:54 PM