Giving Thanks Part II: Memories

Hello Carol - grief can be difficult.  While there can be similarities between those grieving, it is not universal.  Like change and evolution of many kinds, hopefully each impacted by such sorrow discovers the way that works best for them.   

Good morning Carol,

You have come a long way and I love your tribute to Max. You are right it does get better if you work through your grief and move forward. Focusing on the wonderful memories, and not the loss is a key takeaway.  

Good morning, Carol. I don't think we ever get over "missing" a loved one like, Max. But we do move on, the pain lessens, and we can focus on the good memories. You've come a long way in the past 12+ years and I, for one, am delighted that your life is again a happy life.

I think that you are correct, I believe I have heard about Max each and every year and I am glad he was in your life!

Good morning Carol. I lost my father at 20 and have had to live with the memories and not the loss for many years. It does become easier with the passage of time but it is not an easy process. Enjoy your day. 

Thank you very much, Carol, for sharing some of your very special memories.

Carol, Forever thankful to those who have dedicated themselves in service to our country. They are all worthy of our honor and remembrance including Max!

Reading this post Carol Williams:

You are truly blessed in so many ways. Not everyone gets to experience the kind of love and the depth of love you had with Max. 

When it comes time to give gifts (Birthday, Christmas, etc.) I prefer to do something, spend time together, and create a memory that will last a lifetime. Memories in life are the real gifts, the real treasures.  

Carol I have been married for 50 years, and if the day ever comes that my wife goes before me, I hope and pray I can find the peace of mind you have found.

Carol- you were blessed as many of us have been. Not everyone can say that. I look at your life and admire and marvel at how you've moved through the years since your loss. We never forget, and we never get over it. 

Hi Carol:

What a wonderful post of thanks for Max. I'm so glad your sadness has evolved into happy memories and contentment with your life.

Jeff

It's such a blessing that you experienced the love of a lifetime. It is also a blessing that you have such wonderful memories and have been able to move beyond the paralyzing grief that I'm sure you must have felt in the beginning. You've come a long way, baby! 

Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful post in this month's challenge. 

Carol, so nice to read you are again content in life, and you do have all those wonderful memories with Max.

My dear friend Carol,

Love is eternal. Your post brought me solace, a connection to Max's spirit watching over you. Today, he guides you towards a life filled with meaning and purpose.

Your love song in memory of him is truly precious. Thank you for sharing this heartfelt story.

Carol, you are fortunate to have had Max in your life.  I am sure you are grateful for that, and the memories those days created.

What a wonderful post.   I can certainly understand that grief seems to be everlasting, but eventually happy memories surface more frequently.  He looks like a true gem and I bet you had some wonderful times!  Hugs Carol!

Good morning Carol Williams.  You are such a precious and special person.  Your post really touched me this morning and I am sorry I have missed them in the past.  It is such a blessing to find a once in a lifetime love.  I loved the song you dedicated.  I wasn't ready for such a beautiful post this morning but so thankful I read it.  This is the way I feel about my husband Jim. In fact, my nickname for him is Gem because he is so precious to me and I am so thankful for him.  May the Lord continue to bless you as you continue to bless each and every one of us.  Have a beautiful rest of your week!

Love your tribute to Max.  You are fortunate to have spent time with your soulmate.  Look at you now a traveling nomad who golfs at every opportunity GF

Carol Williams  Your Max is so proud of you. The true gift of this kind  of love is being so  darn thankful for what we had. So appreciative of the many years together and for recognizing that love  through our memories. And Max is just loving your song and you!!   And me too.