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Grateful for our young men and women who serve

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It has been 18 years since my son shared a video about one of his friends who had died on the last few days of their deployment in Iraq. I cry every time I watch this video as I see these young men who put their lives at risk for our country. My son Jeremy was asked to put together a video for the memorial service they held for his unit. He found it very hard to do as this was one of his best friends. But, he handled it and I think the finished product tells his story. Please take the time to watch it all the way through, even if it makes you cry. I usually post this on Memorial Day as a reminder that it is not just about hot dogs and beer. This year I decided to do something a little different.

 

Let us never forget the sacrifice these young men and their families make for us. I am forever grateful for men and women who continue to serve their country and please remember many of our armed forces are people from other countries who hope that their service will lead them to citizenship.

My son carries the names of several friends who died, upon his body in a tattoo. Every tattoo has a meaning to him. I am grateful for meeting all these young men who were so impressive in their service, focused on their jobs and dedicated to protecting their fellow Marines.

If you want to know more about my son's service, you can order his book via Amazon, Kicking Ave Taking Names by Jeremy Vandekar, it is a good read, I discovered many stories with its pages that he had never shared with us till he wrote the book. Below is a video he made about the book.

Many of these young men and women do not feel like heroes, they believe the heroes are the ones who gave their lives or were injured in action. Thank you for reading, watching and being grateful for these young men and women who serve our country in every service.

This is my third entry to the November Challenge.

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Nick Vandekar
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh, what a beautiful memory Jeremy shared via the video, Nick. The end was so very hard to watch, knowing that Chris gave his life to be sure that his entire team arrived home safely. I must check out Jeremy's book (great video intro to the book also). 

We can never voice our gratitude enough for these men & women (AND their families) who give so much of themselves for our liberties. Like Chris, many give their lives for our dreams and freedoms. Every day should be a celebration of our servicemen & women. Every day.

Thank you so much for sharing this, Nick.

Nov 21, 2024 05:55 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

Thank you for your service and instilling it in your children.  I read an article this week that said our country is now protected by less than 4% or the population.  We all take the freedom forgranted but without soldiers we will not have the security we all enjoy.

Nov 21, 2024 06:15 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Wow! Very powerful. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. Each and every Veteran deserves our utmost respect and sincere, "thank you's". This was a very brave video for him to do and I was so moved to the core.

Nov 21, 2024 07:28 AM
Sam Shueh
(408) 425-1601 - San Jose, CA
mba, cdpe, reopro, pe

We are truly thankful that our soldiers are guarding our safety and soon boarders.

Sam Shueh

Nov 21, 2024 07:52 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP he had promised his mother he would write a book, he had written lots of emails which she kept and that formed the basis for the book, then his therapist suggested writing things down might help him process the events and thus the book was set in motion. It is a good book, although I might be biased.

Debe Maxwell, CRS I find it so hard to watch as I knew so many of these young men.

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 I did not realize it was that small a number. 

Dr. Paula McDonald thank you, I know it was very hard for him, and the guys in the video as well. They did a great job honoring one of their own.

Sam Shueh I am glad to hear that.

Nov 21, 2024 09:53 AM
Doug Rogers
RE/MAX Coastal Properties - Destin, FL
Your Real Estate Resource!

One of my student, Rob Sweeney, paid the ultimate price for our country. God bless him and all the others!

Nov 21, 2024 11:14 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Doug Rogers I am sorry to hear that, any loss of life is hard to bear. I know my son lost several friends on his first deployment and it really impacted him.

Nov 21, 2024 11:31 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Absolutely Thankful for these people! There are so much braver than I could ever be. Thank you thank you!

Nov 21, 2024 09:59 PM
Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

So Young... makes it even sadder. These young men who gave their lives for the freedom some cherish and some take for granted are indeed heroes we should never forget. We should not forget the soldiers who survive the wars and come home too, they are also heroes.

Thank you for sharing this beautiful tribute to Chris Zimmerman, your son did him proud. 

Nov 22, 2024 01:14 AM
Paddy Deighan MBA JD PhD
http://www.medicalandspaconsulting.com - Vail, CO
Paddy Deighan J.D. Ph.D

Nick, very sorry to hear about your son's friend who died in service to our country. This was a wonderful pos!! Happy Thanksgiving

Nov 22, 2024 01:38 AM
Edward Gilmartin
CRE - Boston, MA

I hope our leaders keep us out of costly wars like Iraq, Afghanistan and Ukraine in the future. Trillions spent and thousands of lives lost

Nov 22, 2024 05:41 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Laura Cerrano I know how you feel, it is a big decision to join the military and put your life at risk.

Debra Leisek it does seem such a waste, and you wonder what else they might have achieved if they had lived as they are all highly motivated young men.

Paddy Deighan MBA JD PhD thank you, I know he thinks about him and the other friends he lost constantly.

Edward Gilmartin I understand, yet sometimes despots and dictators must be stood up to. In Ukraine, they are fighting for and on behalf of Europe and the West, the least we can do is support them in that fight.

Nov 22, 2024 07:37 AM
Buzz Mackintosh
Mackintosh REALTORS - Frederick, MD
“Experience, reliable, leadership”

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543  this is the perfect entry into this months contest. All of us should be grateful to the men & women who serve and especially the Gold Star Families who's sons & daughters gave their lives for our freedom. My son-in-law is in the Air Force and currently deployed in the middle east. He says "It's pretty spicy over there right now." So everyone keep all the military men & women in your thoughts & prayers. 🙏❤️🙏

Nov 22, 2024 08:34 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Buzz Mackintosh thank you for the comment, and thank your son for his service. I am sure they need to stay on alert.

Nov 22, 2024 09:03 AM
Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

Thank you so much Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543. Videos were well done.

Nov 23, 2024 03:52 AM
Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

Thanks so much for our Military Men and Women.  YOU keep us safe

 

God Bless America!

Nov 23, 2024 07:44 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573 my son is very talented in that area.

Ginger Harper thank you.

Nov 26, 2024 08:09 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Kathy Streib   I remember you writing about him speaking once before now that you refreshed my memory, Endre

Nov 30, 2024 08:29 PM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

One of my wife's uncles was a career Army veteran. I never got to meet him because he did not return from his third deployment in Vietnam.

One of my best friends served in Vietnam. The experience changed him.

I thank all of those who served and put themselves in harm's way to protect the rest of us.

Dec 09, 2024 10:56 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

I am so sorry about your wife's uncle John Juarez. War changes all people, the civilians who get caught up in it, the combatants, and their families as well. I remember seeing the wife of one of my friends weeping and wailing over his coffin at his funeral. that scene will be forever etched in my memory.

Dec 09, 2024 11:33 AM