What is presented or shared should be what it is i.e. what you mean, know & understand. Why would I have upfront, in advance attitude that causes me to doubt, confuse or hesitate when something is presented to me? Listening to what is said, and not reacting, allows a greater force to kick in that will either support or question, what is taking place. Allow this & here's why
THE TRUTH HOLDS ITS OWN
When I hear someone speak or something is pitched or presented to me, I do not go into the judge mode but the listening mode instead. The truth holds its own with little or no effort. It even stands firm when questioned or challenged as well. My ear, focus & respect goes to work when someone else is speaking/sharing etc.
WORTHY NOTE: Do not let doubt creep in. Instead, seek daylight & objectivity
HIGH MAINTENANCE GIVES IT AWAY
It's the lie, the stretch or the less than truth that falls apart every single time. If you listen, you will see it & hear it for yourself. It may appear as an inconsistency, a half-truth or a hidden event or purpose. It weaves a web to confuse or confound. That takes effort and the effort should give it away every single time. Simplicity works!
THE ONE WHO WON'T KEEP QUIET
The one who keeps doing the most talking is usually suspect. Telling someone what happened without emphasis or opinion is something the courts insist on & hold people accountable to. Tell what happened and not your version of it either. People have a hard time doing this if they are adding or taking away from what actually took place...Slanting, distortion & manipulation are not allowed
CAVEAT: people who insist on their story, & you hearing it while they try to get it pass you by getting you, to accept their version, are being willful & pedaling deception. Don't confuse this with a person telling or explaining what happened
DON'T BE RECRUITED or ENROLLED
It is wise to consider that we are dealing with human nature dynamics & NOT so much the person who is caught up in it all. People want help but instead, insist on support for their circumstances. This is a common mistake. Beware of tainting & being tainted. The temptation to make people in our own image is an evil ploy.
GETTING IT ALL OUT
Whether it is a trauma, emergency, complaint or a quarrel, people need to get it out & whether it is truthful, real or accurate, we will get to that. When that time comes, questions & answers never fail to add clarity or expose more of the event.
THAT'S RIDICULOUS (I'm thinking)
I have heard some wild tales, stories, testimonies & reports that after listening, fail in my presence. Instead of adding fuel to the fire, I choose my words if comment is warranted. I am having trouble believing this & what you are saying. There must be more to it OR going on. Credibility is no myth & has a strong say so. I support this
A CATCH-ALL RESPONSE
After hearing someone out, & finding out they are not open to receive or explore or are testing the limits of patience & credibility, I have simply said: Well, what do you want to do or expect to have come out of all this. Sometimes I have to repeat that
WORTHY NOTE: I have had many people come up to me & request that they can share saying: I DON'T WANT YOUR COMMENTS, I just want to share. I comply
WHEN I HEAR YOU
I believe anyone until they give me a reason not to. Prior to that reason, I ask a lot of questions. Prior to the questions, I listen and observe. Prior to that, I am just going about my business. And even before that...I trust you until you prove otherwise
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