Do you remember where you were when you heard President Kennedy was shot and had died 61 years ago, today, on November 22nd, 1963?
I still remember it as if it was yesterday. In fact, I find it hard to believe 61 years have passed.
61 years ago, today, I was 15 years old, a sophomore in high school, and was in a biology lab class when someone came in to announce that the President had been shot and had died. As I was attending a parochial high school, I remember quietly filing out with all my classmates to the school's chapel for prayers for the President and then an early dismissal of school.
I suspect that those of us who were of a certain age in 1963 could ever forget where we were and how we felt when we heard this news. To this day, I believe that our nation's innocence was shattered on November 22nd, 1963 and it's never been recovered.
"A new era dawned and another waned a half century ago when hope and hatred collided right here in Dallas."
... Mike Rawlings
My impressions of that day and the days to follow through the funeral events remain crystal clear to this day:
- I remember how quiet we all were on the bus ride back home from school. And as we travelled via New York City public buses, the quiet on the buses was truly overwhelming.
- I remember how quiet a bustling city like New York became for the next four days. Looking out our living room windows, all I could see was empty streets.
- In a home where TV watching was hugely rationed, I remember how our TV went on and stayed on for the next several days. And because in those days, most people had black and white TV's, the broadcasting in grey tones truly matched the grey and sad mood of that weekend. It truly felt as if the world had gone grey. And it didn't matter what your political affiliations were.
- I remember the funeral procession, I remember little John Kennedy saluting his father's casket, I remember the lighting of the eternal flame, I remember Jacqueline Kennedy's dignity throughout.
- I remember going through those days feeling as if I was living in some dream state, as if what I was watching was surreal and that I would wake up and things would go back to what they were a few days earlier.
61 years later, I'm still amazed at the clarity with which I remember that weekend and my overwhelming feeling of quiet, sadness, and greyness. And as I think back on my life, I've realized there aren't all that many events (outside of personal ones like a wedding, death of a parent) that remain so crystal clear in my mind as to where I was when an event occurred. For me, this was the first such event, followed by the assassination of Robert Kennedy, the explosion of the Challenger, the first walk on the moon, 9/11, and the first night of the Gulf War in 1991 (as I lived adjacent to the war theatre in the United Arab Emirates at that time).
"If that hadn't happened, history might have changed. He was a different kind of president."
... Michael Fontaine
Regardless of your political affiliation, President John F Kennedy's voice was a truly inspirational voice for its time. And in many ways, that voice has transcended its time. To this day, the only presidential inauguration speech I can recite pieces of or even remember content from is that of John F Kennedy. I recently listened to it again and could only marvel at the timelessness of its message.
“My fellow Americans: ask not what your country can do for you—ask what you can do for your country.”
... John F Kennedy
Remembering those days, today, 61 years later, I'm wondering how this event will be acknowledged 25 years from now. In another 25 years the people who lived through that event will probably no longer be alive. It will truly be "old" history to many who will be alive in 25 years. I am still amazed to think about how many of the people of that time are now gone--because it doesn't seem as if more than 60 years have passed. Today, 61 years later, I still feel an overwhelming sadness and sense of loss and a lot of "what ifs."
"A nation reveals itself not only by the men it produces but also by the men it honors, the men it remembers.”
... John F Kennedy
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