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🌈Gratitude In The Circles🌞

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Real Estate Agent with Big Block LPT Realty 858.232.8722 CA BRE# 01261476

Gratitude for Active Rain: A November Challenge 3/4

This November, I’m taking on the Active Rain gratitude challenge, which invites us to share four gratitude posts throughout the month. 

I’m incredibly grateful for the training I’ve pursued over the last 30 years. Without the benefit of finishing college—life suddenly required me to earn a living early—I’ve instead invested in myself by hiring coaches and taking classes from my 20s to now, in my 50s.

One of the most impactful lessons I learned was in 1999 during Buffini & Company  coaching: The Five Circles of Life. This framework breaks life into five essential categories:

  • Spiritual: Your faith, religion, beliefs, meditation practices, acts of giving back, etc.
  • Family: Your marriage, children, relationships, kinships, and friendships.
  • Business: Everything related to earning a living—your work, job, career, and roles.
  • Financial: Your income, savings, budgeting, investing, and tithing.
  • Personal: Supporting your physical and mental health, hobbies, and personal interests.

These five circles serve as the foundation for setting goals and maintaining a daily connection to them, keeping your awareness aligned on a daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly, and yearly basis. Breaking these goals into actionable steps and incorporating them into your daily schedule ensures you stay aligned with your priorities, passions, and potential. It’s a powerful system that keeps you focused and prevents you from drifting away from what truly matters.

The beauty of this exercise and daily habit lies in its flexibility—it’s a framework entirely tailored to your life, your goals, and your journey. You have the privilege of designing it, but also the responsibility of working it. It's not about balance, there's no such thing in The Circles; it's about harmony! So, my friends, design a life worth living! It's A Good Life!

 

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Thomas J. Nelson
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Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much for sharing some of your personal experience. I posted your blog on X.

Nov 18, 2024 09:59 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I like how the 5 circles are entwined with one another.  And, your top photo is enchanting!

Nov 18, 2024 11:04 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

CONGRATULATIONS Thomas, on having this blog FEATURED in the Old Farts Clubgroup!  

Nov 18, 2024 11:13 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Thanks for sharing, designing our lives allows us to live a life well lived when we look back.

Nov 18, 2024 12:33 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you, Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, ePRO, for sharing your inspiring journey and the valuable lessons from the Five Circles of Life. Your reflections on gratitude and personal growth remind me of the importance of continually investing in myself and aligning my goals with what truly matters.

Nov 18, 2024 02:17 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Oh yes Thomas keeping the 5 circles in mind every single day can bring about incredible success in every part of our life!

Nov 18, 2024 03:59 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Thomas - I believe there is a interconnectedness and interrelatedness to life so your post fits nicely.  It also builds on it.  And that's important as learning continues.  

Nov 19, 2024 03:00 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I'm a big fan of the 5-circles as well, TJ! I have also taught it in the Buffini classes as a facilitator/moderator. Building on that foundation is key to success in personal, spiritual and business life.

Dec 02, 2024 06:49 AM