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I Give Thanks Year-Round for My Blessings

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Real Estate Agent with DFW FINE PROPERTIES 0506509

This is my 4th and final entry for the 2024 Thanksgiving Challenge hosted by the illustrious Debe Maxwell, CRS

"My cup runneth over."  Psalm 23:5

 

St. Stanislaus Kostka Parish is where my parents were married, and I was baptized. This is where I received my High School diploma, and in front of the altar exchanged my marriage vows. The serenity of faith blanketed me since I was an infant, later growing up into a woman having children, gave my soul happiness. For these and many other reasons, I am thankful and blessed. 


Happiness can be multiplied throughout our lives. To achieve goals and learn life lessons, there are challenges and adversities. Spanning the spectrum of my existence I learned about faith, family, truth, integrity, loyalty, responsibilities, friendship, but most of all, I discovered love is the greatest gift of all. I remain grateful for my humble beginnings. 


In school I learned Latin and one year of Spanish. I served as President for the Mission Club, played on the Freshman and Sophomore Volleyball Team, had four years of typing and Shorthand, did lots of library research, and was one of several journalists for the High School newsletter. As a studious honor student, l I was engaged in a deep apperception including curiosity. I am thankful I had opportunities to broaden my mind and belong to a parish where I was able to grow and learn to think.


Education is what I take seriously. No matter what schools I attend, or how many classes I take, or how many years I sign up for classes, each one is the same. It is like going to the well to draw water, always thirsting for knowledge. Sincerely, I love school and can't get enough education. I am thankful for excellent teachers and instructors.


The joy of being a mother began a few days before Christmas when I labored for 13 1/2 hours to deliver a beautiful baby girl. My gift was a baby wrapped in swaddling clothes. Later, I was blessed with a beautiful son. Although he was premature, he was born just after Valentines Day. The touch, smell, sight, and feelings of holding a child and giving birth, in my opinion, are the greatest gifts and reasons to be thankful.

 

Living and earning an income is a necessity and meeting new people are exciting. I will never stop learning. However, financially 2024 was the hardest year ever, since becoming a REALTOR®. Where I go from here, is not determined. Between school and ActiveRain, I find constant joy. I am thankful I am not a quitter and so grateful for Kerrie La Guardia who I reached out to after meeting vendors at a REALTOR® Conference. Kerrie provided guidance and I signed up. She was the reason why I drove to Houston that year to attend RainCamp. Kerrie was the first person I met at the registration/check in table. I was so grateful to her and all the first-time colleagues and Leaders I met at RainCamp. When I began blogging and receiving comments, I felt like I belonged to something GREAT! Having a sense of belonging has always been important to me. For now, I am hopeful and thankful.

 

Giving thanks for ActiveRain is worth its weight in gold.


Over the years, I've learned the ebbs and flows of followers and departure of unfollowers, close and not so close friends, and deceased ones too, and of course there is success and failure. My constant mantra is, "Lord, help me to accept the things I cannot change, and to change the things I can." In life there are many opportunities to join different types of groups, but the longest one I've been involved in is ActiveRain. I learned a lot from each of you. Being a REALTOR® improved my technology and building relationships.  Helping others and receiving support helps me to feel a good sense of belonging. Until I decide, what's next, I give thanks. 

 

I am especially thankful for my family, the clients I served, repeat clients, and my Flower Mound and AR community. On ActiveRain, I am most grateful for those behind the scenes. You know, the invisible support from  ActiveRain Member Support. I can't see them. I can't say I know them. But I am thankful. This is my final entry for the 2024 Thanksgiving Challenge. Here are some of the people from my family, community, former clients, workshops I attended, and others on AR that I am very grateful for coming into my life:

Julian, active Vet/Buyer. Graduating from Flower Mound Citizens Police Academy. 

 

Meeting up with CRS Rainers in Texas.    Spending quality time with Sharon Parisi.

Many closings with the Hanson's.  Meeting up with Kat Palmiotti in Montana.

Many closings with Melissa & Jeff, attending their wedding, being introduced to their first-born son and their adopted daughter.

Spending quality time with Vernice "Flygirl" Armour, decorated naval aviator, Camp Pendleton's 2001 Female Athlete of the Year and Strongest Warrior Winner, and Author of "Zero to Breakthrough."

 

   

Meeting local people.   Serving newlyweds buying new construction; later selling/ buying with a Nebraska CRS Referral; and meeting their first child.

Meeting Rebekah Gregory, Boston Marathon Bomber Survivor after losing a leg on April 15, 2013, while invited to give a speech in Flower Mound, Texas.

 

    

Spending quality time with my granddaughter. Getting worldly news about my daughter's achievements and visiting with my son and his family.

Meeting Debe Maxwell, CRS and Lisa Von Domek in Grapevine, Texas.

 

A night out with friends and authors from Kalispell, MT, attending RainCamp in Houston, meeting men at the Barber Shop in McKinney, Texas, and meeting a fine young man representing Old Republic Protection at a TX REALTOR® Conference.

 

 

 

Hiking with my daughter & son-in-law in the Swiss Alps. Having fun with my son and daughter-in-law with never ending laughter, visiting my godchild and her fiancé in WI, being able to know I was part of a book club and visiting Granbury, TX with Sally (now deceased) and friend Carina who is in my present book club in Flower Mound from Belgium. 

 

Feeling like a family friend of clients with children.

       

Meet-up in San Antonio, TX.              Meet-up in Addison, TX.

 

RainCamp Badge.  Lisa with Jerry Newman. Paula, Jerry, and myself in San Antonio.

Meeting new writers at Writer's Retreat in Tennessee.   Meet-up in Dallas.

 

Meet up with Greg Nino                  Celebration of International Women's Day.

 

Having fun with little troopers who had a father or mother serving in the Military. Something I enjoyed a lot was welcoming our Troops at DFW International Airport after 9/11. I served on the ALC at KW and coordinated agents from the office to come with me to welcome our troops home once a month for years. I met the soldier in the bottom right of the collage years later. She is a remarkable soldier, a published author and public speaker. Serving Veterans gives me the greatest joy.

 

I will ALWAYS give thanks to our Military and Soldiers who serve. They ARE America's BEST!

RIP Jerry Feager

 

ActiveRain has been quite a journey. I remember a post I wrote in 2014 November Closes With Special Thanks to AR Friends. The sentiments today are still the same as those I wrote years ago. 

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PATRICIA FEAGER, REALTOR®
DFW FINE PROPERTIES
3575 LONE STAR CIRCLE SUITE 315
FORT WORTH, TEXAS 76177

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MBA (University of Dallas)
BA
(Bachelors of Arts & Science)
Paralegal (Southeastern Career Institute)
Associates (3) (College of Lake County)
KU (University of Kansas)

CERTIFICATIONS

CRS (Certified Residential Specialist)
SRES (Certified Senior Residential Specialist)
PSA (Certified Pricing Strategies; Mastering the CMA)
CRS (Certified Military Relocation Specialist)
RENE (Real Estte Negotitions Expert)

"With self-discipline most anything is possible." --- Theodore Roosevelt 

 

 

 

  

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Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Good Morning, Patricia. It was truly a fun and memorable occasion we had in that restaurant on the River Walk that year with you and Paula. I am thankful for your friendship over all these years. Happy Thanksgiving!

Nov 25, 2024 05:46 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Jerry Newman - You made that TX REALTORS Conference special and fun! It truly was memorable and it's all because of YOU!

Likewise, I am thankful for our years of friendship! Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family!

Nov 25, 2024 06:35 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

What a wonderful post, Patricia! And I totally loved all the photos you included. So many smiling faces put a smile on my face. Your attitude to life is an inspiration to all of us who know you.

Nov 25, 2024 06:40 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Awe, thanks Nina Hollander, Broker - When we give a smile or someone gives us a smile, there's something like sunshine that radiates within. 

I appreciate your comment so much!

Nov 25, 2024 07:19 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Patricia those are very special memories, and much to be thankful for.  Your story is not over yet, you still have many more special memories to make.

Nov 25, 2024 07:11 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

George Souto - This part really stuck like glue, and I'll remember forever: 

"Your story is not over yet, you still have many more special memories to make." 

I trust you're right and I am giving you thanks for your years of support and kindness throughout the years on ActiveRain. 

Thank you, George.

Nov 25, 2024 07:24 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

What a wonderful post, I feel the gratitude flowing through my computer as I see all those photos of people with whom you have connected and helped. Great job. Last year 2023 was my worst year, this year has been much better. Sometimes you just have to keep going, through the storm to better days.

Nov 25, 2024 08:27 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 - You're the best! Although 2023 wasn't what you hoped for, I am happy 2024 was much better. 

Comments like yours gives me even more positive energy.

Thank you! I hope you and Anne have something good planned for Thanksgiving and may your Thanksgiving meals be delicious. 

Nov 25, 2024 05:03 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543

I just saw the Flower Mound Marching Band

Nov 28, 2024 10:37 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Patricia,
It's wonderful that you've been able to attend so many meet-ups. I wasn't able to do those in the early days. My work and full-time caregiving duties precluded that. My road trips have been a very satisfactory replacement.

Nov 25, 2024 09:29 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Carol Williams -We do, what we can do. Your epic road trips these past few years have made up for what you couldn't do previously.

I do know what it is like to be a caregiver and how many sacrifices are made. Loved ones are not replacement, at least that's true for me. 

Nov 25, 2024 05:01 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much for sharing some of your personal story.

Enjoy the holidays and carefully make your plans for a productive 2025.

Nov 25, 2024 11:21 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Roy Kelley - I hope you enjoy the holidays and all of Dolores' carefully made meals for Thanksgiving. 

You have a lot to be thankful for and I appreciate you!

Nov 25, 2024 04:59 PM
Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

I love this post.  thanks for sharing

 

 

Nov 25, 2024 11:27 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Awe, thank you Ginger Harper. I appreciate your very sweet comments.

May you have a very Happy Thanksgiving. 

Nov 25, 2024 04:57 PM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

Congratulations on the feature and thank you for sharing the gratitude in your life.

Nov 25, 2024 11:56 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Leanne Smith - Thank you for your congratulations. Coming from you, it means a lot. 

I am wishing you and your loved ones a very Happy Thanksgiving. Also, thanks for being a part of ActiveRain. You contribute a lot. 

Nov 25, 2024 04:57 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you, Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP, for sharing your heartfelt journey of gratitude and growth within the community. Your reflections on faith, family, and the joy of learning beautifully remind us of the many blessings that shape our lives.

Nov 25, 2024 01:36 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Lew Corcoran - What a very nice comment. You are 100% correct, there really are "many blessings that shape our lives!"

Thank you!!!

Nov 25, 2024 04:55 PM
ActiveRain Member Support
Seattle, WA

 We are happy to be of assistance!  Thanks for the mention!

Nov 25, 2024 04:25 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

ActiveRain Member Support - If it wasn't for your support, there would be no ActiveRain.

I remain very grateful.

Thank you. 

Nov 25, 2024 04:54 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Patricia- your posts have always been filled with your deep love of life and your sincere interest in those around you. I can tell from the many years I've been reading your blog that you take it seriously when you put your thoughts down to share with us. And I appreciate your commitment to not just "phoning in" a comment. Your comments show that you've given each post the respect it deserves.  And for that I thank you. 

Nov 25, 2024 05:32 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Kathy Streib - yours is one of the most important comments I have read that touched me to the core. On the day I was told live each day as if it was your last, I took it seriously. The only thing I am ever sure of is today. Life holds no guarantees. Whatever comes my way, I take seriously, and I never want to be cheated out of life. When I work, I push myself to the optimum speed of capacity and hope I am doing what others really want out of me. When I read other blog posts, I'm analyzing, evaluating, and embracing the good that is squeezed out and put in writing. I really appreciate authenticity. And yes, you surmised correctly, I do my best to give each post I read "the respect it deserves," each time I leave a comment. 

Thank you. May your Thanksgiving Day be a blessing to you and your family.

Nov 25, 2024 07:50 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Patricia,

Congratulations on a well deserved featured post! Love all the wonderful photos and your message of gratitude shines through in every facet of your life. You are a blessing to all of us here in Active Rain! ❤️

Nov 25, 2024 06:07 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Dorie Dillard Austin TX - Thank you. You're a dear. Reading your posts, especially involving your family always send a clear message. Love one another. And you and your family are truly blessed. The grands are just Grand!

I always appreciate your comments and understanding. 

Nov 25, 2024 07:53 PM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Patricia, Having Faith helps me deal with the challenges of Life.  I've been blessed in many ways, and in the big scheme, any issues I have are mostly in the minor inconveniences category. 

ActiveRain has been a big part of my life for quite a few years.  I've gotten to know a lot of people (meet a fair number in person) and other than the occasional prickly pear type person, this place is far and away a place that brings me enjoyment and learning.  Maybe now that the engineering job is off my plate, I'll have more free time to read and comment :)

Nov 25, 2024 07:42 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Liz and Bill Spear - When we start on ActiveRain, we are kind of like kernels put into a popcorn machine. When that first person comments, it's like the sound you hear when the first kernel pops! And suddenly, there is a lot of popping going on and as long as people keep popping fresh ideas, giving congratulations, and showing interest; we enjoy people, as if each one is a blessed piece of popcorn! We simply, can't get enough.

As the years go by, we start to notice an "occasional prickly pear type," and we scratch our head, and wonder what happened? What went wrong? What did I miss? 

The truth is all we really want is a mix of good cheer, smiles, and positive energy because everyone is learning and having fun. At the end of the day, I just want to relax, write, read, or learn something interesting. And I want more ideas that are as good as fresh popcorn!

As we prepare for this year's Thanksgiving, let us count our blessings. Have you noticed, there is inertia in mixed emotions? Personally, I want to stay financially stable and not worry about how things that are outside of my control will impact my future. And so, I promise myself, I will keep the faith and believe, something better can't begin, until I let go. And I wish the same for you.

Nov 25, 2024 08:26 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh my gosh, I read this earlier today and got lost in your photos and ran out of time to comment!! LOL

PATRICIA, you are a rockstar! I love that you have met so many here in the Rain and I love even more that I was one of them!! That was such a fabulous day in Dallas in 2018 that I will never forget.

Okay, so other comments about your post - who knew we were so much alike in high school?! I think we would most definitely have been fast friends there too. I was all about volunteerism and worked on the newsletter and the yearbook as well. I played volleyball (and basketball and ran track) but, I was obsessed and did it for all 4 years! LOL

I enjoyed foreign language and took Spanish & French (instead of Latin). My grandmother was a Latin teacher (she taught 4 other languages as well but, I never took the time to learn Latin)!

I will forever be grateful for having taken 4 years of typing because of how much time we spend on our computers in our business now. I don't know about you but, I also took Home Economics and truly enjoyed learning how to sew. I love that we were rare breeds - we were geeky athletes and definitely an anomaly for which I am SOOOOO very thankful. I don't know about you but, that shaped my life.

Thank you for another awesome entry in this month's challenge! 😘

Nov 25, 2024 09:37 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Debe Maxwell, CRS - Thank you for making ActiveRain members feel so welcome and important. Meeting you when you came to Dallas was a very special experience that I won't forget. What I love most is that you consistently show others respect and there is never any doubt when it comes to integrity. 

What you shared about your High School experiences were so interesting. You remind me of Margo, a friend I had from kindergarten through senior year of HS. She was always much taller than me and we remained friends, never worried about height because there were so many things we had in common. We were kindred spirits and that's how I feel about you too. 

You're such a good person and someone I look up to, not just because of your height but because of how you treat people with respect. It would be so much fun to meet up with you again. My life here on AR has been great because of people like you. 

Nov 25, 2024 10:22 PM
Alan May
Jameson Sotheby's International Realty - Evanston, IL
Home again, home again...

Patricia - this is such a warm and wonderful "feel good" kinda post.  It was a pleasure to read through.  And it so mirrors the experiences of many of our members.  It's so clear the warmth and wonder that you've brought to the platform with your love and happiness it's just a true pleasure to read.  Keep up the good work, and thank you for your contribution to the platform.  It's people like you that make Active Rain the truly joyful place that it is.

Nov 26, 2024 03:31 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Good morning, Alan May - I woke up and the first thing I read was your comment. It was as if I was a kid all over again and I woke up on Christmas morning, discovering Santa left me a big Teddy Bear. All I wanted to do was hug you and say, thank you.

You have made ActiveRain a very interesting platform and I thank you!

Nov 26, 2024 05:15 AM
Alan May

If I made you smile, then my job here is done.

Nov 26, 2024 12:07 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Alan May - Thank you! Sending you a virtual hug to remember!

 

Nov 26, 2024 07:46 PM
Carla Freund
Keller Williams Preferred Realty - Raleigh, NC
NC Real Estate Transition & Relocation 919-602-848

Patricia, what a beautiful tribute! And wow, your church is stunning. I love that you've had faith all your life. It seems you don't take it for granted and are still humble and grateful. You have been blessed indeed! Here's to many more blessings. Happy Thanksgiving!

Nov 26, 2024 05:19 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Carla Freund - Hello! That Church celebrated its centennial in my freshman year. I learned the history and realized the reasons why it was so valuable to the people in the community. The church still exists today. Faith was woven into my soul and it's there to stay. I could never take anyone or anything for granted. That is who I am. I wish you many blessings, good health to you and your family, and life worth living with joy and happiness.

Thank you, Carla. May you have a wonderful Thanksgiving and a day to celebrate with loved ones.  

Nov 26, 2024 06:11 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Patricia, I couldn’t agree more. No matter what goes on anywhere else, there are so many things to keep me grounded and feeling somuch gratitude. :)

Nov 26, 2024 09:07 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Laura Cerrano - When you're grounded and you know it, there is love and joy.

Happy Thanksgiving to you!

Nov 27, 2024 07:11 AM
Katina Hargrove 352-551-0308
Stake Your Land Realty, Inc. - Eustis, FL
Broker/Owner, SFR®, e-PRO®, GRI, AHWD, REALTOR®

Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP 

What a lovely post, may the Lord continue to bless you always:) Katina

Nov 29, 2024 05:32 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Katina Hargrove 352-551-0308 - May the Lord bless you always too. Your comments are always appreciated.

Thank you!

Dec 01, 2024 01:14 AM
Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

Wow. You put a lot of time into this Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP and excellent post. Loved the recap of your life, love, family and experiences in this telescopic blog that covers a lot of ground, time.

Nov 30, 2024 04:00 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573 - I think that is the highest compliment you ever paid to me and for that I am grateful. Thank you for your friendship over the years on ActiveRain. 

Dec 01, 2024 01:15 AM