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Wonder. Wanderful. A Journey of Thanks!

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Wonder. Wanderful. A Journey of Thanks!

 

The road less traveled came to mind, as I packed the few belongings into a hard shell suitcase, much older than my years. With $75 in my pocket, I stepped away from all that was familiar and comfortable, but suffocating, into an unpredictable world that held high hopes for a bright future.

 

Gone were the days of being told what to do, when to do it and how to, as my parents faces faded into the rearview mirror, grabbing the heart. A bus ticket opened up seemingly endless highways to a path that held so many possibilities. My newfound freedom was met head on!

 

Securing a place to live, a loan for a car, a job, the work soon filled my days. Making friends, going to the gym, a second job to help pay bills. Am thankful for the resilient mindset that came because of hardships faced as a child. Had they been less prevalent, I may not have ventured out.

 

I'd have remained with my parents, which my mother truly wanted, begging me to stay-one-more-year. Instead, the decision was in moving on, embracing uncertainty, anticipating the adventure, heading towards the unknown. Years quickly moved, akin to the speed of sound.

 

There are no vacancies held in the past, only short visits before doing an about face. Looking back is the time to appreciate life lessons, special occasions filled with true affection, aha moments, friendships formed, to bring everything to present day, where it truly matters. Grateful, thankful.

 

Every day.

 

This is an entry to: Thankful Thoughts: ActiveRain's November 2024 Gratitude Challenge 🍁🙌✍️ A special thanks to Debe Maxwell, CRS for hosting! 

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Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Fear can be a double edged sword, George Souto. Staying or going was a decision that was best met with some serious thought, glad you did and for myself as well!

Nov 20, 2024 05:28 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Yes and I listened to your special song for Max today and it was simply a beautiful tribute of your life together, Carol Williams. Both of you were blessed to have each other!

Nov 20, 2024 05:30 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Now, that you mention it, looking back, it seems easier than it actually was while in the trenches of learning, building a life and growing up, Hannah Williams. Am happy to be present for sure!

Nov 20, 2024 05:32 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Wanda- I have always loved your creativity, your forthrightness, and your strength of character!!! It looks like your journey served you well. 

Nov 20, 2024 06:09 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Am glad to have left at the time I did, Kathy Streib. My emotions were highly conflicted but knew something was out there waiting and meeting it, I did! 

Nov 20, 2024 06:30 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Wow what a powerful post and all I can say is, after High School I went to Ypsilanti, MI for two semesters until I became a citizen, then went to USMA , West Point.... and then off to the US Army... when I left the army, I returned home to my parents.... my dad wanted to get rid of me so he gave me the downpayment so I could buy a home with the VA loan:)) so nothing like you... I was a wimp:)Endre

Nov 20, 2024 09:09 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

First of all, I love your photo of the stepping stones, Wanda! As for your journey, I am sure that your parents were so proud as that is what they raised you to do - be an independent adult. And, look at you now! Your drive guides you in everything you do and it's such an admirable quality - everyone needs your drive & energy! 

Thank you for sharing your wonderful journey of gratitude. As always, wonderful post, beautifully written.

Nov 20, 2024 09:15 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Wanda - the past, the present and the future seem to combine in our thought process.   Moving and other actionable events.   Sometimes forward. An occasional step backwards, perhaps.  Sideways too.  Each can be a part of everyday living.  

Nov 21, 2024 03:38 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

That definitely provides a great example of what I feel is necessary for younger people to achieve success in life.  If we always have someone to take care of us, we never learn how to take care of ourselves.

Nov 21, 2024 05:06 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

This was a wonderful gratitude post to read. And this "Looking back is the time to appreciate life lessons, special occasions filled with true affection, aha moments, friendships formed, to bring everything to present day, where it truly matters." - Yes, looking back provides a much clearer picture of how our decisions impacted our lives.

Nov 21, 2024 05:29 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Went to basic training at Lackland AFB in San Antonio, Texas for the National Guard as well. Would do it all again, Endre Barath, Jr.!

Nov 21, 2024 09:29 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Am proud of the fact that, though I struggled plenty, I never asked them for a penny, Debe Maxwell, CRS. Finding ways to be self-suffient were challenging but I pushed ahead, despite experiencing a high level of fear!

Nov 21, 2024 09:31 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Funny but, I recently had this same conversation with my Dad, Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! I left home for college but, one thing I never did - even as a college student - was ask for a penny. They raised me to be independent and I was determined to never ask for any help. I can proudly say that to this day, I've never asked them for anything other than love!

 

Nov 21, 2024 12:56 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!

And look at you, Debe Maxwell, CRS. Your parents have got to be so proud of the daughter they raised! 💖

Nov 21, 2024 01:02 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Setbacks were all part of the independence process, there were quite a few but not so much that I went back home, Michael Jacobs. For me, I chose the struggle over the high price of someone else making decisions for me again!

Nov 21, 2024 09:33 AM
Lynnea Miller
Bend Premier Real Estate - Bend, OR
Premier Real Estate Service in Central Oregon

Stepping forward with nothing is something that takes a lot of courage.  Congratulations on your success!

Nov 21, 2024 09:48 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Self discovery is an amazing thing, Brian England. I saw a news report where a 10 year old walked to the store by himself in Georgia (where I grew up) and the cops arrested his mother, saying it was abuse.

My mother would have gone to prison because of the lax standards while 8 of us kids went out to play all day, unsupervised, while growing up!

Nov 21, 2024 09:51 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Gauging our present success in life does depend on past experiences, Kat Palmiotti. Dwelling on setbacks is destructive and is never the path to set up shop. This, I do know!

Nov 21, 2024 09:55 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Thank you, Lynnea Miller. Guess I was actually braver than I felt at that time. I managed to look ahead at what to achieve, instead of comparing myself to others!

Nov 21, 2024 09:58 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Wanda:

After your momentous decision you certainly embraced a journey of challenges, growth, learning and life lessons, and look where it got you! Bravo, and so much to be thankful for.

Jeff

Nov 21, 2024 04:31 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Thank you, Jeff Dowler, CRS, a tough childhood prepared me for the outside world and helped to make me a well-rounded person, who was able to remain grounded. For the most part, that is!

Nov 21, 2024 05:18 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I did not make any conscious decision to embrace uncertainty, but uncertainty certainly had a way of find me, and making me confront it head on!

Nov 22, 2024 07:32 PM